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Overview

We all love the benefits of technology and social media, but even with the incredible upsides, many of us suspect there are unintended negative consequences beyond our control. The more we compare ourselves with others, the less satisfied we are. The more we interact online, the more we crave face-to-face intimacy. The more filtered our lives become, the more challenging it is for us to be authentic. The more information we receive about the pain and crises in the world, the more difficult it is for us to care.

In this timely five-session video-based study (DVD/digital video sold separately), New York Times bestselling author Craig Groeschel taps in to some of the most up-to-date studies on social media to help us understand how it affects our emotions, our relationships, our attitudes, and our beliefs. He offers real-life examples to reveal the depths to which each of us battles with social media, how it masks our real struggles, and how we can reclaim a Christ-centered life. He encourages us to regain control over our lives by rediscovering the principles real life with Jesus brings: contentment, intimacy, authenticity, compassion, and rest.

#Struggles will show you the ways technology has enslaved you rather than served you and what changes your need to make in your life to restore balance. Above all, it will point you to Christ and help you understand the healing he wants to do in you. As you follow his leading and seek him first, you will find you are no longer defined by who follows you but by the One you follow.

Sessions include:

Recovering Contentment (10:00)
Restoring Intimacy (10:00)
Revealing Authenticity (10:00)
Resurrecting Compassion (10:00)
Replenishing Rest (10:00)

Designed for use with #Struggles Video Guide (sold separately).

Product Details

ISBN-13:	9780310684725
Publisher:	HarperChristian Resources
Publication date:	10/27/2015
Sold by:	HarperCollins Publishing
Format:	eBook
Pages:	128
File size:	3 MB

About the Author

New York Times bestselling author Craig Groeschel is the founding and senior pastor of Life.Church, which created the free YouVersion Bible App and is one of the largest churches in the world. He has written more than fifteen books and hosts the top-ranking Craig Groeschel Leadership Podcast. He speaks regularly for the Global Leadership Network, which reaches hundreds of thousands of leaders around the world annually. Craig and his wife, Amy, live in Oklahoma. Connect with Craig at www.craiggroeschel.com.

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#Struggles Study Guide

By Craig Groeschel

ZONDERVAN

CHAPTER 1

recovering contentment

The Struggle with Comparisons

All day long we are bombarded with messages that seek to persuade us of two things: that we are (or ought to be) discontented and that contentment is only one step away: "use me, buy me, eat me, wear me, try me, drive me, put me in your hair."

John Ortberg, Love Beyond Reason

Welcome!

Welcome to Session 1 of #Struggles. If this is your first time together as a group, take a moment to introduce yourselves to each other before the group activity. Then let's begin!

Group Activity: Devices Out and Down (2 minutes)

The #Struggles study explores how things like new technology and social media can complicate age-old struggles such as comparison, envy, jealousy, greed, and a variety of addictions. The goal is to learn biblical values that can help us restore balance in our lives and address any unhealthy overreliance we might have on technology. As a starting point, try taking a break from technology for the duration of your group meeting.

1. Take out your phone, tablet, or any other electronic device you may have with you. Turn it off or place it in airplane mode. (The only exception here and in all remaining sessions is for those who are using an ebook version of the guide and need their device to participate in the study. If so, put the device in airplane mode and use it only to access the guide.)

2. Set your device face down in the center of the room (if you are sitting in a circle), or at the front of the room (if you are sitting in rows). Ideally, you should be able to see your device but not be able to reach it.

3. Continue with the remainder of the group meeting. Rest assured that you will retrieve your device after closing prayer at the end of the session!

Video: Recovering Contentment (10 minutes)

Play the video segment for Session 1. As you watch, use the outline provided to follow along or to take additional notes on anything that stands out to you.

Notes

The more we compare, the less satisfied we are.

On social media, everybody else's life looks perfect. They're showing us their highlight reels, and we're comparing it with our behind-the-scenes.

More than one third of students felt significantly worse after spending time on Facebook. The number one emotion they felt was envy.

Chuck Swindoll: "Life is 10 percent what happens to you, and 90 percent how you respond." For so many of us, it is the exact opposite. It's all about what happens to us, and we forget that our response has any real value at all.

Here are three ways we can respond when we are tempted to compare and be envious:

1. We will kill comparisons.

"But if you harbor bitter envy and selfish ambition in your hearts, do not boast about it or deny the truth. Such 'wisdom' does not come down from heaven but is earthly, unspiritual, demonic. For where you have envy and selfish ambition, there you find disorder and every evil practice" (James 3:14 – 16).

