Table of Contents
Congratulations, Now What? 8
1 Memories You're About to Make 11
2 Take a Walk after Dinner 14
3 Inventory the Wedding Registry 17
4 The Division of Duties 21
5 Do Food 24
6 Encourage Dreams 26
7 Time Together 29
8 Bridezilla Repair 32
9 Banish the Naysayers 34
10 Ask, "Is This OK?" 37
11 See If You Can Live on One Salary 40
12 Two Becoming One 44
13 When You Find the Flaw 47
14 Difficult Stuff You Can't Let Slide 50
15 Romantic Gestures 52
16 Are You Sure You're Married? 56
17 Use Words 59
18 Don't Be Surprised by the Seasons of Life 62
19 1913 Advice 65
20 When Worlds Collide 68
21 The Little Things I 71
22 The Little Things II 74
23 About Unexpected Guests 76
24 The Eight-Second Kiss 79
26 Change for Good 84
27 Cut the Apron Strings 87
28 The Dog Temptation 90
29 Wait Twenty-Four Hours 93
30 Keep Home a Safe Place to Unload 96
31 How Rumors Get Started 100
32 The Intimacy Sweet Spot 103
33 Better Than Hollywood 107
34 Skills to Build 110
35 Fill the Pickle Jar 113
36 Establish Your "You and Me, Babe" Signals 116
37 Get Historical 119
38 Empathy 123
39 Fight Fair 126
40 Redefine Adventure 130
41 Don't Trash Your Spouse 133
42 Know Each Other's Love Language 136
43 Brainstorm a Bucket List 139
44 Two More Important Lists 143
45 Expect the Unexpected 146
46 The Kid Question 149
47 Don't Be Alone Alone 152
48 A Reverse Bucket List 155
49 Better and Better 158
50 Hey, Good Lookin' 161
51 Anniversary Gift Warning 164
52 Advice that Didn't Make It into the First Fifty-One Chapters 168
Epilogue: Understand What You Have 174
About the Author 176