The Science of Shame and Its Treatment

The Science of Shame and Its Treatment

by Gerald Loren Fishkin
The Science of Shame and Its Treatment

The Science of Shame and Its Treatment

by Gerald Loren Fishkin

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Overview

Shame is the ghost in the machine of the human mind.  It can implant itself in the psyche before the first word is spoken, even before the first thought has formed.  In his groundbreaking book, The Science of Shame and Its Treatment, psychotherapist and author Gerald Loren Fishkin, Ph.D., addresses the genesis of shame and self-talk from an empirical analysis of their core elements, its insidious ingress into conscious thought, and the havoc it inflicts on a person’s self-worth and behavior.

Through his empirical analysis and understanding of toxic shame, Dr. Fishkin has identified multiple effective clinical approaches for its treatment and addressing shame-based behaviors.  He clearly outlines why contemporary treatment approaches, including cognitive behavioral therapy, do not treat core shame wounds and most often cause individuals to terminate the therapeutic process prematurely.
This book is a must-read for clinicians, addiction specialists, teachers, students of human behavior, counselors, social workers, patients in treatment.

Product Details

ISBN-13: 9781624910753
Publisher: Parkhurst Brothers, Inc.
Publication date: 03/01/2016
Sold by: Barnes & Noble
Format: eBook
Pages: 176
File size: 3 MB

About the Author

With fine academic credentials and an outgoing personality, Dr. Fishkin is an articulate professional and straight talker who believes in sharing his experiences and insights about human behavior without the need for cliché, "psychobabble," or statistics to reinforce his words. His clarity of thought and speech are immediately related to by any audience, as are his amusing and illuminating anecdotes collected from years of professional experience.
            Gerald Loren Fishkin, M.S., Ph.D., has been focused on helping people for most of his life. He has been a practicing psychotherapist and author in southern California since 1970. For more about Dr. Gerald Loren Fishkin, M.S., Ph.D., visit http://drgeraldfishkin.com

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The Shame Attack and the Wound of Shame
When shame is activated, when it attacks us, it actually stops all our rational thought processes.  It is difficult, if not impossible, to think positively about something—anything—when we are experiencing self-loathing and worthlessness.  You might say that one is ashamed to feel shame!  We just want to shrink and become invisible when this happens.  Instead of bravely confronting an attack of shame, our response is often to quickly and quietly conceal it.  Ironically, this attempt to hide shame actually develops an additional, reactionary shame response.  We hide what we are ashamed of, and then we feel ashamed about hiding it—quite a vicious cycle!  To complicate matters further, defensively denying shame will likely lead us to avoid situations or people without any understanding of our motivation to do so.  We are now confused—and still ashamed. 

Table of Contents


Chapter 1: Shame
Chapter 2: Mind, Consciousness, and the Seeds of Self-Talk 
Chapter 3: Definitions and Foundations of Affective Learning
Chapter 4: Self-Talk
Chapter 5: Love vs. Abuse.
Chapter 6: The Treatment of Shame
Appendices
Reference List

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There is an overwhelming relationship between negative self-talk and shame-based behavior, including drug and alcohol addiction, family violence and significant self-defeating behaviors including emotional and physical isolation and withdrawal.

Shame is experienced universally and rarely discussed - even in therapy.

The compassion for oneself and compassion-based therapies may be a primary key to unlocking shame since cognitive behavior therapy does not work with shame.

If you have an addictive disorder and one effective treatment, you must talk about shame.

Shame is governed by affects that are biologically based and located in the basal ganglia of the brain, in close proximity to our brains activation center (the Reticular Activating System) and may be associated with PTSD in child and adulthood. These children are high strung and quick to react as displayed through fight or flight mechanisms always operating defensively.

The greater the early life trauma, abuse, emotional and physical neglect or violence, the louder the negative self-defeating self-talk.

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