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They arrived in bulk, in Black Tie Preferred, in one large clump
behind our wooden fence, peering over each other's shoulders
and into our backyard like people at the zoo who wanted a better view
of the animals.
My father's fiftieth birthday party had just begun.
It's true that I was expecting something. I was fourteen, my hair still
sticky with lemon from the beach, my lips maroon and pulpy and full
like a woman's, red and smothered like "a giant wound," my mother
said earlier that day. She disapproved of the getup, of my yellow fit-and-
flare dress that cradled my hips and pointed my breasts due north,
but I didn't care; I disapproved of this party, this whole at-home affair
that would mark the last of its kind.
The women walked through the gate in black and blue and gray and
brown pumps, the party already proving unsuccessful at the grass level.
The men wore sharp dark ties like swords and said predictable things
like, "Hello."
"Welcome to our lawn," I said back, with a goofy grin, and none of
them looked me in the eye because it was rude or something. I was too
yellow, too embarrassing for everyone involved, and I inched closer to
Mark Resnick, my neighbor, my comrade, my crony, my maybe-oneday-
boyfriend.
I stood up straighter and overemphasized my consonants. There
were certain ways you had to position and prepare your body for high
school, and I was slowly catching on, but not fast enough. Every day,
it seemed, I had to say good-bye to some part of myself; like last week
at the beach, my best friend, Janice, in her new shoestring bikini, had
looked down at my Adidas one-piece and said, "Emily, you don't need a
one-piece anymore. This isn't a sporting event." But it sort of was. You
could win or lose at anything when you were fourteen, and Janice was
keeping track of this. First person to say "cunt" in two different languages
(Richard Trenton, girls' bathroom, cunnus, kunta), an achievement
that Ernest Bingley decried as invalid since "Old Norse doesn't
count as a language!" (Ernest Bingley, first person ever to cry while
reading a poem aloud in English class, "Dulce et Decorum Est"). There
were other competitions as well, competitions that had only losers, like
who's got the fattest ass (Annie Lars), the most cartoonish face (Kenneth
Bentley), the most pubes (Janice Nicks).
"As a child, I shaved the hair off my Barbies to feel prettier," Janice
had confessed earlier that morning at the beach.
She sighed and wiped her brow as though it was the August heat
that made her too honest, but Connecticut heat was disappointingly
civil. So were our confessions.
"That's nothing," I said. "As a child, I thought my breasts were
tumors." I whispered, afraid the adults could hear us.
Janice wasn't impressed.
"Okay, as a child, I sat out in the sun and waited for my blood to
evaporate," I said. I admitted that, sometimes, I still believed blood
could vanish like boiling water or a puddle in the middle of summer.
But Janice was already halfway into her next confession, admitting
that last night, she touched herself and thought of our middle school
teacher Mr. Heller despite everything, even his mustache. "Which we
can't blame him for," Janice said. "I thought of Mr. Heller's hands and
then waited, and then nothing. No orgasm."
"What'd you expect?" I said, shoving a peanut in my mouth. "He's
so old."
At the beach, the adults always sat ten feet behind our towels. We
carefully measured the distance in footsteps. My mother and her
friends wore floppy straw hats and reclined in chairs patterned with Rod
Stewart's face and neon ice cream cones and shouted, "Don't stick your
head under!" as Janice and I ran to the water's edge to cool our feet.
My mother said sticking your head in the Long Island Sound was like
dipping your head in a bowl of cancer, to which I said, "You shouldn't
say ‘cancer' so casually like that." A woman who volunteered with my
mother at Stamford Hospital, the only woman there who had not gotten
a nose job from my neighbor Dr. Trenton, held her nose whenever
she said "Long Island Sound" or "sewage," as if there was no difference
between the two things. But the more everybody talked about the contamination,
the less I could see it; the farther I buried my body in the
water, the more the adults seemed to be wrong about everything. It was
water, more and more like water every time I tested it with my tongue.
Our backyard was so full of tiger lilies, nearly every guest at the party
got their own patch to stand near. Mark ran his hands over the orange
flower heads, while my mother opened her arms to greet his mother,
Mrs. Resnick.
My mother and Mrs. Resnick had not spoken in months for no other
reason than they were neighbors who did not realize they had not spoken
in months.
"Italians hug," my mother said.
"We're Russian Jewish," Mrs. Resnick said.
"Oh, that's dear," my mother said, and looked at me. "Say hello,
Emily."
"Hello," I said.
