Thinking Out Loud: Love, Grief and Being Mum and Dad

Thinking Out Loud: Love, Grief and Being Mum and Dad

by Rio Ferdinand


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'A lacerating account ... painful but necessary'EVENING STANDARD

'Beautiful & significant ... Tackles grief with honesty' DAWN FRENCH

'Very important and moving book' ALASTAIR CAMPBELL

'A searingly honest book. So much of Rio's emotional turmoil and deep loss resonated with me. At the same time I loved his message of hope' GLORIA HUNNIFORD

'Rio's courageous story of life, loss, grief and hope'PRIMA CHRISTMAS GIFT GUIDE, 'Best of the Celebrity Crop'

'Tender, heartbreaking ... An extraordinary and unforgettable book. *****'HEAT

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'When Rebecca died, the idea that one day I might begin to feel better would have struck me as laughable ... I know how persuasive this kind of permanence thinking can be.

I know too that anyone locked in its grip will laugh if I promise them that their pain will one day ease. It will. Of course it will. But I know better than to expect anyone to believe me.'

In 2015, former England football star Rio Ferdinand suddenly and tragically lost his wife and soulmate Rebecca, aged 34, to cancer. It was a profound shock and Rio found himself struggling to cope not just with the pain of his grief, but also with his new role as both mum and dad to their three young children.

Rio's BBC1 documentary, Being Mum and Dad, touched everyone who watched it and won huge praise for the honesty and bravery he showed in talking about his emotions and experiences. His book now shares the story of meeting, marrying and losing Rebecca, his own and the family's grief - as well as the advice and support that get him through each day as they strive to piece themselves back together. Thinking Out Loud is written in the hope that he can inspire others struggling with loss and grief to find the help they need through this most difficult of times.

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Product Details

ISBN-13: 9781473670259
Publisher: Hodder & Stoughton, Ltd.
Publication date: 11/13/2018
Pages: 288
Product dimensions: 5.40(w) x 9.30(h) x 0.70(d)

About the Author

Rio Ferdinand is a former England footballer who also played football for Manchester United during Sir Alex Ferguson's time as manager. Rio played 81 times for England and in 3 World Cups, and is one of the most decorated footballers of all time.

He had his first son with Rebecca in 2006 and they married in 2009, going on to have two more children before her death in May 2015 from cancer.

Rio is now a TV football pundit for BT Sport and as well as his BBC documentary on bereavement, Being Mum and Dad, has made a short Heads Together charity film with Prince Harry on mental health. He is also working alongside Child Bereavement and Jigsaw.

Table of Contents

Preface 3

1 Life-changing Moments 9

2 Chaos 23

3 Growing Up 45

4 Learning to Win 69

5 Fame and Fortune 85

6 Finding the One 95

7 Love and Football 109

8 Best-laid Plans 125

9 The Impossible Goodbye 141

10 Lost in Grief 155

11 Opening Up 171

12 Remembering Mummy 195

13 Not Alone 211

14 Finding Our Way 223

15 Mum 233

Afterword 247

Letters of Support 253

Where to Find Help 259

Acknowledgements 263

Index 269

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