2. We will celebrate other people's blessings.

"Rejoice with those who rejoice; mourn with those who mourn" (Romans 12:15).

3. We will cultivate gratitude.

Envy is resenting God's goodness in other people's lives and ignoring his goodness in your own.

"Enjoy what you have rather than desiring what you don't have. Just dreaming about nice things is meaningless — like chasing the wind" (Ecclesiastes 6:9 NLT).

"I know what it is to be in need, and I know what it is to have plenty. I have learned the secret of being content in any and every situation, whether well fed or hungry, whether living in plenty or in want. I can do all this through him who gives me strength" (Philippians 4:12 – 13).

When Christ is all you have, you'll recognize that Christ is all you need.

Group Discussion (46 minutes)

Take time to talk about what you just watched.

1. What part of the teaching had the most impact on you?

Living in a Selfie-Centered World

2. At the beginning of the video, Craig described how social media often leads us to compare our behind-the-scenes with everyone else's highlight reels. On Instagram, he saw friends attending a conference he wished he could attend, hanging out with people he wished he knew, vacationing in places he wished he could be. When he compared where his friends were with where he was — stuck in his office — he felt discontent and bad about himself.

• Briefly describe a recent "highlight reel" you came across. How did it compare to your "behind-the-scenes"? What response did it prompt in you? For example: discontent, gratitude, envy, happiness, etc.

• Consider your own social media highlight reels. If someone you didn't know were to look at your last several posts on social media, would they be more likely to get the impression that your life is better than it really is, worse than it really is, or pretty close to how it actually is? Describe any examples that illustrate your response. (And no, you may not retrieve your device to illustrate your response!)

• Aside from social media, what else tends to trigger discontent or envy in you? For example: when someone you know gets a new car/gadget/outfit, has a great marriage or romantic relationship, has more favorable life circumstances, etc. In what ways, if any, do these experiences or your response to them differ from those triggered by social media?

3. A selfie-centered world is a world that makes everything about us. But if we want to live in a way that honors Christ — who calls us to die to ourselves and follow him — we have to be different. We have to resist the distractions, habits, and temptations that pull us away from loving God and loving others.

• Consider first how you are affected when a friend or family member uses technology or social media. How does their use of these tools strengthen your relationship or demonstrate their love and care for you? How does their use of these tools weaken your relationship or become a source of tension?

• Now consider how your own use of technology and social media impacts your relationships. In what ways are they tools that help you to love God and love others? In what ways are they distractions, habits, or temptations that pull you away from loving God and loving others?

Three Strategies for Battling Envy and Learning Contentment

4. Craig quoted pastor Chuck Swindoll as saying, "Life is 10 percent what happens to you, and 90 percent how you respond." Although we can't always stop the distractions and temptations that bombard us in a selfie-centered world, we can choose how we respond to them. As time permits, discuss one or more of the three strategies for battling envy: kill comparisons, celebrate other people's blessings, and cultivate gratitude.

Kill comparisons. We need to kill the comparisons that lead to envy because they are more serious than most of us realize. The apostle James puts it bluntly:

But if you harbor bitter envy and selfish ambition in your hearts, do not boast about it or deny the truth. Such "wisdom" does not come down from heaven but is earthly, unspiritual, demonic. For where you have envy and selfish ambition, there you find disorder and every evil practice.

(James 3:14 – 16)

• Based on James's description, how would you assess the spiritual threat level envy poses? Choose a number on the continuum below and share the reasons for your response.

1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10

Envy is harmless. Envy is lethal.

• What similarities or differences are there between how James describes envy and how you have tended to view the threat level it poses in your own life? For example, would you have chosen a smaller or larger number on the continuum to describe the level of threat envy poses to you? Why?

• One way to kill comparisons is to identify what triggers them and stop doing it. For example, we might hide a person's Facebook posts, unfollow them on Instagram or Twitter, turn off notifications, delete the app, or take a break from social media for a while. Beyond social media, we might throw out the catalogs, stop watching HGTV, cancel the annual trip to the boat show, or remove ourselves from whatever it is that leads to comparison and envy.

If you were to take the spiritual threat level of envy as seriously as James does, what kinds of things might you have to stop doing?

