**The #1-Rated Dating Book on Amazon for 4 Years**
WHAT SECRETS DID I LEARN FROM ANSWERING 5000 WOMEN'S LETTERS ON THEIR LOVE LIVES?
Here's the 3-word summary of the book for ya: be the light.
Huh? Well, 5000 or so letters I've received from women readers on their dating woes can all be boiled down to this: "Am I enough?" Answer: Wrong question! Because that's not a game you can win! Focus on this question instead: "How can I make the people around me feel like a billion bucks?"
Generate the Love You Want Instead of Waiting for It to Happen
Because at any point in life, you have the option to elevate those around you -- with a look, a touch, a phrase of praise, genuine appreciation. "Hey, love what you've done with that outfit." "That was a great book! Learned so much." "Thanks for the fabulous meal!"
When you appreciate and elevate others, they light up. And because we're hypersocial, empathic beings equipped with mirror neurons, YOU light up, and everyone notices: "Who is that glow-in-the-dark girl? I want to be around that!"
Now, you've got a crowd gathered around you. Lonely no more! And instead of coming from a place of lack or need, you're coming from abundance, joy, and choice. A much stronger starting point for any relationship.
But most important: Fashions change. The power to elevate, on the other hand, is power that cannot be taken away from you. The Tao of Dating is your manual for learning how to be the light and come into your authentic power.
This is not your grandma's dating guide. Partially because I'm not your grandma, and partially because the 21st century poses unprecedented challenges to the modern woman. Is there time for love within a high-powered career? And nowadays, lots of guys are less educated and affluent than you. What to do? I give you tips on how to handle all that. Join the tens of thousands of women who have transformed their lives with "The Tao of Dating."
