Thicker Than Blood: Adoptive Parenting in the Modern World
The act of adopting children, and the processes and politics around it, have changed drastically in recent decades, mostly for the better. Still, many prospective adoptive parents remain bewildered or apprehensive, and those who have adopted find themselves struggling in ways they hadn't anticipated.

Thicker Than Blood is a comprehensive yet down-to-earth look at adoptive parenting in the twenty-first century. Author Marion Crook's family includes two adopted sons; in her experience, adoptive parents need to acquire skills, knowledge, and a good sense of humor in order to deal with the emotional upheavals of raising adopted children.

The book looks at all facets of adoption, including its dark history over the past one hundred years when it was seen as a lower-class option for desperate parents, or when children were taken from single mothers against their will. Today, adoption is much more open-minded—LGBT adoptive parents and adoptive single parents are now commonplace—yet challenges linger, from adoptive children suffering from PTSD to those dealing with issues of anger and abandonment. Crook gently takes adoptive parents through the process of adoption from childhood to adulthood, helping to demystify the experience with compassion and reassurance.

Meticulously researched but refreshingly free of academic jargon, Thicker Than Blood will enlighten and empower adoptive parents and those who work with adopted children alike.

Marion Crook is the author of twenty-one previous books which include novels and nonfiction for both adults and young people, on such subjects as women's health, teen suicide, and body image.

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Thicker Than Blood: Adoptive Parenting in the Modern World
The act of adopting children, and the processes and politics around it, have changed drastically in recent decades, mostly for the better. Still, many prospective adoptive parents remain bewildered or apprehensive, and those who have adopted find themselves struggling in ways they hadn't anticipated.

Thicker Than Blood is a comprehensive yet down-to-earth look at adoptive parenting in the twenty-first century. Author Marion Crook's family includes two adopted sons; in her experience, adoptive parents need to acquire skills, knowledge, and a good sense of humor in order to deal with the emotional upheavals of raising adopted children.

The book looks at all facets of adoption, including its dark history over the past one hundred years when it was seen as a lower-class option for desperate parents, or when children were taken from single mothers against their will. Today, adoption is much more open-minded—LGBT adoptive parents and adoptive single parents are now commonplace—yet challenges linger, from adoptive children suffering from PTSD to those dealing with issues of anger and abandonment. Crook gently takes adoptive parents through the process of adoption from childhood to adulthood, helping to demystify the experience with compassion and reassurance.

Meticulously researched but refreshingly free of academic jargon, Thicker Than Blood will enlighten and empower adoptive parents and those who work with adopted children alike.

Marion Crook is the author of twenty-one previous books which include novels and nonfiction for both adults and young people, on such subjects as women's health, teen suicide, and body image.

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Thicker Than Blood: Adoptive Parenting in the Modern World

Thicker Than Blood: Adoptive Parenting in the Modern World

Thicker Than Blood: Adoptive Parenting in the Modern World

Thicker Than Blood: Adoptive Parenting in the Modern World

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Overview

The act of adopting children, and the processes and politics around it, have changed drastically in recent decades, mostly for the better. Still, many prospective adoptive parents remain bewildered or apprehensive, and those who have adopted find themselves struggling in ways they hadn't anticipated.

Thicker Than Blood is a comprehensive yet down-to-earth look at adoptive parenting in the twenty-first century. Author Marion Crook's family includes two adopted sons; in her experience, adoptive parents need to acquire skills, knowledge, and a good sense of humor in order to deal with the emotional upheavals of raising adopted children.

The book looks at all facets of adoption, including its dark history over the past one hundred years when it was seen as a lower-class option for desperate parents, or when children were taken from single mothers against their will. Today, adoption is much more open-minded—LGBT adoptive parents and adoptive single parents are now commonplace—yet challenges linger, from adoptive children suffering from PTSD to those dealing with issues of anger and abandonment. Crook gently takes adoptive parents through the process of adoption from childhood to adulthood, helping to demystify the experience with compassion and reassurance.

Meticulously researched but refreshingly free of academic jargon, Thicker Than Blood will enlighten and empower adoptive parents and those who work with adopted children alike.

Marion Crook is the author of twenty-one previous books which include novels and nonfiction for both adults and young people, on such subjects as women's health, teen suicide, and body image.


Product Details

ISBN-13: 9781551526317
Publisher: Arsenal Pulp Press, Limited
Publication date: 06/21/2016
Pages: 196
Product dimensions: 5.90(w) x 8.60(h) x 0.50(d)

About the Author


Marion Crook, PhD, is the author of twenty-one previous books which include novels and nonfiction books for both adults and young people, on such subjects as women’s health, teen suicide, and body image. She is an adoptive parent and lives on the Sunshine Coast of British Columbia.

Table of Contents

Acknowledgments 13

Foreword Adam Pertman 15

Introduction 19

Chapter 1 Secrecy in Adoption 27

Pre-1900s 27

The Twentieth Century 32

The Twenty-first Century 44

The Importance of Love 45

Chapter 2 Why Parents Adopt 49

The Need for Family 49

Altruism 51

In Response to Social Influences 51

In Response to Religious Pressures 52

To Legalize a Surrogate Birth 54

To Create a Loving Environment 55

Chapter 3 Becoming a Family 57

Expectations 58

Fears 60

Realities 68

Experiences of Love 72

Chapter 4 Successful Parenting 75

Our Vision 75

What Skills Do We Need? 76

Learn to Love 90

Chapter 5 What Children Need and How Parents Can Help 93

Special Needs of Adoptees 93

Planning for Abandonment Issues 98

Resilience of Adoptees 99

Establishing Identity within the Family 100

Separating from Family 103

Need for Adoptive Mother 104

Need for Adoptive Father 105

Diversity and LGBTQ Parents 108

Racial Identity 111

Can We Provide the Love Our Children Need? 117

Chapter 6 Helping Adoptees through Ages and Stages 121

Newborns and Infants 121

Toddlers 126

Elementary School Age 128

Teens 139

Young Adults 147

We Still Love Them 149

Chapter 7 The Changing World of Adoption 153

Types of Adoption 153

Changes in Who Adopts 163

Changing Role of Agencies 165

Emotional Effects of Adoption 171

Influence of Celebrity Adoptions 172

Trending toward Love 173

Chapter 8 Search and Reunion 177

Before the Search Begins 177

The Search for Origins 185

The Reunion 190

What Does Love Have to Do with It? 195

Chapter 9 The Future of Adoption 197

The Changing Philosophy 198

Profiting from Adoption 200

The Matching Game 202

Family Coherence 203

Love and Quantum Physics 205

Further Reading 207

Index 209

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