Publishers Weekly
06/07/2021
In author and The Great British Baking Show–winner Hussain’s latest picture book, a brown-skinned child ruminates on their “monster,” a horned buttercup-colored creature who is the child’s constant companion. Hussain’s text remains lighthearted while compassionately conveying the child’s difficulties: “I told her how my monster just wouldn’t go away. It WOULDN’T leave me alone. Ever.” As the child speaks to careful listener Gram, the monster shrinks to a manageable size, providing a useful model for empathic adults. Bailey’s art emphasizes the monster as not malicious, only inconvenient; an author’s note reveals Hussain’s own experiences with panic disorder “for as long as I can remember.” This evenhanded illustration of anxiety and panic attacks will give many young readers language to describe their own experiences. Ages 3–5. (Mar.)
From the Publisher
Praise for My Monster and Me
* "This accessible tale will empower children to identify and speak about their worries.... Charming and effective."—Kirkus Reviews, starred review
"What a sweet, accessible way to bring a conversation about panic attacks into a child’s understanding! [...] Hussain, who won The Great British Bake Off, seems to understand children just as much as cooking, granting them a path to coping, without ever belitting the sources of their fear."—School Library Journal
School Library Journal
05/01/2021
PreS-Gr 1—For as long as the small brown-skinned child can remember, anxiety and panic attacks have been a constant in his life. The metaphor for this is a small, hairy, yellow creature that increases in size as the boy grows up, and becomes more demanding, too. It hides whenever anyone else is around, and then grows huge again when the boy leaves the security of home. It rules his life, not even allowing him to go outside and play with other children: "It stood in the way and wouldn't budge." One day, when he is overwhelmed, the distressed boy tells his grandmother about his monster and the creature is suddenly diminished; it becomes small enough to fit in the child's pocket. What a sweet, accessible way to bring a conversation about panic attacks into a child's understanding! Readers will see that talking about the "monster" is the path to feeling better, a lesson they could apply to other problems. Though his anxiety never goes away completely, the youngster learns to manage his feelings better. Illustrations of the furry monster are not frightening but serve as a visual manifestation of an internal disorder. VERDICT Hussain, who won The Great British Bake Off, seems to understand children just as much as cooking, granting them a path to coping, without ever belitting the sources of their fear.—Maryann H. Owen, Oak Creek P.L., WI
Kirkus Reviews
★ 2020-12-25
A child learns to manage the monster that has overwhelmed them.
Narrating in first person, a small, brown child introduces readers to their monster: a large, yellow, furry creature with horns and a wide-eyed smile. The monster has always been there—always big and loud. The monster hides when family members come around, so the child can’t get help getting rid of it. The monster gets “bossier,” telling the child what to wear and preventing them from going outside to play with friends. One day, the monster is waiting for the child after school, and the child can’t take it anymore. Telling Gran all about the monster…suddenly makes the monster shrink. After that, the monster isn’t so scary anymore. British cooking personality Hussain personalizes this tale with a note about her own panic disorder, which inspired her to write this story to support children in naming and understanding “worries, anxiety and panic.” The direct-address narration and Bailey’s illustrations work together remarkably well to provide a poignant tool to do just that. With sweet pictures that show how things can change, this accessible tale will empower children to identify and speak about their worries, taking control away from their “monsters” and letting them enjoying their lives. (This book was reviewed digitally with 9-by-18-inch double-page spreads viewed at 78% of actual size.)
Charming and effective. (Picture book. 3-8)
