Table of Contents
Preface
Counter-Cultural Strut
Predestined to Be the Same
Becoming Somebody
Walking Counter-Culture
Birthing New Faith
What Is New Faith?
The Goal of New Faith
Fall in Love with You
Not Men-Haters
Women and the Black Church
We Become Students of the Word
Womanist Theology
We Ain't Going Anywhere
My Soul Looks Back
Healing History
Slavery and Christianity
The Past Colors Our Present
Too Much Focus on Fashion
The Backbone of the Church
Revising Ourselves
Old Ways, New Ways
Corrective Love
Tending Your Garden
Sisterhood Future Style
The Walls That Divide
No Enemies Here!
Rocking the Cradle and the World
Black Mothers
Reclaiming Motherhood
A Brand-New Bag
Brothers
The Bible and Gender Wars
Keys to the Conflict
Sisters and Brothers in Truth
Sins of the Father
We Must Turn on the Light
Fathers in the Bible
Fatherlessness
We Are Stuck
Sexual Abuse
Survivors, Not Victims
It's Time for Love
Sisters Awake and Aware
Putting Slavery Behind Us
Love Our Way
Dating
The Men We Want
Becoming One Flesh
New Faith Partnering
Costs of Traditional Marriage
Overhauling Traditional Misunderstandings
Roots of the Domination Fixation
Authentic Intimacy
Partnership Marriage
Cleaning Up the House
Women's Work
Men's Work
What We Can Do Together
Striving toward the Vision
Notes
Selected Readings