The Panic Years: Dates, Doubts, and the Mother of All Decisions

The Panic Years: Dates, Doubts, and the Mother of All Decisions

by Nell Frizzell
The Panic Years: Dates, Doubts, and the Mother of All Decisions

The Panic Years: Dates, Doubts, and the Mother of All Decisions

by Nell Frizzell

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Overview

Renowned journalist Nell Frizzell explores what happens when a woman begins to ask herself: should I have a baby?

We have descriptors for many periods of life—adolescence, menopause, mid-life crisis, quarter-life crisis—but there is a period of profound change that many women face, often in their late twenties to early forties, that does not yet have a name.

Nell Frizzell is calling this period of flux “the panic years,” and it is often characterized by a preoccupation with one major question: should I have a baby? And from there—do I want a baby? With whom should I have a baby? How will I know when I’m ready?

Decisions made during this period suddenly take on more weight, as questions of love, career, friendship, fertility, and family clash together while peers begin the process of coupling and breeding. But this very important process is rarely written or talked about beyond the clichés of the “ticking clock.”

Enter Frizzell, our comforting guide, who uses personal stories from her own experiences in the panic years to illuminate the larger social and cultural trends, and gives voice to the uncertainty, confusion, and urgency that tends to characterize this time of life.

Frizzell reminds us that we are not alone in this, and encourages us to share our experiences and those of the women around us—as she does with honesty and vulnerability in these pages. Raw and hilarious, The Panic Years is an arm around the shoulder for every woman trying to navigate life’s big decisions against the backdrop of the mother of all questions.


Product Details

ISBN-13: 9781250268143
Publisher: Flatiron Books
Publication date: 02/08/2022
Pages: 272
Sales rank: 365,224
Product dimensions: 5.60(w) x 8.90(h) x 0.80(d)

About the Author

Nell Frizzell is a freelance journalist who writes a column for Vogue and also writes for the Guardian, Elle, Vice, Buzzfeed, the Independent, the Observer, and the Telegraph. She is best known for features and columns on gender, pregnancy, and parenting, and she has been featured several times on various BBC programs. In addition to journalism, Nell has written and performed comedy and works as a lifeguard. She lives in London with her partner and child.

Table of Contents

Introduction 1

1 Suddenly Single 11

2 Let's Go Outside 21

3 A Friend in Trouble 36

4 Glass Baby 48

5 Big Three-Oh 61

6 Parent Trap 73

7 Ding-Dong 85

8 Meeting the Man 95

9 Berlin Wall 109

10 Gift Horse 124

11 New Year's Irresolution 134

12 Ancient Mariner 144

13 The Coil Unwinds 151

14 A Tricky Period 166

15 Moorhens 180

16 Labor of Love 194

17 Midnight Fury 212

18 Slow Love 224

19 Spilled Milk 234

20 Mistaken Identity 243

Acknowledgments 251

Notes 253

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