Table of Contents
Introduction—My Story 1
An Affirmation of Experience, Strength and Hope 5
The Story of Emotional Sobriety 7
A Commentary on The Twelve Steps of Alcoholics Anonymous 11
Setting the Scene 15
THE TWELVE STEPS—PRACTICED PROGRESSIVELY
Step Zero: This Shit Has Got to Stop 23
Step One: Powerlessness 35
Steps Two and Three: Finding Power 45
Step Eleven: Deepening the Connection to Power—Now 55
Steps Four and Five: Fact Finding and Truth Telling 67
Steps Six and Seven: Clearing the Channel 81
Steps Eight and Nine: Living the Amended Life 93
Steps Ten and Eleven: Awareness 103
THE TWELFTH STEP AND BEYOND
Step Twelve: Thriving 113
Step Twelve: Relationships 125
Step Twelve: On Trauma and Growth 133
Step Twelve: Useful Odds and Ends 141
Step Twelve: Anonymity 149
Afterthoughts from the Author 153
Acknowledgements—With Gratitude 159
Notes Bibliography 163
Bibliography 165