| Introduction | |
| 1 | Bad News | 1 |
| 2 | A Life of Dedication and Perfection | 7 |
| 3 | MS Rears its Ugly head | 13 |
| 4 | Elected by Acclamation as President of the KBC | 21 |
| 5 | From Walking to a Wheelchair | 25 |
| 6 | Encourage and Allow Independence | 35 |
| 7 | It's Different When It's You | 43 |
| 8 | What Do Caregivers Do? | 47 |
| 9 | Dealing With the Desire to Abandon Ship | 55 |
| 10 | Overcoming the Paranoia of Pushing a Wheelchair | 59 |
| 11 | A Complete Change of Lifestyle | 63 |
| 12 | What Happens to Sex? | 69 |
| 13 | Wild Mood Swings | 77 |
| 14 | Coping With the Suicidal Threats of the Patient | 87 |
| 15 | Coping with Stress | 95 |
| 16 | Exercise | 101 |
| 17 | Be Careful About What You Eat | 109 |
| 18 | You Must Have A Life | 115 |
| 19 | Let Others Help | 121 |
| 20 | What People Expect of You as a Caregiver | 129 |
| 21 | Down They Go and Everybody Else with Them | 137 |
| 22 | What About Guilt | 141 |
| 23 | Trust and Its Impact on Relationships | 145 |
| 24 | Medical Costs | 153 |
| 25 | Housing Becomes a Major Issue | 161 |
| 26 | Traveling with the Patient | 165 |
| 27 | Shopping for my Wife | 171 |
| 28 | You Better Have a Sense of Humor | 177 |
| 29 | Going Out to Eat | 181 |
| 30 | Patience | 187 |
| 31 | Fear | 191 |
| 32 | Trying Everything | 195 |
| 33 | There is Always Somebody Worse | 201 |
| 34 | Who Would Have Thought? | 205 |
| 35 | How Is Karen Doing? | 209 |
| 36 | Try to Understand | 215 |
| 37 | The Dying Process | 219 |
| 38 | For Karen | 227 |
| 39 | From 1998 to November 2000 | 247 |
