Table of Contents
Getting Started: How to Use This Book 9
Section 1 Timeline & Budget
1 Finding Your Style
Your Wedding Style Worksheet 14
Do You Need a Wedding Planner? 16
Questions to Ask Wedding Planners 17
Planner Contact Cheat Sheet 18
To-Do Checklist: Hiring Your Wedding Planner 19
2 Your Planning Timeline
Wedding Planning Timeline 22
Express Engagement Checklist (5 Months or Less) 27
Top Planning Tips 31
3 Your Wedding Budget
Your Budget Estimates 34
Wedding Budget Worksheet 35
Top Wedding Budget Tips 36
Section 2 Guest List, Invitations & Wedding Party
4 Your Guest List
Wedding Guest Worksheet 38
Your Personal Wedding Website 38
Top Guest List Tips 39
5 Invitations
Invitations Style Worksheet 42
Top Invite Planning Tips 43
Finding Your Stationer 44
Questions to Ask Stationery Designers 45
Stationer Contact Cheat Sheet 46
To-Do Checklist: Ordering Your Invites & Stationery 47
6 Your Wedding Party
Your Wedding Party Worksheet 50
Top Wedding Party Tips 51
Wedding Party Cheat Sheets 52
Wedding Party Contact Cheat Sheet 56
Family Contact Cheat Sheet 58
Guests' Hotels Contact Cheat Sheet 60
7 Gift Registry
Top Registry Tips 62
Questions to Ask Before You Register 63
Your Wedding Registries Contact Cheat Sheet 64
8 The Other Parties
Party Primer 66
Your Wedding Parties Cheat Sheet 67
Section 3 Venue & Menu
9 Your Reception Site
Reception Site Worksheet 70
Finding Your Reception Site 71
Questions to Ask Reception Site Managers 72
Top Reception Tips 74
To-Do Checklist: Booking the Reception Site 76
Reception Contact Cheat Sheet 77
Your Rental Checklist 78
10 Food & Drink
Your Reception Menu Worksheet 80
Top Food & Drink Tips 81
Finding Your Caterer 82
Questions to Ask Caterers 83
To-Do Checklist: Building Your Own Reception Bar 84
To-Do Checklist: Hiring Your Caterer 85
Caterer Contact Cheat Sheet 86
11 Your Wedding Cake
Wedding Cake Worksheet 88
Top Wedding Cake Tips 89
Finding Your Cake Baker 90
Questions to Ask Cake Bakers 91
Cake Baker Contact Cheat Sheet 92
To-Do Checklist: Ordering Your Cake 92
Section 4 Dress & Accessories
12 The Dress
Your Wedding Dress Worksheet 94
Top Wedding Dress Tips 96
Finding Your Bridal Salon 97
Questions to Ask Bridal Salons 98
Bridal Salon Contact Cheat Sheet 99
To-Do Checklist: Your Wedding Dress, Fittings & Accessories 100
Your Hair & Makeup Worksheet 102
Questions to Ask Hair & Makeup Artists 103
Hair & Makeup Contact Cheat Sheet 103
6-Month Wedding Beauty Countdown 104
13 The Bridesmaid Dresses
Bridesmaid Dress Shopping Worksheet 106
Top Bridesmaid Dress Tips 107
Questions to Ask While Shopping for Bridesmaid Dresses 107
Finding Your Bridesmaid Dress Store 108
Bridesmaid Dress Contact Cheat Sheet 109
To-Do Checklist: Bridesmaid Dresses, Alterations & Accessories 110
Bridesmaid Dress Worksheet 111
14 The Formalwear
Formalwear Worksheet 114
Top Formalwear Tips 115
Finding a Formalwear Shop 116
Questions to Ask Formalwear Stores 117
Formalwear Store Contact Cheat Sheet 117
To-Do Checklist: Renting the Formalwear 118
Section 5 Ceremony
15 Your Ceremony
Ceremony Style Worksheet 122
Top Ceremony Tips 123
Finding Your Ceremony Site & Officiant 124
Questions to Ask Ceremony Site Managers & Officiants 125
Officiant & Site Contact Sheet 126
To-Do Checklist: Booking Your Ceremony Site 127
Your Ceremony Music Worksheet 128
Finding Your Ceremony Musicians 129
Questions to Ask Ceremony Musicians 130
Ceremony Museums Contact Cheat Sheet 130
To-Do Checklist: Hiring Your Ceremony Musicians 131
To-Do Checklist: Your Wedding Rings 132
To-Do Checklist: Your Marriage License 133
16 Transportation
Wedding Transportation Worksheet 136
Wedding Weekend Transportation Worksheet 136
Finding a Car or Limo Company 137
Questions to Ask Limo and Car Companies 138
Top Transportation Tips 139
Transportation Contact Cheat Sheet 140
To-Do Checklist: Hiring the Car Company 140
Section 6 Photos, Video & Entertainment
17 Photography
Your Wedding Photos Worksheet 142
Top Wedding Photo Tips 144
Finding Your Photographer 146
Questions to Ask Photographers 147
Photographer Contact Cheat Sheet 149
To-Do Checklist: Hiring Your Photographer 150
18 Videography
Wedding Videography Worksheet 152
Top Wedding Video Tips 153
Finding Your Videographer 154
Questions to Ask Videographers 155
Videographer Contact Cheat Sheet 156
To-Do Checklist: Hiring Your Videographer 156
19 Entertainment
Your Reception Music Worksheet 158
Top Reception Music Planning Tips 159
Finding Your Reception Band or DJ 160
Questions to Ask Reception Bands & DJs 161
Reception Music Contact Cheat Sheet 163
To-Do Checklist: Hiring Your Reception Band or DJ 164
Section 7 Flowers & Décor
20 Flowers & Décor
Your Flowers & Décor Worksheet 166
Top Flowers & Décor Tips 168
Finding Your Floral Designer 169
Questions to Ask Floral Designers 170
Floral Designer Contact Cheat Sheet 171
To-Do Checklist: Hiring Your Floral Designer 172
Section 8 Big Day & Beyond
21 Day-of Details
Wedding Weekend Accommodations & Timeline 174
Top Last-Minute Tips 176
Wedding Day Tipping Worksheet 177
Wedding Vendor Tipping Guide 178
Your Day-of Emergency Bag 178
Wedding Day Contact List 179
Add Your Own Last-Minute Reminders 180
22 Honeymoon
Your Honeymoon Worksheet 182
Working with a Travel Agent or Honeymoon Planner 183
Top Honeymoon Tips 184
Top Tips for Booking Online 185
Honeymoon Itinerary 186
Honeymoon Contact Cheat Sheet 187
To-Do Checklist: Booking the Honeymoon 188
Techy Honeymoon Shortcuts 189
Appendix: Wedding Budget Tracker 190
Guest List 195
Your Seating Chart 198
Gift Log 200
Photo Credits 202
Index 203