You Raised Us, Now Work With Us: Millennials, Career Success, and Building Strong Workplace Teams
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This book is packed with hard data and interesting anecdotes. It provides actionable solutions and a detailed roadmap for retaining and developing the next generation of leaders. Written for managers, professionals of all generations, and even parents, You Raised Us, Now Work With Us offers a practical and thoughtful interpretation of the stereotypes that preceded Millennials into the workplace. Rikleen dispels those stereotypes with fresh analysis as well as concrete strategies for helping the generations better understand each other and build more collaborative relationships.
Lauren Stiller Rikleen is a nationally recognized expert on developing a thriving, diverse, and multi-generational workforce. She brings decades of experience to her analysis, including as an author, a law firm partner, a mediator, and a professional and community leader. She is frequently requested to appear as a keynote speaker and to lead programs and workshops that offer concrete strategies for: strengthening multi-generational teams; creating a culture that supports women’s leadership and advancement; and minimizing the impacts of unconscious bias in workplace decisions.
The book provides a cultural and familial context to the key behaviors attributed to Millennials, while offering practical advice and proven strategies to help all generations maximize each other's strengths in the workplace. You Raised Us, Now Work With Us is an indispensable resource for Millennials, Gen Xers, and Baby Boomers wanting to bring out the best in each other and enhance their own career success.
Product Details
ISBN-13: | 9781634252812 |
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Publisher: | American Bar Association |
Publication date: | 04/07/2016 |
Edition description: | Revised and Updated |
Pages: | 267 |
Product dimensions: | 5.90(w) x 8.90(h) x 0.90(d) |
About the Author
She is also a board member and interim executive director of Lawyers Defending American Democracy, a non-profit, non-partisan organization dedicated to protecting democracy and the rule of law.
Lauren is the author of several books. The Shield of Silence: How Power Perpetuates a Culture of Harassment and Bullying in the Workplace (ABA 2019), combines detailed research, extensive interviews, and strategic recommendations for addressing misconduct and the silence that fuels it. You Raised Us, Now Work With Us: Millennials, Career Success, and Building Strong Workplace Teams (ABA 2014, 2016) analyzes unfair stereotypes that have long been applied to Millennials, and offers strategies for strengthening multi-generational relationships. She is also the author of Ladder Down: Success Strategies For Lawyers From Women Who Will Be Hiring, Reviewing, and Promoting You; and Ending the Gauntlet: Removing Barriers to Women’s Success in the Law.
Lauren is the editor of the new ABA book, Her Honor: Stories of Challenge and Triumph from Women Judges, an anthology of personal stories by and about some of the country’s most respected female judges (all of whom were recipients of the ABA’s Margaret Brent Women Lawyers of Achievement Award, presented by the Commission on Women in the Profession).
Lauren has written extensively on a variety of workplace topics, authoring more than 200 articles and numerous reports, and is interviewed frequently by publications around the country. As a member of the ABA Presidential Task Force on Gender Equity, she authored a key document focusing on the gender gap in compensation, Closing the Gap: A Road Map for Achieving Gender Pay Equity in Law Firm Partner Compensation. She was also the principal author of the Task Force publication, Power of the Purse: How General Counsel Can Impact Pay Equity. In 2018, Lauren partnered with the Women’s Bar Association of Massachusetts to create a survey and author a report to identify incidents of law firm misconduct and the rate of reporting: Survey of Workplace Conduct and Behaviors in Law Firms.
As a former law firm equity partner, Lauren managed a diverse environmental law and mediation practice and was selected by her peers to be listed in Best Lawyers in America, Chambers USA America’s Leading Business Lawyers, and Massachusetts Super Lawyers.
Within the ABA, Lauren co-chairs the Women’s Caucus and is a member of the Standing Committee on Publishing Oversight. Her many past leadership roles include serving on the Board of Governors, the Commission on Women in the Profession, as chair of the Section of Civil Rights & Social Justice, and as a member of the ABA Journal Board of Editors. She has also served on the Board of the Rule of Law Initiative, as a former member of the ABA Commission on Sexual Orientation and Gender Identity, and on the Standing Committee on Bar Activities & Services. Lauren has also served as a special advisor to the American Bar Foundation.
Lauren’s bar leadership also extends to her significant involvement in the Boston Bar Association, including serving as its president (the first non-Boston attorney to do so).
She has also been actively involved in her community, including serving as a trustee of Clark University, helping to create and serve as president of two local charities, serving as the first woman chair of the MetroWest Chamber of Commerce, and serving as a trustee of the Middlesex Savings Bank.
Among her many awards, Lauren was a 2017 recipient of the prestigious Margaret Brent Women Lawyers of Achievement Award and was named by Public Media’s Next Avenue as one of the 50 Most Influential People in Aging.