Celebrate other people's blessings. When you see someone else being blessed in a way you hope to be blessed, choosing to celebrate with them can purify the intentions of your heart. The biblical principle is to:

Rejoice with those who rejoice; mourn with those who mourn.

(Romans 12:15)

• Briefly reflect on a time when someone authentically rejoiced and celebrated with you. What did that person say or do — not say or do — that made their response especially meaningful?

• What insights or principles are there in the experience you just described that might help you to celebrate other people's blessings in a way that is meaningful to them?

Cultivate gratitude. If envy is resenting God's goodness in other people's lives and ignoring God's goodness in your own, one way to battle envy is to train your heart to continually look for God's goodness. King Solomon, the richest man of all time, put it this way:

Enjoy what you have rather than desiring what you don't have. Just dreaming about nice things is meaningless — like chasing the wind.

(Ecclesiastes 6:9 NLT)

• In what area of life are you most tempted to "chase the wind," to focus on what you don't have rather than enjoying what you do have?

• If instead, you were to look for God's goodness in this area of life, what would you see that you could be authentically grateful for?

Strength for the Battle

5. Craig stressed that we can battle envy in all these ways by following the example of the apostle Paul, who relied on Christ's power to learn and practice contentment:

I know what it is to be in need, and I know what it is to have plenty. I have learned the secret of being content in any and every situation, whether well fed or hungry, whether living in plenty or in want. I can do all this through him who gives me strength.

(Philippians 4:12 – 13)

Earlier in his letter to the Philippians, Paul describes the source of this kind of strength:

I want to know Christ and experience the mighty power that raised him from the dead. I want to suffer with him, sharing in his death, so that one way or another I will experience the resurrection from the dead!

(Philippians 3:10 – 11 NLT)

Paul links Christ's power — the source of strength he needs to practice contentment — to sharing in Christ's death and resurrection. It's been said that nothing that has not died can be resurrected. In other words, we won't experience the power of new life and growth without first surrendering to some kind of loss or "death."

• In what ways do you feel like you lack the spiritual strength or power you need in order to let go of envy and experience contentment?

• What is it you might need to die to in order to experience the power of Christ in this weakness? How would you describe the "resurrection" or new life you hope to experience as a result?

6. At the start of the session you had a chance to begin practicing contentment by setting aside your phone or other electronic device. How has this brief separation from your device impacted you? For example: in what you thought about, in your ability to be present in the group, in raising awareness of how you rely on your device.

Friend Request

7. In addition to exploring #Struggles together as a group, it's important to also be aware of how God is at work among you — especially in how you relate to each other and share your lives throughout the study. In each session, there will be many opportunities to speak life-giving — and life-challenging — words and to listen to one another deeply.

As you anticipate the next several weeks of learning together in community, what request would you like to make of the group? For example, how do you hope other members will challenge you or encourage you? Use one or more of the sentence starters below, or your own statement, to help the group understand the best way to be a good friend to you throughout this study. As each person responds, use the two-page chart that follows to briefly note what is important to that person and how you can be a good friend to them during your discussions and times together.

I'd like you to consistently challenge me about ...

It really helps me to engage in a group when ...

I tend to withdraw or feel anxious when ...

You can help me to take this study seriously by ...

In our discussions, the best thing you could do for me is ...

Individual Activity: What I Want to Remember (2 minutes)

Complete this activity on your own.

1. Briefly review the outline and any notes you took.

2. In the space below, write down the most significant thing you gained in this session — from the teaching, activities, or discussions.

What I want to remember from this session ...

Closing Prayer

Close your time together with prayer. Following prayer, you are free at last to retrieve your electronic devices!

#1 Personal Study

Read and Learn

Read the introduction and chapter 1 of the book #Struggles. Use the space below to note any insights or questions you want to bring to the next group session.

Study and Reflect

While I can't speak for you, I'm finally willing to admit the truth. I'm tethered to my phone, addicted to my favorite apps, and hooked on social media. Technology has become central to my life. I don't really control it. It controls me. And I don't like that.

1. The purpose of the #Struggles study is to explore how things like new technology and social media can complicate age-old struggles we all have, and then to learn biblical values that can help us to address them. To get a feel for your starting point on this journey, use the questions that follow to briefly assess where you are right now. For each statement, circle the number on the continuum that best describes your response.

a. I sometimes feel like a loser when I look at social media.