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To a couple, the greatest life changing event is the birth of their child. A baby whose heart is so tender and innocent because it hasn’t been filled with years of deceit, greed or hate is born. As time goes on, the parents will work diligently to shape and mold the way their youngster grows up. Dad and mom try to teach a variety of basic learning tools with educational skills that will be beneficial. This process may begin with lullabies, nursery rhymes, the ABCs, and later on, how to talk and pray. The memories of their first words, first step, favorite bedtime story, are locked away and cherished forever. Parents who truly love their child will always want to be involved in their life and can’t imagine the sorrow from being disconnected or permanently detached for an extended period of time.
Enter in a hostile breakup followed with legal action. Taken from a variety of reports in the media, fathers often become the undeserving victims of inhumanity. In this judicially tyrannical gender bias arena known as courtrooms, dad’s word is meaningless and mom’s hearsay becomes fact, usually without any type of investigation. If false allegations of any sort are made, he is automatically guilty and must now prove his innocence. Attorney fees can exceed a year’s worth of earnings. Overwhelmed by the emotional devastation and the legal costs, this mental torture can drive some men to self-destruct and finally give up.
Statistics show that dad becomes the non-custodial or the part time parent usually with no parental rights and mom, the domiciliary or full time parent in total control. Mommy is seen as the trustworthy parent and the focus of attention is now on daddy, as he resembles a moving target. Living under her roof, their little one develops loyalty for her but not for him. In the child’s best interest, the Judge decides how much time dad gets to be with or see his child. Parenting, especially nowadays, goes beyond the ability of a single parent.
Important to remember is that all men and women are not alike. A real daddy will do everything he can to set a positive example and provide for this child he helped to create. When allowed to do so, he wants to be the one who, with guidance and correction teaches moral principles to their little one. He is civil with the mother and she wants him to be the father to their youngster. A good dad will be there and participate in the life of his kid.
There is also a woman who doesn’t want a man in her life, or their child’s. She is first in line at the courthouse armed with false accusations and a pretense state of fear that her life is in danger. She uses slanderous statements to debase the man whom she laid with to conceive the child they’ll be fighting over. She asks the Judge to banish him and monthly payments to be on time. As for their child, too bad, no equal time with both parents. If this does not work, she can start rehearsing degrading comments about dad to their child.
The easiest people to program are young children. An attention starved child is usually willing to do as instructed to gain the love and approval that they need. Brainwashing of any kind is very successful when it comes from a trustworthy parent. Often one does not realize that by convincing a youngster to do something or say things that aren’t true, they create a tendency within that child to be dishonest. Soon after realizing that they’ve been untruthful, their little heart might feel dirtied or soiled. Later on in life, lying becomes an appropriate method used to get their way or whatever they want. To the vengeful parent who manipulates their child to crush the other parent, this process will ruin that child.
Enter in a hostile breakup followed with legal action. Taken from a variety of reports in the media, fathers often become the undeserving victims of inhumanity. In this judicially tyrannical gender bias arena known as courtrooms, dad’s word is meaningless and mom’s hearsay becomes fact, usually without any type of investigation. If false allegations of any sort are made, he is automatically guilty and must now prove his innocence. Attorney fees can exceed a year’s worth of earnings. Overwhelmed by the emotional devastation and the legal costs, this mental torture can drive some men to self-destruct and finally give up.
Statistics show that dad becomes the non-custodial or the part time parent usually with no parental rights and mom, the domiciliary or full time parent in total control. Mommy is seen as the trustworthy parent and the focus of attention is now on daddy, as he resembles a moving target. Living under her roof, their little one develops loyalty for her but not for him. In the child’s best interest, the Judge decides how much time dad gets to be with or see his child. Parenting, especially nowadays, goes beyond the ability of a single parent.
Important to remember is that all men and women are not alike. A real daddy will do everything he can to set a positive example and provide for this child he helped to create. When allowed to do so, he wants to be the one who, with guidance and correction teaches moral principles to their little one. He is civil with the mother and she wants him to be the father to their youngster. A good dad will be there and participate in the life of his kid.