Her detailed bio and additional information can be found at: www.RikleenInstitute.com
Table of Contents
Acknowledgments xv
Acknowledgments, Paperback Version xviii
Part 1
1 Why Another Book About the Millennial Generation Now? 3
The Generational Lens 5
Exploring Nuances, Strengthening Ties 5
The Survey 6
Cautionary Notes 7
2 On the Cusp 11
When "Anything Is Possible" Meets Reality 11
3 Generations in Transition-Searching for the New Normal 17
The Long Workplace Shadow 17
It Used to Be All About Us: The Baby Boomers 18
Does Anyone Know We Are Here? Generation X 19
Enter Millennials 21
4 Uphill Both Ways-The Millennials' View of their Generational Legacy 23
A Different Generational Lens 23
Appreciating the Legacy of Education 25
Can We Move On? 27
The Haze of Hindsight 29
The Complexity of Choice 30
Generations, Gender, and Rejecting the Cost of Emulation 31
Facing Work in a Troubled Economy 34
Intra-Generational Differences and the Commonality of Confidence 36
5 Ground Control to Major Tom-Send in the Helicopter 39
Boomers as Adolescents: Bringing Activism Home 40
Stranger Danger and Other Fears 41
The Structure of Play 43
Boomers and Gen X as Parents-Coach, Advisor, and Best Friend 44
The Role of Siblings 49
Not All Advice Is Equal 49
Elusive Adulthood, Transitioning Relationships 53
6 Parents, Can You Spare a Condo? Perspectives on Parental Financial Support 57
From Stranger Danger to a Dangerous Economy 57
Providing Shelter in a Storm 58
Don't judge Me by Your Crisis 60
The Long Chain of Student Debt 61
Motivated Beyond Dependency 64
Competitive Pressures 66
Not Me 67
7 What Does the Mirror See-Entitlement or Self-Respect? 71
Defining Entitlement 72
Underlying Gratitude for Great Expectations 75
The Celebrity Factor 77
Sorry, Wrong Generation 79
The Label Does Not Fit 80
Intra-Generational Differences 82
Not Me Redux 84
Economic Circumstances as a Determining Factor 87
Losing Entitlement to the Global Crisis 89
The Beat Goes On 91
Where Confidence and Entitlement Merge 92
8 He Talks, She Texts-Is Anybody Listening? 95
Life-Long Impacts of Growing Up Digital 96
Adjusting to Differences at Work 100
Communicating Across Generational Barriers 103
Restricting Communications and Other Acts of Futility 104
Adept at Adapting 107
Power Plays and the Need for Control 110
Ignored Suggestions 111
Professions Stuck in Reverse 112
Unrecognized Tutors 114
Overbroad Assumptions 117
Good Humor and Backup Plans 117
9 "You Cannot Wear That to Work!" 121
Beyond the Outfit 122
The Flip-Flop Firestorm 123
Appearances and Impressions 124
Dressing for the Job You Want 125
The Ripple Effect 126
Gendered Judgments 127
Productivity Impacts of Casual Comfort 130
Dressing for Different Audiences 132
Dress Codes 133
Body Piercings 136
Peer Disapproval 137
The Economic Burden 138
Unasked Questions, Unspoken Answers 140
Where Clothes Are a Euphemism 142
Part 2
10 Navigating Ambiguity and Other Lessons That Helicopter Parents Should Have Taught 147
Emerging Adulthood 147
Discomfort with Ambiguity 150
Internships That Once Were Jobs 152
11 Definitions at Variance: Hard Work, Loyalty, and Self-Perceptions 155
Primed to Work 155
The Continued Pattern of Differentiation 157
A Different Definitional View 158
The Heart of the Intergenerational Disconnect 160
Your Bad Management Is Not My Lack of Loyalty and Work Ethic 162
Technology Is More Than a Tether 169
Responding to the Lure of Entrepreneurship 172
Work That Has Meaning 174
12 Moving Forward with Feedback 179
Ask Me No Questions, I'll Tell You No Lies 179
Tell Me You Love Me 181
Passive-Aggressive Comments Are Not Feedback 184
13 Rethinking the Workplace 187
If It No Longer Fits 187
Family Matters 190
No Longer a Women's Issue 191
The Specter of Stigma 194
Holding On to Sacrifice 195
The Public Discomfort with Personal Time 197
The Currency of Time 199
Work-Life Integration in a Troubled Economy 202
Drawing Lines, Respecting Boundaries 203
Laying the Groundwork, Setting an Example 205
The Opportunity That Should Come from Crisis 206
The Bottom Line 207
The Competition Is Not Your Competitor-and Other Lessons from the Sharing Economy and Disruptive Technologies 208
Part 3
14 Adapting the Workplace to Develop Tomorrow's Leaders 213
Money Matters 214
Building Resilience; Retaining Optimism 214
Seeing Past "Entitlement" to Appreciate Self-Confidence 215
Developing Navigational Skills 217
Replacing Clout with Mutual Respect 218
The Value of Inefficiency 220
Building Relationships Through Expertise 221
Responding to Technology Barriers 222
Assessing Skills, Recognizing Value, and Reverse Mentoring 224
The Dual Benefits of Feedback and Transparency 226
Working Smarter, and Hoping You Will as Well 229
15 The Future Thanks You for Your Sanity-How Millennials Have Redefined Success and What It Means for the Future 233
The Power of Joined Forces 235
The Work Benefits of Happiness 235
Redefining Success 237
Millennials' Legacy 238
Bibliography 239
Notes 263