Publishers Weekly
09/06/2021
In this blunt and well-reasoned account, Hunter College sociology professor Daniels (White Lies) challenges white women to “reach beyond the strictures of niceness and the constraints of ladyhood” and work to dismantle the systemic racism they have upheld. Details about her family background, including her grandfather’s membership in the Ku Klux Klan, enrich Daniels’s history of how white women have “instigated, encouraged, and benefited from white supremacy.” She notes that white women in the antebellum South gained power by inheriting enslaved people; that white suffragists opposed giving Black men the right to vote; and that white women have benefited “disproportionately” from affirmative action. Daniels also connects recent cases of white “Karens” calling the police on innocent Black people to historical episodes such as the 1955 lynching of Emmett Till; argues that negative emotional and health outcomes result from believing the lie that “being white will save us from social isolation and disconnection through materialism, individualism, and the satisfaction of superiority”; and guides white women on how to “divest from white spaces” and “acknowledge and repair harm.” Buttressed by Daniels’s personal reflections and lucid readings of American history and culture, this is a bracing yet actionable call for change. (Oct.)
From the Publisher
"An immensely readable examination of White women’s prominent role in the endurance of systematic racism... the author uses a wide array of examples of “nice white ladies” both on the right and the left… [she] also discusses the tragic suicide of her mother, who, despite relative privilege, was “taught to be nice above all else”—like many White women. Daniels, who has clearly done the work of examining herself first, concludes by offering constructive ways White women can undo the damage of their privileged status.”
—Kirkus
“Buttressed by Daniels’s personal reflections and lucid readings of American history and culture, this is a bracing yet actionable call for change.”
—Publishers Weekly
"Daniels, a Race and Africana Studies scholar, “calls in'' nice white ladies to dismantle white supremacy and promote a non-gendered feminism focusing on the intersections of race, class, sexuality, and more...Daniels creates a “we’re all in this together” tone by framing the narrative with her personal anti-racism journey, including her racist ancestry (her grandaddy was a Klansman). A welcome addition to the anti-racism canon."
—Booklist
“Daniels breaks down the role of white women in maintaining the prevalence of white supremacy in American society, emphasizing that even white women who “mean well” are complicit.”—Library Journal
“This nation has never, ever read anything like Nice White Ladies, and it shows every single day. Paragraph after paragraph, Jessie Daniels illustrates that's it's not enough just to say what no one is saying. We must, as she does, write what is rarely spoken with supreme skill and a desire to substantiate our claims as though our lives depended on it. I'd love to live in a world where every white woman on earth reads this book. It could change everything.”
—Kiese Laymon, author of Heavy: an American Memoir
“Mixing stories of her own youth and family with current events, Daniels calls in all white women to look at where they were, where they are, and where they are going. Instead of shying away from difficult truths, she invites readers to sit with them—to look across the table or into the next cubicle and see the impact of generations of choices. As uncomfortable as it is necessary.”—Mikki Kendall, New York Times-bestselling author of Hood Feminism
“Once again, Jessie Daniels has given us a crucial book for understanding race in America. This should be required reading for all who want to dismantle racist systems that limit what could otherwise be possible.”—Safiya Noble, author of Algorithms of Oppression
“If the title makes you squirm, this book is for you. Nice White Lades is a manifesto for readers who are ready to do the real work of reckoning with our shared racist inheritance.”
—Ruha Benjamin, professor of African American Studies at Princeton University
“With compassion, care, and a gentle double-dare, Daniels’ book cuts straight through the noise. I now know what I should do to help dismantle systemic racism, and I'm doing it. I'll always be grateful for this book.”
—The Rev. Dr. Susan Corso, minister and novelist
“A timely call to action for us white women everywhere in a moment plagued by the rise of white supremacy. Daniels lucidly details the mundane and sadistic ways that white women uphold white supremacy, even when it comes at great personal cost. Her work does not allow ‘nice white ladies’ to simply wallow in guilt, but encourages us to concretely challenge the ways we reinforce racial hierarchies.”
—Alyssa Bowen, PhD, research fellow at True North Research
“This is the book on whiteness we’ve been waiting for. Jessie Daniels pulls no punches as she unravels centuries of American narratives that cast white women as innocents, victims, and saviors. Drawing a straight line from lynching picnics to Karen-hood, Daniels deconstructs the tiny daily behaviors of “nice white ladies” that create structural racism across the United States today. This book is a powerful calling-in of her fellow white women, highly recommended for those who want to push past their conditioning.”
—Minal Hajratwala, author of Leaving India
Library Journal
08/13/2021
Daniels (White Lies) breaks down the role of white women in maintaining the prevalence of white supremacy in American society, emphasizing that even white women who "mean well" are complicit. She elucidates the history of white women's stake in American racism, as well as the cruelty with which they have wielded their power and privilege. Daniels breaks down the racism inherent in the wellness industry, as well as its alignment with capitalism, and explores issues such as cultural appropriation and white women's historic defense of racial segregation in schools. Any reader who has paid a modicum of attention to current events will be familiar with much of what Daniels surveys, including viral Karen videos, the oft-quoted percentages of white women who voted for Trump, pink pussy hat feminism, and the school admissions scandals. There are no fresh or unique perceptions in her discourse, and her targets (which include Gwyneth Paltrow and Sheryl Sandberg) have grown tiresome, eliciting boredom rather than insight. VERDICT Daniels quotes extensively from Black women, and readers would be better served by seeking out their writing directly. Ijeoma Oluo, Charlene Carruthers, Nikole Hannah-Jones, and Alicia Garza have all written books that offer personal context, emotional stakes, and steps for making meaningful change.—Barrie Olmstead, Lewiston P.L., ID
Kirkus Reviews
★ 2021-09-07
An immensely readable examination of White women’s prominent role in the endurance of systematic racism.
Daniels, a professor of sociology and Africana studies, considers the many ways that White women—incarnated in the countless “Karen” memes on social media—have been active agents in perpetuating systems of inequality from which they benefit. These ways include being nonquestioning actors in hoarding wealth through inheritance, upholding segregation in schools, and cornering jobs at the expense of people of color—all of which stubbornly maintain the political and economic imbalance between White and Black households. The “built-in advantage” of being a White woman is a legacy of the Colonial era, when “white women in the United States were enthusiastic in their cruelty as owners of enslaved people on plantations.” Affirmative Action, notes Daniels, has overwhelmingly helped White women in the workforce. White supremacy in the South and the lynching of Black men were predicated on the “protection” of White women, and that sense of fragility and entitlement was passed down through the generations. The author uses a wide array of examples of “nice white ladies” both on the right and the left, well-meaning feminists, purveyors of the “shallow promise of the wellness industry,” and “white savior moms” who adopt children of color, and she shows how this “intergenerational” racism is actually raising the mortality rates of White women. Daniels also discusses the tragic suicide of her mother, who, despite relative privilege, was “taught to be nice above all else”—like many White women. Daniels, who has clearly done the work of examining herself first, concludes by offering constructive ways White women can undo the damage of their privileged status by challenging and questioning as well as by cultivating alternate forms of family and kinship outside of the White nuclear family. “As white women,” she writes, “we need to tell the truth about ourselves and we need transformation.”
This significant study, both academic and personal, provides a well-lit path “to swerve away from white supremacy.
