Table of Contents
Foreword Dennis Barbara Rainey 13
Part 1 Going Vertical
1 Six Words That Changed Everything 17
2 "I've Lost My Feelings for You" 25
3 A Surprise in the Honeymoon Suite 38
4 The Vertical Starts Here 48
Part 2 Conflict and Communication
5 "Come Back Here and Fight Like a Man!" 65
6 Welcome to the Jungle 75
7 The Shapes of Wrath 85
8 Just Zip It 97
9 Tear Down That Wall 107
10 "All I Hear Is, 'Boo!'" 125
11 What Every Wife Longs For 138
Part 3 Intimacy
12 Sex in the Chapel 151
13 Don't You Think about Sex All the Time? 161
14 Dave's Neck Problem (Ann's Perspective) 178
15 Dave's Neck Problem (Dave's Perspective) 186
Part 4 Living Vertical
16 All In 205
17 Victory through Surrender 218
Acknowledgments 229
Going Vertical: Questions for Couples 233