THE (IN)FIDELITY FACTOR: Points to Ponder Before You Cheat

by Elda M. Lopez

Overview

Conflicted about the role of (in)fidelity in relationships?
Hurt? Angry? Confused?
Need simple, sound advice?

The author can relate. She tells her story as both the betrayed wife and the "other woman." These experiences prompted her to explore and examine infidelity prevention and healthy relationship-building as worthier options. She's on a mission to help individuals and couples avoid the innumerable damaging effects of unfaithfulness and betrayal. Her book promotes self-awareness, personal accountability, and education as valuable tools for growth and understanding in an easy-to-read format.

This book teaches you to recognize mindsets and minefields through commentary, individual stories, examples, statistics, and surveys for examination. Insights and aha moments are revealed and shared.

No more cheat, defeat, repeat. Relationship joy is possible through conscious effort and consistent positive steps forward.

This is where your change-up begins.

Get reading. Get healthy. Get happy!

Product Details

BN ID:	2940186512417
Publisher:	Elda M. Lopez
Publication date:	01/30/2023
Sold by:	Barnes & Noble
Format:	eBook
File size:	789 KB

About the Author

Elda M. Lopez is a published author, speaker, and relationship coach who is passionate about preventing infidelity and strengthening relationships. In her breakout book, The Infidelity Factor: Points to Ponder Before You Cheat, Elda shares her own story as both the betrayed wife and “the other woman.” She understands the emotional stress, pain, anger, and resentment that can stem from such indiscretions as well as the critical familial and financial issues that may arise as a by-product. The trickle-down effects of infidelity also have the potential to bleed into society at large. She reminds us: We are all society at large.

Elda is a native of Southern California. She was born in Glendale, reared in Lincoln Heights until the age of two, and lived in Norwalk during her childhood. She left her family home at seventeen, attended Rio Hondo College, studied at the University of Copenhagen, Denmark, and graduated with a B. A. in Theatre Arts from Whittier College. Her entertainment career includes film, television, radio, and stage acting. She has also held positions as a dialogue coach, voice-over artist, and casting director. She has taught English in Japan and tutored Language Arts to underserved Southern California communities. Elda currently resides in the Brentwood area of Los Angeles. She loves Flamenco, dancing, dark chocolate, and traveling near and far.

www.eldamlopez.com

Editorial Reviews

Ms. Lopez has written an entertaining, well researched addition to the body of self help and relationship mending literature. Her writing style is conversational and witty and she deals with a potentially grim subject in a fairly lighthearted and humorous manner while citing the high costs of infidelity on a personal and societal level...

Amazon - Neal Fugate

A very thoughtful and insightful look into a sensitive but all too common problem. This book weaves together research and discussion about infidelity with personal narrative to create a thought-provoking and sometimes humorous look at what goes on (or doesn't) inside our heads before we commit an act of infidelity and what some of the repercussions could be.

Amazon - Kia DeCou

Terrific book full of insight and light-hearted writing. The author offers vast knowledge and accurate perspectives on relationships. Highly recommend!

Amazon

Ms. Lopez's book brings a fresh look to a topic that's as old as human relationships. Her conversational style of writing makes one feel like they are listening to a good friend offering insight; and that friend just happens to speak from experience, as well as copious research. I highly recommend "The (In)Fidelity Factor..." to everyone, at any stage of their relationship. You don't need to be having an affair to learn something new about yourself and those you love.

Amazon - Randall Baer

THE (IN) FIDELITY FACTOR is a treat for people who want the 911 on cheating. Ms. Lopez makes excellent points if you're thinking about navigating the complex world of infidelity. She has a knack for clearly making her points for all to understand. And there's a lot of good points. She's a good investigator and a great writer. Lopez rises to this challenge with great skill in this accomplished, atmospheric and thoughtful book. Can't wait for her next book.

Amazon - Mike Costa