Table of Contents
Author's Note ix
I see you. I got you. I love you. xi
Part 1 The Case for Intimacy 1
Chapter 1 More than Sex 3
Chapter 2 Getting to the Root 13
Chapter 3 The Radical Intimacy Matrix 21
Part 2 Emotional Intimacy 33
Chapter 4 How Do You Feel? 35
Chapter 5 Licking Honey from the Razor's Edge 45
Chapter 6 Emotional Independence 59
Exercises for Cultivating Emotional Intimacy 71
Part 3 Physical Intimacy 77
Chapter 7 Master Your Instrument 79
Chapter 8 The Mind-Body Double Helix 101
Chapter 9 Sovereignty Is Your Birthright 119
Exercises for Cultivating Physical Intimacy 132
Part 4 Energetic Intimacy 155
Chapter 10 The Space in Between 157
Chapter 11 The Attachment Myth 169
Chapter 12 A Deep and Abiding Presence 179
Exercises for Cultivating Energetic Intimacy 187
Part 5 Creating Synergy 193
Chapter 13 The Weaving of All Parts 195
Chapter 14 Sustaining Radical Intimacy 207
Trauma Response Tool Kit for Calming and Self Regulation 215
Acknowledgments 219
Index 225