Tell Me What You Want: A Therapist and Her Clients Explore Our 12 Deepest Desires
For fans of Maybe You Should Talk to Someone and Tiny Beautiful Things, this behind-closed-doors exploration from an acclaimed psychotherapist of the twelve fundamental psychological needs we all share “provides a road map of how one might approach their own transformation by becoming willing to admit their deepest desires” (Christie Tate, New York Times bestselling author).

What do we want? And how do we get it?

Chloe is beautiful and fiercely bright, but she feels desperately deprived. Elliot, lost and adrift, is secretly grieving the loss of his famous lover. Rosie has always tried to follow the rules of cultural expectations, but a year into her marriage, she still hasn't had sex with her husband. Dwight is determined to be upbeat, even in the face of his wife's betrayal.

Each of us, at certain moments in our lives, can feel lost or confused. We often don't know how to get what we want, but we share some universal desires: to love and be loved; understanding, power, attention, freedom; to create, to belong, to win, to connect, to control; and we want what we shouldn't. In each of these twelve chapters, focused on one of these desires, psychotherapist Charlotte Fox Weber takes you behind closed doors of her therapy sessions as she guides clients towards startling insights and profound change.

With a warm and compassionate voice, Weber blends dramatic and moving personal stories with careful research in this “brilliant and wise” (The Times, London) guide to living well that will stay with you long after you turn the final page.
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Tell Me What You Want: A Therapist and Her Clients Explore Our 12 Deepest Desires
For fans of Maybe You Should Talk to Someone and Tiny Beautiful Things, this behind-closed-doors exploration from an acclaimed psychotherapist of the twelve fundamental psychological needs we all share “provides a road map of how one might approach their own transformation by becoming willing to admit their deepest desires” (Christie Tate, New York Times bestselling author).

What do we want? And how do we get it?

Chloe is beautiful and fiercely bright, but she feels desperately deprived. Elliot, lost and adrift, is secretly grieving the loss of his famous lover. Rosie has always tried to follow the rules of cultural expectations, but a year into her marriage, she still hasn't had sex with her husband. Dwight is determined to be upbeat, even in the face of his wife's betrayal.

Each of us, at certain moments in our lives, can feel lost or confused. We often don't know how to get what we want, but we share some universal desires: to love and be loved; understanding, power, attention, freedom; to create, to belong, to win, to connect, to control; and we want what we shouldn't. In each of these twelve chapters, focused on one of these desires, psychotherapist Charlotte Fox Weber takes you behind closed doors of her therapy sessions as she guides clients towards startling insights and profound change.

With a warm and compassionate voice, Weber blends dramatic and moving personal stories with careful research in this “brilliant and wise” (The Times, London) guide to living well that will stay with you long after you turn the final page.
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Tell Me What You Want: A Therapist and Her Clients Explore Our 12 Deepest Desires

Tell Me What You Want: A Therapist and Her Clients Explore Our 12 Deepest Desires

by Charlotte Fox Weber

Narrated by Charlotte Fox Weber

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Tell Me What You Want: A Therapist and Her Clients Explore Our 12 Deepest Desires

Tell Me What You Want: A Therapist and Her Clients Explore Our 12 Deepest Desires

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Overview

For fans of Maybe You Should Talk to Someone and Tiny Beautiful Things, this behind-closed-doors exploration from an acclaimed psychotherapist of the twelve fundamental psychological needs we all share “provides a road map of how one might approach their own transformation by becoming willing to admit their deepest desires” (Christie Tate, New York Times bestselling author).

What do we want? And how do we get it?

Chloe is beautiful and fiercely bright, but she feels desperately deprived. Elliot, lost and adrift, is secretly grieving the loss of his famous lover. Rosie has always tried to follow the rules of cultural expectations, but a year into her marriage, she still hasn't had sex with her husband. Dwight is determined to be upbeat, even in the face of his wife's betrayal.

Each of us, at certain moments in our lives, can feel lost or confused. We often don't know how to get what we want, but we share some universal desires: to love and be loved; understanding, power, attention, freedom; to create, to belong, to win, to connect, to control; and we want what we shouldn't. In each of these twelve chapters, focused on one of these desires, psychotherapist Charlotte Fox Weber takes you behind closed doors of her therapy sessions as she guides clients towards startling insights and profound change.

With a warm and compassionate voice, Weber blends dramatic and moving personal stories with careful research in this “brilliant and wise” (The Times, London) guide to living well that will stay with you long after you turn the final page.

Editorial Reviews

From the Publisher

"Brilliant and wise advice." —The Saturday London Times

"The case studies are testament to the power of therapy ... [the writing is] thoughtful, lucid and blessedly free of therapese ... Weber’s book is a powerful snapshot into the little bombs going off in the lives and homes of those around us." —The Sunday Times

Library Journal

03/01/2023

Psychotherapist and debut author Weber takes readers inside some intimate conversations between a therapist and her clients about the universal desires that drive people, such as to love and be loved. The book also delves into what people do to get their desires. Each chapter explains one desire and the common issues people face by effectively utilizing a client's story as an example. The author then analyzes the situation through a therapist's lens. The chapter featuring the story of Tessa's end-of-life struggle with how she handled love is very moving and relatable. It also teaches a good lesson about giving of oneself. The book includes a table of contents, glossary, and a section with references for further reading. Weber's personal and intimate tone makes for a relaxing read that provokes introspection. VERDICT This book is recommended for those interested in self-help, therapy, and exploring one's deepest desires.—Bridgette Whitt

Kirkus Reviews

2023-01-21
How to connect with your own needs.

Psychotherapist Weber makes her book debut with a thoughtful look at the potential of therapy “to uncover the hidden longings, the cloak-and-dagger feelings, the stories of desire we imagine for our unlived lives.” Through examples distilled from her work with a variety of patients, she hopes readers will be able to recognize what they really want from their “one precious life” as well as the obstacles that prevent them from fulfilling those desires. The author frames each chapter, anchored by a case history, with her insights about 12 common longings, including for love, power, control, attention, freedom, and understanding. Besides offering intimate details of a patient’s struggles, Weber also reveals the frustrations and doubts that arise in caring for them. “I am a demanding therapist,” she admits. “I want therapy to spark something and change life in some way.” But some patients make her task difficult. One woman, for example, was “entrapped by repetition compulsions” that took the form of “drinking rituals,” bingeing and purging, and “circular fights with her ex-husband, and her parents, and her siblings.” Her psychotherapy sessions, too, were “full of repetition and circularity.” Several case histories, in fact, reveal frustrating repetitiveness as patients rehash their troubles. Some patients refuse to acknowledge their real needs; others try to distract the therapist from asking uncomfortable questions. Weber is gently persistent: “Therapists are like truffle pigs when it comes to vulnerability: we go hunting and rooting around until we find what we’re looking for.” The author highlights useful terms—some she’s coined herself, all defined in a glossary—to describe behaviors such as sufferiority, meaning “a sense of pride and exceptionalism that is mixed with feelings of shame and inadequacy”; askhole, someone asking for advice and then ignoring it; and femasculating, referring to the disempowerment of women.

A perceptive guide to self-knowledge.

Product Details

BN ID: 2940174943506
Publisher: Simon & Schuster
Publication date: 04/11/2023
Edition description: Unabridged
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