It was unknown how long it had been since they borrowed an egg
from each other, but it didn't even matter because my mother noticed
how tall Mark had become."Very tall," my mother said.
"Yes, isn't he tall?" Mrs. Resnick asked.
"How tall are you, Mark?" my mother asked.
Everybody suspected he was taller than he used to be, but shorter
than our town councilwoman, Mrs. Trenton, who was so tall she looked
like King Kong in a belted pink party dress observing a mushroom garlic
cream tart for the first time. She was so tall it only made sense she was
granted a position of authority in our town, my mother said once. And
Mark was a little bit shorter than that, in a very small, unnoticeable way.
Most of the adults stood at the bar. Some reported flying in from
Prague, Geneva, Moscow, and couldn't believe the absurdity of international
travel—it took so long to get from here to there, especially
when all you were doing over the Atlantic was worrying about blood
clots, feeling everything clumping and slowing and coming to an end.
Some needed to use the bathroom. Some couldn't believe how the
roads were so wide here in Connecticut and, honestly, what did we
need all that space for?
"It's presumptuous," said Mrs. Resnick. She took a sip of her martini
while a horsefly flew out of her armpit. "So much space and nothing to
do but take care of it."
I looked around at the vastness of my yard. It was the size of two
pools, and yet, we didn't even have one. My mother had joked all summer
long that if my father wanted to turn fifty, he would have to do the
damn thing outside on the grass. We had all laughed around the dinner
table, and with a knife in my fist, I shouted out, "Like the dog!"
"If we had one . . . ," my father said, correcting me.
"It's the nineties," my mother added. "Backyards in Connecticut are
just starting to come back in style."
But soon, it turned out it wasn't a joke at all, and at any given
moment my mother could be caught with a straight face saying things
like, "We'll need to get your father a tent in case of rain," and after I hung
up on Timmy's Tent Rental, she started saying things like, "We'll need
three hundred and fifty forks," and my father and I started exchanging
secret glances, and when my mother saw him scribble THAT'S A LOT
OF FORKS to me on a Post-it, she started looking at us blankly, like
my father was the fridge and I was the microwave, saying, "We'll need
a theme."
"Man, aging dramatically!" I shouted at them across the marble
kitchen counter.
"And a cake designed to look like an investment banker." She wrote
it down on a list, her quick cursive more legible than my print.
"No! A map of Europe!" I said. "And everybody has to eat their own
country!"
"No, Emily," my mother said. "That's not right either."
Everybody was invited. Was Alfred available? Alfred was our neighbor
who always gave the comical speech about my father's deep-seated
character flaws at every social event that was primarily devoted to my
father, which was every event my mother attended.
"Like how he questions my choice of hat at seven thirty in the morning,"
my mother said, as though my father wasn't there pouring himself
some cereal. "It's just that the brim is so notably wide, he says. Well,
that's the point, Victor!"
Or how he called the Prague office with a mouthful of Cocoa Puffs
every morning and my mother said, Victor, you're nearly a millionaire,
that's gross, and my father chomped louder, said, it's puffed rice. He just
doesn't get it, my mother said. He walks out to the car every morning
and comes back in asking me how a car can get so dirty!
At some point, they always turned to me, the third party. "Emily,
would you explain to your father?" my mother asked.
"Well, Jesus, Victor! We drive it!" I shouted. I never considered the
possibility that we weren't joking.
"Isn't Emily so beautiful?" my mother asked Mrs. Resnick, twisting her
gold tennis bracelet around her wrist.
My mother asked this question everywhere we went. The grocery
store. The mall. The dentist. Nobody had yet disagreed, though the
opinion of the dentist was still pending.
"Don't you think that if the dentist really thinks I am beautiful he
can notice it on his own?" I had asked my mother once, fed up with the
prompt. "Don't you think pointing it out to the dentist just points out
how not beautiful I must be?"
"It's just a point of emphasis," my mother had said. "It has nothing
to do with you, Emily. Just a way into conversation."
"Adults need things like that," my father sometimes added.
But Mrs. Resnick hesitated, while Mark scratched a freckle on his
arm like a scratch-n-sniff.
"Mother," I said, and rolled my eyes so Mrs. Resnick and Mark
understood that I too thought this question was unacceptable.
Mrs. Resnick had a bad habit of never looking at me, so she tried to
size up my entire existence using only her peripheral vision. Medium
height. Dirty blondish brownish hair. Scraggly, mousy, darling little
thing that apparently had no access to an iron or a bathtub.
