The Making of a Therapist: A Practical Guide for the Inner Journey
A paperback edition of the classic guide for new therapists seeing clients for the first time.

Veteran therapist and mental health writer Louis Cozolino’s classic text contains all of the things he wished someone had told him during the first weeks and months of his clinical training. Now available in paperback, the book includes guidance about working with your clients, such as how to cope with silence, handle their direct questions, and get them to talk less and say more. It also focuses on the inner experience of becoming a therapist and ways of thinking and feeling while sitting across from clients. It speaks honestly about not having all the answers, and shuttling up and down between your head and your heart, and mind and body, as struggling clients sit before you. It balances the process of developing therapeutic skills while also taking an inner journey—to becoming the professional, and person, you hope to be. With a new introduction to the paperback edition, this book remains an essential clinical reference.

A Test Bank is available for professors using the book as a course text.

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The Making of a Therapist: A Practical Guide for the Inner Journey
A paperback edition of the classic guide for new therapists seeing clients for the first time.

Veteran therapist and mental health writer Louis Cozolino’s classic text contains all of the things he wished someone had told him during the first weeks and months of his clinical training. Now available in paperback, the book includes guidance about working with your clients, such as how to cope with silence, handle their direct questions, and get them to talk less and say more. It also focuses on the inner experience of becoming a therapist and ways of thinking and feeling while sitting across from clients. It speaks honestly about not having all the answers, and shuttling up and down between your head and your heart, and mind and body, as struggling clients sit before you. It balances the process of developing therapeutic skills while also taking an inner journey—to becoming the professional, and person, you hope to be. With a new introduction to the paperback edition, this book remains an essential clinical reference.

A Test Bank is available for professors using the book as a course text.

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The Making of a Therapist: A Practical Guide for the Inner Journey

The Making of a Therapist: A Practical Guide for the Inner Journey

by Louis Cozolino
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The Making of a Therapist: A Practical Guide for the Inner Journey

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A paperback edition of the classic guide for new therapists seeing clients for the first time.

Veteran therapist and mental health writer Louis Cozolino’s classic text contains all of the things he wished someone had told him during the first weeks and months of his clinical training. Now available in paperback, the book includes guidance about working with your clients, such as how to cope with silence, handle their direct questions, and get them to talk less and say more. It also focuses on the inner experience of becoming a therapist and ways of thinking and feeling while sitting across from clients. It speaks honestly about not having all the answers, and shuttling up and down between your head and your heart, and mind and body, as struggling clients sit before you. It balances the process of developing therapeutic skills while also taking an inner journey—to becoming the professional, and person, you hope to be. With a new introduction to the paperback edition, this book remains an essential clinical reference.

A Test Bank is available for professors using the book as a course text.


Product Details

ISBN-13: 9780393713947
Publisher: Norton, W. W. & Company, Inc.
Publication date: 04/06/2021
Series: Norton Series on Interpersonal Neurobiology
Pages: 240
Product dimensions: 5.50(w) x 8.30(h) x 0.70(d)

About the Author

Louis Cozolino, PhD, is a professor of psychology at Pepperdine University and maintains a clinical and consulting practice in Los Angeles, California. He is the Series Editor of the Norton Series on Interpersonal Neurobiology (IPNB).

Table of Contents

Acknowledgments XVII

Introduction XIX

Imagination and Reality XX

Discovering and Taming the Unconscious XXII

The Goals of This Book XXV

Part I Getting Through Your First Sessions

Chapter 1 What Have I Gotten Myself Into? 3

"I Don't Know" 5

Giving Yourself Permission to Not Know 6

Desperately Seeking Systems 9

Dreams of the Messiah 11

Chapter 2 Getting Centered and Learning to Listen 13

Take Time to Get Centered 15

The Power of Listening 16

Eye Contact 18

Communication Styles in Psychotherapy 20

Chapter 3 Now What Do I Do? 25

Psychotherapy in a Nutshell 26

What to Say, What to Do 28

Case Conceptualizations 31

Treatment Plans 33

Case Notes 34

The Catch-22 35

Chapter 4 Survival Strategies 37

Don't Panic in the Face of the Pathology 38

Expect the Unexpected 41

Crisis as Communication 44

Don't Try to Reason with an Irrational Person 45

Don't Forget a Client's Strengths 48

Chapter 5 Beware of Assumptions 50

Cultural and Religious Assumptions 53

No One is an Expert on Culture 55

Prejudice is Everywhere 58

The Shame of the Accused 59

Part 2 Getting to Know Your Clients

Chapter 6 Challenges and Strategies 63

The Value of Confusion 65

The Good-Enough Therapist 66

Making Good Mistakes 72

The Projective Hypothesis 75

Silence as a Background for Communication 79

Chapter 7 The Therapist's Feelings: Anticipated and Unanticipated 83

Impatience 84

"Hey, That was my Insight!" 86

Sexual Attraction 88

The Power of Regression 91

Doctor Heal Thyself 93

Chapter 8 It's Scary to go to Therapy: The Paradox of Client Resistance 96

The Basic Paradox 99

Meeting Resistance with Acceptance 101

Dealing with Cancellations 106

Premature Termination 108

Wanting to Fire a Client 112

Discussing and Collecting Fees 114

Making Interpretations 117

Chapter 9 In the Eye of the Storm: The Therapist's Challenge 121

Shuttling Between Yourself and Your Client 123

Shuttling Between Mind and Body 125

Learning from Distraction, Boredom, and Fatigue 128

On Being Tied to the Mast 129

The Seduction of Words 130

Talking Less and Saying More 132

Paying Attention to Dreams 134

Chapter 10 Turning Weaknesses into Strengths 137

Taking Sides and Neutrality 138

Reality Drift 140

Knowing Your Stimulus Value 143

Confidentiality 146

Part 3 Getting to Know Yourself

Chapter 11 Uncovering Countertransference 151

Manifestations and Underlying Issues 153

An Exercise in Uncovering Countertransference 155

"Things were Just Perfect" 158

Chapter 12 The Making of a Caretaker 161

The Vulnerable Healer 162

The Therapist's Childhood in the Consulting Room 163

Pathological Caretaking 165

The Gifted Child 167

Shame-Based Experience and Behavior Becoming a Therapist 170

Chapter 13 Building a Satisfying and Sane Career: Cautions and Encouragement 172

Principle 1 Know Your Limits and Select Your Clients 172

Principle 2 Engage In Consistent Self-Care 173

Principle 3 Keep Perspective 175

Principle 4 Watch Out for Traumatic Contagion 176

Principle 5 Know Your Laws and Ethics 177

What they Don't Teach You in School 179

What Therapeutic Orientation Should You Choose? 180

Where Should You Work? 183

Chapter 14 Walkin' the Walk 187

Mindfulness 189

Reunion 190

References & Suggested Readings 193

Index 195

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