"Kwan Kew and I trained together in infectious disease in Boston, and although I knew she was an extraordinary physician I had no idea she of how far she had come from her impoverished and incredibly difficulty childhood in Malaysia. This poignant memoir, beautifully written and filled with humor and pathos, portrays a world few of us can imagine. That such an incredible doctor and writer could emerge from such challenging beginnings is a testament to the human spirit, or perhaps to her unique spirit. I could not put this memoir down." Abraham Verghese, author of Cutting for Stone
"Kwan Kew Lai's extraordinary memoir is a deeply moving and clear-eyed look at gender, family, culture, poverty and the boundless power of education. The Girl Who Taught Herself to Fly is a thoughtful consideration of the ways women and girls survive - and even thrive - within oppressive patriarchal systems that refuse to recognize them as full people." Victoria Namkung, NBC News
"Dr. Kwan Kew Lai has written a profoundly moving and inspiring memoir about her gripping journey from extreme poverty in Malaysia, along with strong resistance against girls getting an education, to becoming a medical doctor and member of the Harvard Medical faculty physicians. Her story demonstrates what can be achieved--against all odds-with a strong intention and fierce, unrelenting determination." Erica M. Elliott, MD, speaker and author of Medicine and Miracles in the High Desert: My Life Among the Navajo People
"A graphic testimony to Malaysian colonial/postcolonial communal differences, resistance to Chinese gender inequities, and U.S. immigrant opportunities-Kwan Kew Lai offers us a triumphalist survivor's memoir." Shirley Geok-lin Lim, author of Among the White Moon Faces, recipient of the American Book Award
"An evocative story of Kwan Kew Lai's childhood in post-World War II Penang. She so beautifully shows how her background gave her the drive to soar to new heights and gain entry into one of the most prestigious colleges in the US. A must-read!" Susan Blumberg-Kason, author of Good Chinese Wife, co-editor of Hong Kong Noir
"In this poignant memoir, Kwan Kew Lai details the harsh realities of her girlhood growing up in an impoverished Chinese family, where females hold no value and seldom have access to education, or a life beyond marriage and childrearing. This is the story of a brave, determined woman who, from a very young age, observes the multitude of obstacles and barriers before her, and goes on to obliterate them one by one, paving her own path to freedom. The Girl Who Taught Herself to Fly is a book of survival and triumph. It is a true testament to the power and perseverance of the human spirit." Gina Troisi, author of The Angle of Flickering Light
"The Girl Who Taught Herself to Fly is a breathtaking memoir with an ambitious scope. Kwan Kew Lai writes of her childhood in Malaysia, overcoming poverty, hunger, illness, and sexism to eventually end up in the United States as a student at Wellesley College. Lai's prose is detailed, precise, and engrossing--this story will draw you in immediately and hold you tight until the last page--and also powerful and informative as Lai uses her own personal history as a way to teach her readers about the greater and complicated racial, ethnic, religious histories of the people of Malaysia. More than anything else though, The Girl Who Taught Herself to Fly is an inspiration. Lai's memoir is a celebration of the power of strong women, as Lai shares not only her own story but also the stories of those who helped her along the way: her mother, her sisters, her friends, and her teachers." E.B. Bartels, author of Good Grief: On Loving Pets, Here and Hereafter