Hours before the party, my mother tugged at her panty hose, wiped
her fingers across my cheeks, and said, "Go take a bath. You'll come out
smelling like the beach." This was strange, since I just got home from the
beach. And I never knew why smelling like the beach was always considered
a good thing, especially when the closest beach was the Long Island
Sound, and I wasn't even allowed to stick my head under.
"I don't want to take a bath," I said. "I don't like baths."
"Everybody likes baths," my mother said.
I did not like baths. I understood the warm water felt nice against
my skin, but after five minutes of sitting in the tub, it became painfully
apparent that there wasn't much to do in there. I would pass the
time by shaving every inch of my skin, including my elbows, and reciting
jingles I heard on the television—"Stanleyyy Steemmmmer," and
"Coca-Cola Classic, you're the one!" When I would be older, one of
my boyfriends would work as a flavor scientist for 7Up and would be
addicted to bathing with me, his body on mine nearly every night, spilling
water and secrets about the beverage industry, explaining that New
Coke was an elaborate marketing scheme, designed to taste bad, predicted
to fail, so they could reintroduce Coke as Coca-Cola Classic
and make everyone want it more. "It worked," he would say, filling my
belly button with water as I sang. "Look at you, giving them free advertising
in the tub."
"I've thought about it," I had told my mother in the kitchen, "and I
don't want to smell like the beach. I'd much rather smell like something
else, like a wildflower or a nest of honeybees."
"Emily," my mother had said. "I don't even know what that is supposed
to mean."
I had explained that Mark, who was a junior lifeguard at Fairfield
Beach, had found a box of dead kittens floating at the edge of the
shore when he combed the sand before his shift was over. Mark said
they were the saddest things he had ever seen, floating by a broken
buoy, curled up like they were sleeping. "But they weren't sleeping," he
had whispered in my ear. "I mean, they were dead." I explained to my
mother that smelling like the beach meant smelling like a place where
tiny animals could not survive, where cardboard boxes contained not
presents but sad corpses of beautiful things that were now impossible
to love. My mother sighed and blended the garlic.
"Yes, very beautiful," Mrs. Resnick finally said, and this settled all of us
into a strange sort of ease. Mrs. Resnick straightened out the hem of
her lime green dress, and my mother pointed out that my father had
recently planted tiger lilies in our backyard. Did they go with the neighborhood
décor?
"This neighborhood has a very specific floral nature," my mother
said.
Mark and his mother nodded. They already knew this.
"Well, you kids be good," my mother said, and stuck her fingers to
my lips in a not very covert attempt to remove the Revlon. "And take
some pictures, please."
That morning my mother had shoved a Polaroid camera in my face
and said, "We need a party photographer! It could be you!" like it was
a career move she might make me interview for. I snapped a picture
of the two women walking away from us, our mothers, mine tall and
alive in a coral party dress that was cut low enough to suggest breasts,
and Mrs. Resnick walking next to her, rounder at the hips, in a lime
green fabric with pearl embroidery so high on her chest it suggested
that once upon a time, in a faraway land, there were these breasts. The
skirt was cut at the calf, making her ankles look fatter than they should
have. "Cankles," Mark said in my ear. "Calves and ankles that are the
same width."
My mother picked up two empty beer bottles and a dish of shrimp
tails off the ground before making a full waltz back into the center of
the party, Mrs. Resnick wiped her glasses clean with a napkin, and I
thought, Those poor adults. Doomed to a life of filth, finding it everywhere
they went. At the beach, the only thing my mother could see
was the empty Fanta bottles, sandwich wrappers, Popsicle sticks littering
the water, and when the sun set over the water, Janice's mother
said it looked just like when she sorted through the garbage can with a
flashlight after Janice threw out her retainer. My mother and Janice's
mother shared a big laugh and quickly grew hot in their chairs, dried
out from Saltines and peanut butter and talking. They walked to the
water but never went in, moving away from the waves like the mess
was nothing but an accidental oil spill that would turn their toes black.
Janice and I sat on the wet sand and rubbed the water up and down our
newly shaved shins, while our mothers looked on, nervous about the
way we were already abusing our bodies. They held up sunscreen bottles,
rubbed cream on our noses. We fussed, squirmed, accused them of
horrible crimes, threatened to wipe it all off in the water, stare straight
into the sun until our corneas burned and our flesh flaked off, until we
had taken in the worst of the Sound with our mouths. They sighed,
tugged at our faces, threatened to bring us home, to end our lives right
there! But I was never scared. I knew our lives were just beginning and
that their lives were ending, and how strange it seems to me now that
this was a form of leverage.
