Table of Contents
Acknowledgments xi
Introduction 1
1 Study 17
2 Attentive Listening 22
3 Orderly Speech 27
4 Understanding of the Heart 32
5 Fear 37
6 Awe 44
7 Humility 49
8 Joy 55
9 Serving the Sages 60
10 Closeness to Friends 64
11 Debating with Students 69
12 Settledness 75
13 Studying the Written and Oral Torah 80
14 Purity 85
15 Limiting Sleep 90
16 Limiting Conversation 95
17 Limiting Work or Business 100
18 Limiting Levity 105
19 Limiting Pleasure 110
20 Limiting Mundane Activities 115
21 Slow to Anger 120
21 Goodheartedness 125
23 Faith in the Sages 130
24 Accepting Suffering 135
25 Knowing One's Place 140
26 Happiness with Your Portion 145
27 Making a Fence around Your Activities 150
28 Not Claiming Credit for Oneself 155
29 Being Beloved 160
30 Loving God 165
31 Loving God's Creatures 170
32 Loving Rebukes 175
33 Love of Uprightness 180
34 Distancing from Honor 185
35 Not Being Overly Satisfied in One's Learning 190
36 Not Taking Joy in Handing Down Rulings 195
37 Bearing the Burden with the Other 200
38 Judging Others Favorably 205
39 Leading Others to Truth 210
40 Leading Others to Peace 215
41 Being Settled in One's Studies 220
42 Asking Pertinent Questions 225
43 Listening and Contributing 230
44 Learning in Order to Teach 235
45 Learning in Order to Do 240
46 Making One's Teacher Wise 245
47 Clarifying What One Has Heard 249
48 Saying Something in the Name of Its Speaker 254
Conclusion: With Heart in Mind 259
Notes 263