The Transgender Myth: Through the Gender Looking Glass

The Transgender Myth: Through the Gender Looking Glass

by Paula Mirare Overby
The Transgender Myth: Through the Gender Looking Glass

The Transgender Myth: Through the Gender Looking Glass

by Paula Mirare Overby

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Overview

Paula had a great childhood believing she was a girl. She dreamed of being a 50's-TV-style mom, just like Donna Reed and June Cleaver. Just like her own mother. When she was enrolled in a school that separated boys and girls, she faced the realization that she was a boy, and soon, the harsh realization; she was never going to be pregnant.

After two devastating relationship with men, she discovered the love of another woman and her young child. As provider in the image of her father, she also raised her children in the traditional homemaker image of her mother. Tensions grew during the 28 year marriage until Paula was forced out of her home under allegations a transgender woman was unfit to be a mother.

Despite overwhelming consensus that no judge would ever give her custody of her youngest son, Paula was unwilling to abandon him. As her own attorney, she fought a four year custody battle.

Isolation and the economic and emotional stress combined with threats from the court drove Paula into a near suicidal depression. The love of her son prevailed. Paula regained custody while becoming the woman she had always know she was.

 


Product Details

ISBN-13: 9781532361951
Publisher: Mirare Publishing
Publication date: 11/24/2017
Sold by: Barnes & Noble
Format: eBook
Pages: 352
File size: 3 MB

About the Author

Paula Overby is a graduate of the University of Minnesota, Minneapolis with a BA in psychology and a second major in computer science. After graduation, she worked in Germany followed by several years providing community-based mental health services, before entering her primary career as a systems quality analyst. Despite her successful career as a systems analyst, Paula's principle focus remained with raising her three children. She envisions the future through the eyes of her children, two daughters, and a son. She has experience in business management and briefly assumed the role of Chief Executive Officer for a laboratory technology startup. Paula is a community activist supporting the implementation of community programs for dealing with domestic violence and Intimate Partner Abuse. She is a trained advocate for victims of sexual violence. Paula has also served as a facilitator for groups of male survivors of childhood sexual abuse and is a qualified presenter for the AMONG MEN project, providing sexuality and relationship training for gay men. Paula served as an HIV community educator and also served on the board of directors for the Twin Cities Men's center. As a transgender woman, Paula has also been active in the support of the transgender community. The Transgender Myth is her first major publication on the issue of gender and transgender identity. Beginning in 2012, Paula served on three of the state standing committees for the Minnesota democratic party where she focused intently on outreach and inclusion for underrepresented groups. She was elected to the position of state director in 2013 by the state central committee. Paula sought the democratic endorsement for US House of Representatives in Minnesota's second district in 2014. That same year she continued the challenge, by accepting the endorsement of the Independence Party of Minnesota. In 2014, she was the first openly transgender woman to run for the US House of representatives. She ran again in 2016, increasing her percentage of the vote from 5% to 8%. Paula is a political organizer for the Minnesota minor parties coalition and the National movement for an independent people's party. She is currently running for US Senate in the state of Minnesota for the 2018 election in support of that movement.

Table of Contents

Foreword

Part I: Childhood Innocence

Chapter One: Start at the Beginning

Chapter Two: Boys and Girls

Chapter Three: One Part Country

Part II: Adolescence

Chapter Four: City Boy, Country Girl

Chapter Five: Artistic Disguise

Part III Social Conscience

Chapter Six: Freedom Fighter

Chapter Seven: Men 101

Chapter Eight: Decade of My Youth

Chapter Nine: My First Pregnancy

Part IV: Lost Innocence

Chapter Ten: College life

Chapter Eleven: Cultural Transition

Chapter Twelve: The Hour Glass

Chapter Thirteen: End of Men

Part V: Uncommon Bonds

Chapter Fourteen: We’re a Family

Chapter Fifteen: First Family Christmas

Chapter Sixteen: My First Child

Chapter Seventeen: Full Catastrophe Living

Chapter Eighteen: The Proposal

Chapter Nineteen: Like Father, Like Son

Part VI: Married Life

Chapter Twenty: Transgender Sexuality

Chapter Twenty-one: Infidelity

Chapter Twenty-two: Common Ground

Part VII: Motherhood

Chapter Twenty-three: New Mom

Chapter Twenty-four: Bear the Cross

Chapter Twenty-five: Parenting Styles

Chapter Twenty-six: One Girl, One Boy

Chapter Twenty-seven: Mommy Play Day

Chapter Twenty-eight: Missing Messages

Part VIII: Gender Rebellion

Chapter Twenty-nine: Man in a Dress

Chapter Thirty: A Common Question

Chapter Thirty-one: Unraveling

Chapter Thirty-two: Last Showdown

Chapter Thirty-three: Family Therapy

Chapter Thirty-four: Revolution

Chapter Thirty-five: One Last Detail

Chapter Thirty-six: Shattered dreams

Part IX: Uncommon Origins

Chapter Thirty-seven: Wedding Day Blues

Chapter Thirty-eight: Expert Identity Disorder

Chapter Thirty-nine: Only Temporary

Chapter Forty: Faith

Chapter Forty-one: Bankrupt

Chapter Forty-two: Step One

Chapter Forty-three: Returning Home

Chapter Forty-four: Natural Consequences

Part X: Flowering Gardenia

Chapter Forty-five: Transition

Chapter Forty-six: The Abyss

Chapter Forty-seven: Child Support

Chapter Forty-eight: Order to Show Cause

Chapter Forty-nine: Woman’s Prerogative

Chapter Fifty: Last Stand

Final Chapter: Back to the Beginning

Appendix A: Confessions of a Cross-dresser

Appendix B: Your Affiant Sayeth Not

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