| Preface | ix |
| Introduction | xi |
Part 1 | Your Baby's Emotional Needs | |
Chapter 1 | Developing a Parenting Style That Works | 3 |
| Attachment Parenting | 5 |
| The Joys of Attachment Parenting | 11 |
| What Can Your Child Expect? | 14 |
| Father Feelings and Mother-Infant Attachment | 16 |
| The Overattachment Syndrome | 17 |
| A Personal Experience | 20 |
| From Oneness to Separateness | 23 |
Chapter 2 | How to Respond to Your Baby's Cries | 27 |
| A Baby's Cry Is a Baby's Language | 28 |
| How to Respond to Your Baby's Cries | 32 |
Chapter 3 | An Unwise Parenting Style: Restraint Parenting | 37 |
| Negative Effects of Restraint Advice | 39 |
| Responding as a Role Model | 42 |
Chapter 4 | The Fussy Baby: Alias the High-Need Child | 45 |
| Profile of a High-Need Baby | 48 |
| The Need-Level Concept | 51 |
| Survival Tips for Parenting the Fussy Baby | 55 |
Chapter 5 | The Family of a Fussy Baby | 63 |
| A Checklist for Possible Causes of Your Baby's Fussiness | 64 |
| How to Avoid Having a Fussy Baby | 65 |
| Advantages to Having a Fussy Baby | 67 |
| Words of Comfort | 68 |
| How to Avoid Mother Burnout | 69 |
| Survival Tips for the Burned-Out Mother | 74 |
Part 2 | Your Baby's Physical Needs | |
Chapter 6 | Weaning, Solid Foods, and Other Dietary Concerns | 83 |
| The Dos and Don'ts of Weaning | 84 |
| The Biblical Approach to Weaning | 85 |
| Introducing Solid Foods--When, What, and How Much? | 90 |
| Give Your Infant a Balanced Diet | 96 |
| How to Prepare Your Own Baby Food | 98 |
| Feeding Your Toddler--The Picky Eater | 99 |
| Feeding Problems | 101 |
Chapter 7 | Common Medical Concerns of Baby's First Year | 113 |
| Common Medical Concerns | 115 |
| Common Childhood Emergencies | 160 |
Part 3 | Practical Parenting | |
Chapter 8 | Nighttime Parenting | 171 |
| Babies' Sleep Patterns | 171 |
| Dispelling Myths | 184 |
| Father Feelings About Sharing Sleep | 190 |
| Are There Any Disadvantages to the Family Bed? | 192 |
Chapter 9 | Common Sleep Problems | 195 |
| A Summary of Bedtime Suggestions | 204 |
| The Exhausted-Mother Syndrome | 207 |
Chapter 10 | The Dilemma of the Working Mother | 215 |
| Choices | 216 |
| Working at Home | 226 |
| Working Outside the Home | 227 |
| Father Feelings and Working Mothers | 230 |
| Choosing a Baby-Sitter | 232 |
| Bibliography | 237 |
| Index | 253 |
| About the Authors | 265 |