There is also a woman who doesn’t want a man in her life, or their child’s. She is first in line at the courthouse armed with false accusations and a pretense state of fear that her life is in danger. She uses slanderous statements to debase the man whom she laid with to conceive the child they’ll be fighting over. She asks the Judge to banish him and monthly payments to be on time. As for their child, too bad, no equal time with both parents. If this does not work, she can start rehearsing degrading comments about dad to their child.
The easiest people to program are young children. An attention starved child is usually willing to do as instructed to gain the love and approval that they need. Brainwashing of any kind is very successful when it comes from a trustworthy parent. Often one does not realize that by convincing a youngster to do something or say things that aren’t true, they create a tendency within that child to be dishonest. Soon after realizing that they’ve been untruthful, their little heart might feel dirtied or soiled. Later on in life, lying becomes an appropriate method used to get their way or whatever they want. To the vengeful parent who manipulates their child to crush the other parent, this process will ruin that child.
Product Details
| BN ID: | 2940012304285 |
|---|---|
| Publisher: | AuthorHouse |
| Publication date: | 06/08/2007 |
| Sold by: | Barnes & Noble |
| Format: | eBook |
| Pages: | 192 |
| File size: | 197 KB |
About the Author
After building a wonderful relationship with his daughter, a man tells of how his child was unlawfully abducted by her mother and he is legally unable to do anything. For years he enjoyed joint custody until he returned from a job only to find that mommy packed up and moved far away. Obeying all the orders given by the Judge was to no avail. Much of his documented evidence wasn’t reviewed and seemed to be a waste of time. Orders from five court appearances meant nothing. Local authorities wouldn’t help so he conducted an investigation. After he had proof of where his child was, detectives did not assist. He was forced to accept being helpless and that he would not see his daughter for several years.
Some aren’t aware of the oppression one must endure when drawn into a vicious child custody battle where domestic decisions are made by a faulty family court. In a malicious litigation, the amount of men who must spend large sums of money, have their reputations slandered, are assumed guilty and receive harsher punishments far outnumber the women.
When the final decision of the hearings is to remove your child, whether it’s temporary or permanent, that event will traumatize any parent. This reality is just under your skin and you can find yourself often thinking or talking about it. Your mind will be like a computer that never shuts off with thoughts of what went wrong and memories of the child you lost, continuously being repeated. Now you’re on a heartbreaking roller coaster ride with lots of bumps that seems to go on forever. Not giving up on your child remains the top priority
For the sake of children, men and women should be fully aware of whom they choose to have a family with. Joining for the wrong reason can breed an outcome that will be very damaging to the innocent. Once this happens and a separation occurs, it’s almost certain that one or both parents end up in court. In most cases it is here that their youngster will lose his or her right to establish a healthy relationship with one or both of those parents.
Some aren’t aware of the oppression one must endure when drawn into a vicious child custody battle where domestic decisions are made by a faulty family court. In a malicious litigation, the amount of men who must spend large sums of money, have their reputations slandered, are assumed guilty and receive harsher punishments far outnumber the women.
When the final decision of the hearings is to remove your child, whether it’s temporary or permanent, that event will traumatize any parent. This reality is just under your skin and you can find yourself often thinking or talking about it. Your mind will be like a computer that never shuts off with thoughts of what went wrong and memories of the child you lost, continuously being repeated. Now you’re on a heartbreaking roller coaster ride with lots of bumps that seems to go on forever. Not giving up on your child remains the top priority
For the sake of children, men and women should be fully aware of whom they choose to have a family with. Joining for the wrong reason can breed an outcome that will be very damaging to the innocent. Once this happens and a separation occurs, it’s almost certain that one or both parents end up in court. In most cases it is here that their youngster will lose his or her right to establish a healthy relationship with one or both of those parents.
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