The Barn off of Colfax Lane: An unfiltered memoir about sexual assault and the mixed feelings that come with it.
I was 12 years old the first time my horse trainer grabbed my left boob and asked me if I had ever had sex. I'm not sure what caught me off guard the most: his question or the fact a 79-year-old man had his hand firmly cusped around my boob while asking me, a 12-year-old if I had ever had sex. I've blocked out a lot of that season from my mind, but that first day sticks out clearer than the rest. Is it because of the shock? Is it because I hadn't fully remembered my pro-dissociation skills yet?
I have no f*cking clue, but I do remember the green-striped tank top and the dark navy blue jeans I had on that day. I remember watching his lips ooze as the words, "Have you ever had sex?" spilled out of them. I remember the blank stare in his eyes, the black specks of chew stuck in his teeth, and the way his cheeks met his chin like a pillow shoved under fitted sheets.
My eyes left my left boob, flung around the barn, and up to his face. The light coming in from the barn door behind him lit his back, but darkened his face so his face looked as dark as the blank stare in his eyes. My brain raced for answers that made sense. Hell, it searched for a question that made sense, too. "No, of course not. Wait, why is this happening? How do I answer? Do I answer? Am I dreaming?" I couldn't speak, so I looked up at him blankly, then he turned and walked away.
..........
That day happened over 15 years ago, in the summer of 2008 and while some things have made more sense over the years, many still make no sense at all.
This book is a combination of it all: the things that make sense, the things that make no sense, the things we'll eventually make sense of, and the things that will never make any sense at all when it comes to the topic of sexual assault and trauma.
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I have no f*cking clue, but I do remember the green-striped tank top and the dark navy blue jeans I had on that day. I remember watching his lips ooze as the words, "Have you ever had sex?" spilled out of them. I remember the blank stare in his eyes, the black specks of chew stuck in his teeth, and the way his cheeks met his chin like a pillow shoved under fitted sheets.
My eyes left my left boob, flung around the barn, and up to his face. The light coming in from the barn door behind him lit his back, but darkened his face so his face looked as dark as the blank stare in his eyes. My brain raced for answers that made sense. Hell, it searched for a question that made sense, too. "No, of course not. Wait, why is this happening? How do I answer? Do I answer? Am I dreaming?" I couldn't speak, so I looked up at him blankly, then he turned and walked away.
..........
That day happened over 15 years ago, in the summer of 2008 and while some things have made more sense over the years, many still make no sense at all.
This book is a combination of it all: the things that make sense, the things that make no sense, the things we'll eventually make sense of, and the things that will never make any sense at all when it comes to the topic of sexual assault and trauma.
The Barn off of Colfax Lane: An unfiltered memoir about sexual assault and the mixed feelings that come with it.
I was 12 years old the first time my horse trainer grabbed my left boob and asked me if I had ever had sex. I'm not sure what caught me off guard the most: his question or the fact a 79-year-old man had his hand firmly cusped around my boob while asking me, a 12-year-old if I had ever had sex. I've blocked out a lot of that season from my mind, but that first day sticks out clearer than the rest. Is it because of the shock? Is it because I hadn't fully remembered my pro-dissociation skills yet?
I have no f*cking clue, but I do remember the green-striped tank top and the dark navy blue jeans I had on that day. I remember watching his lips ooze as the words, "Have you ever had sex?" spilled out of them. I remember the blank stare in his eyes, the black specks of chew stuck in his teeth, and the way his cheeks met his chin like a pillow shoved under fitted sheets.
My eyes left my left boob, flung around the barn, and up to his face. The light coming in from the barn door behind him lit his back, but darkened his face so his face looked as dark as the blank stare in his eyes. My brain raced for answers that made sense. Hell, it searched for a question that made sense, too. "No, of course not. Wait, why is this happening? How do I answer? Do I answer? Am I dreaming?" I couldn't speak, so I looked up at him blankly, then he turned and walked away.
..........
That day happened over 15 years ago, in the summer of 2008 and while some things have made more sense over the years, many still make no sense at all.
This book is a combination of it all: the things that make sense, the things that make no sense, the things we'll eventually make sense of, and the things that will never make any sense at all when it comes to the topic of sexual assault and trauma.
I have no f*cking clue, but I do remember the green-striped tank top and the dark navy blue jeans I had on that day. I remember watching his lips ooze as the words, "Have you ever had sex?" spilled out of them. I remember the blank stare in his eyes, the black specks of chew stuck in his teeth, and the way his cheeks met his chin like a pillow shoved under fitted sheets.
My eyes left my left boob, flung around the barn, and up to his face. The light coming in from the barn door behind him lit his back, but darkened his face so his face looked as dark as the blank stare in his eyes. My brain raced for answers that made sense. Hell, it searched for a question that made sense, too. "No, of course not. Wait, why is this happening? How do I answer? Do I answer? Am I dreaming?" I couldn't speak, so I looked up at him blankly, then he turned and walked away.
..........
That day happened over 15 years ago, in the summer of 2008 and while some things have made more sense over the years, many still make no sense at all.
This book is a combination of it all: the things that make sense, the things that make no sense, the things we'll eventually make sense of, and the things that will never make any sense at all when it comes to the topic of sexual assault and trauma.
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BN ID: | 2940185947289 |
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Publisher: | MP Media |
Publication date: | 05/29/2024 |
Sold by: | Barnes & Noble |
Format: | eBook |
Sales rank: | 825,191 |
File size: | 2 MB |
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