The Improvised Woman: Single Women Reinventing Single Life
"A remarkable new book. . . . Marcelle Clements's The Improvised Woman has that exhilarating Eureka! quality. . . . In its modest, quizzical way, The Improvised Woman is a visionary work." —Mirabella What is it like being a single woman today? A groundbreaking work of scope, wit, and exceptional empathy, The Improvised Woman answers that complex question, while in the process capturing-and celebrating-the real lives of single American women. Over the past seven years, journalist and essayist Marcelle Clements asked over one hundred women from across the country-young and old, never married, divorced and widowed, childless and single mothers-to talk about being single. How did they get there? Were they sorry or glad? What is the texture of their experience? The heart of this book is the individual voices of the women answering these questions, heard in all their tenacity and humor. "The Improvised Woman doesn't glide over the messy contradictions that accompany being human. . . . Clements gives her interviewees center stage to speak their minds, and appends a series of thoughtful, witty essays."—Newsweek "[Clements] is wise, non-judgmental and patient as she gains the trust of these women, who appear to be as interested in this study as the author is-and as readers, especially other single women, will be."—Publishers Weekly (starred review)
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The Improvised Woman: Single Women Reinventing Single Life
"A remarkable new book. . . . Marcelle Clements's The Improvised Woman has that exhilarating Eureka! quality. . . . In its modest, quizzical way, The Improvised Woman is a visionary work." —Mirabella What is it like being a single woman today? A groundbreaking work of scope, wit, and exceptional empathy, The Improvised Woman answers that complex question, while in the process capturing-and celebrating-the real lives of single American women. Over the past seven years, journalist and essayist Marcelle Clements asked over one hundred women from across the country-young and old, never married, divorced and widowed, childless and single mothers-to talk about being single. How did they get there? Were they sorry or glad? What is the texture of their experience? The heart of this book is the individual voices of the women answering these questions, heard in all their tenacity and humor. "The Improvised Woman doesn't glide over the messy contradictions that accompany being human. . . . Clements gives her interviewees center stage to speak their minds, and appends a series of thoughtful, witty essays."—Newsweek "[Clements] is wise, non-judgmental and patient as she gains the trust of these women, who appear to be as interested in this study as the author is-and as readers, especially other single women, will be."—Publishers Weekly (starred review)
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The Improvised Woman: Single Women Reinventing Single Life
"A remarkable new book. . . . Marcelle Clements's The Improvised Woman has that exhilarating Eureka! quality. . . . In its modest, quizzical way, The Improvised Woman is a visionary work." —Mirabella What is it like being a single woman today? A groundbreaking work of scope, wit, and exceptional empathy, The Improvised Woman answers that complex question, while in the process capturing-and celebrating-the real lives of single American women. Over the past seven years, journalist and essayist Marcelle Clements asked over one hundred women from across the country-young and old, never married, divorced and widowed, childless and single mothers-to talk about being single. How did they get there? Were they sorry or glad? What is the texture of their experience? The heart of this book is the individual voices of the women answering these questions, heard in all their tenacity and humor. "The Improvised Woman doesn't glide over the messy contradictions that accompany being human. . . . Clements gives her interviewees center stage to speak their minds, and appends a series of thoughtful, witty essays."—Newsweek "[Clements] is wise, non-judgmental and patient as she gains the trust of these women, who appear to be as interested in this study as the author is-and as readers, especially other single women, will be."—Publishers Weekly (starred review)
Marcelle Clements is a journalist and critic whose work has appeared in a wide variety of national magazines. She is the author of The Dog Is Us: And Other Observations, an essay collection, and Rock Me, a novel. She lives in New York City.
Table of Contents
INTRODUCTION
11
HOW I GOT FROM THERE TO HERE
25
ENVY, STIGMA, CONTEMPT, AND THE SINGLE WOMAN
65
THE ENDGAME
101
THE SO-CALLED NEW FAMILY
139
HOME AT LAST
191
THE LAST TIME I HAD SEX
230
NO CAT FOOD, THANK YOU
272
POST-OEDIPAL FEMALES AND BRIDES OF THE UNIVERSE
309
EPILOGUE
341
ACKNOWLEDGMENTS
349
What People are Saying About This
Marcelle Clemens
Are women saying they don't need men any more?
'I don't think women need men in the same way they once did but in other ways. If we're not dependent on men for survival, we can be dependint on men for more of a dialogue or companionship that's free from compulsion. Women can be with someone because they choose to be. Women are disocovering that being on their own doesn't have to close down their possibilities. It can open them up. -- Quote from interview in People magazine
Karen Durbin
The Improvised Woman: Single Women Reinventing Single Life has that exhilarating Eureka! quality common to the best women's writing at the height of the feminist resurgence in the early '70s....The deeper meaning of Clements' title is that we're inventing the future even as we re-invent ourselves.