Table of Contents
Acknowledgments ix
Foreword xi
Introduction xvii
Part 1 Settling In
Wild Thing Baby Jay Mankita 3
Following Fifi Kitty Hughes Bridget Connelly 4
In the Order of Things Douglas Silsbee l5
Talking about Race and Gender Joan Steinau Lester 23
In and Out of Step Gloria Avner 30
The Whirling Heart Dance of Grandmothering Saphira Linden 34
Carving Paths in Snow Gill Wright Miller 44
Listening to Leo Lindy Hough 57
Part 2 Balancing Reality and Hope
Evolving as a Grandmother Nadia Natali 67
Grandparenting with a Broken Heart Judyth O. Weaver 72
Professional Grandma Salle Webber 76
Confessions of a New Step-Grandparent Sharon Bray 84
Love through the Distances Keith Dalton 93
Four Generations of First-Born Daughters Donne Davis 102
TwinsDay and Night Joanna Biggar 110
The Accidental Grandmother Karine Schomer 123
Part 3 Grandparents Raising Grandchildren
A Heart's Perspective Avery Bradford 141
An Explosion of Love Joanne Maurits 149
The Grampy Diaries John Lunn 155
A Legacy of Parenting Lenora Madison Poe 168
My Grandkids Keep Me Young JoAnn Wynn 177
Being There for a Child Forever Karen Best Wright 186
Part 4 Grandchildren Remember
Hark, the Moaning Pond Tissa Abeysekara 195
Calling Clotilde Lauren Aczon 211
The Collapse David Jackson Cook 220
Grandmother's Lap Nancy Hathaway 299
The Russian Album Michael Ignatieff 235
Angels Gather Here Vanessa Smith 247
Obaachan: What Do You Want to Do? Stephen Murphy-Shigematsu 255
Contributors 263
About the Editor 269
Permissions and Copyrights 270