I didn't directly come on to him, and he didn't directly come on to me. It all started with a subtle joke he made with a sexual undertone (Genesis 3:1: "and he said unto the woman") that I responded back to with my own sexual undertone (Genesis 3:2: "And the woman said unto the serpent"). I had taken the bait (Genesis 3:6: "And when the woman saw that the tree was good for food, and that it was pleasant to the eyes...")
When she started volunteering at the church to assist the Pastor with some Administrative duties, Wendi's main goal for doing this was to sow seeds of her time in effort of it being the catalyst she needed to gain full-time employment. Wendi had done this method before at a previous church during a time of unemployment and it yielded a positive harvest of her being gainfully employed.
But this time, Wendi didn't expect that her interactions with the Pastor would cause her to be interested in him other than a working relationship. These interactions that occurred moved from being innocently platonic to indiscretions. They also put Wendi on a winding road of infidelity that she did not expect to find herself on. In full sin and rebellion against God, Wendi then found herself at a place of complete brokenness and knew that the only way to wholeness was to run back to God where she belonged.
