Mistake-Free Golf: First Aid for Your Golfing Brain

Mistake-Free Golf: First Aid for Your Golfing Brain

Mistake-Free Golf: First Aid for Your Golfing Brain

Mistake-Free Golf: First Aid for Your Golfing Brain

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Overview

Mistake-Free Golf is the first and only book that directly applies to golfers of all levels on how to specifically correct their mental errors.

By identifying the mental mistakes that golfers make on a consistent basis and then teaching the reader step-by-step how to correct these mental issues, Dr. Robert K. Winters will help take strokes off any golfer's game immediately.

By using interviews with over 50 established golf stars such as Nick Price, Michelle Wie, Charles Howell III, Raymond Floyd, Greg Norman, Suzann Pettersen, and 2013 U.S. Open champion, Justin Rose, and others, Dr. Winters helps golfers understand that players of all levels make the same mental mistakes and shows how to learn from these mental infractions and turn their shortcomings into new-found confidence.

Easy to read with entertaining stories, anecdotes, and specific intervention strategies designed to make an immediate impact on the reader, Mistake-Free Golf can be read cover-to-cover or can be read by going to the chapter that is specifically handicapping the frustrated golfer. Mistake-Free Golf can be used as a reference book for the mentally frustrated golfer. Whether tossed in a golf bag and used as an emergency read or enjoyed as an insightful look into the mind of a golfer, this is truly first aid for the golfing brain!


Product Details

ISBN-13: 9781466843158
Publisher: St. Martin's Publishing Group
Publication date: 05/13/2014
Sold by: Macmillan
Format: eBook
Pages: 224
File size: 923 KB

About the Author

DR. ROBERT K. WINTERS is an internationally recognized sport psychologist, author and professional educator. He is the president of his own performance enhancement company located in Orlando, Florida and is also the Resident Sport Psychologist for the internationally renowned Leadbetter Golf Academy World Teaching Headquarters at Champions Gate in Orlando, Florida. Affectionately known as "Dr. Bob," his professional clientele consists of golfers from around the globe.

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ONE
 
 
I Don’t Believe in Myself
The greatest mistake you can make in life is to be continually fearing you will make one.
—ELBERT HUBBARD
 
LIGHTS … CAMERA … ANXIETY!
Here is the situation: You are on the practice tee and a large group of reporters and camera crews from ESPN, Fox Sports, and Golf Channel show up with their lights and cameras to film and interview you! What would you think? You may be asking yourself, Why do they want to film me? Is this a joke or some sort of golf reality show? Then, what if one of the sportscasters puts a microphone in front of your face and asks, “Are you mentally strong?” How would you reply? Would you look directly into the camera and say, “Yes, absolutely!” Or would you be more reserved and hesitant? Would you need a bit of time to think it over before you gave your answer? What if they asked the question in a different way: “Do you ever make mental mistakes when you play golf?” Now what would your answer be?
If you replied to the first question that you are mentally strong, then good for you. Having a self-concept that brims with self-confidence is vital to playing consistently well. But the majority of us tend to be a bit more restrained in our estimation of our golf worth. It’s not that we don’t value our talent, but we know firsthand that golf is a tough game to play in general and especially at a high level of consistency. Humility tends to be learned on the course via the school of hard knocks and unexpected results. So, our guttural response is going to be a bit guarded due to the challenging nature of the game itself.
However, in response to the second question, many of us fess up and admit to making mental errors. We all realize that in our golfing lives we are not bulletproof or invincible. We have all asked ourselves when playing the best round of our lives, Will I be able to close the deal? Will I be able to hang on and finish well? Is today the day that I succeed? These questions of doubt and suspicion rule our innermost thoughts and desires. We have all faced these demons, and sometimes we succeed and other times we fail. But when we fail, the fallout from the emotional devastation is more lasting on our psyches than the joys of the minor victories.
Let me ask you one more question: How many times have you said to yourself “that was stupid” or “I just wasn’t into it” or “I just knew that was going to happen” immediately after a poor shot? (Think about that one for a minute.) The point I am trying to make is, if you could eliminate every mental mistake or hesitation in your golfing round that led to a shot below your ability, how much better could you be? I imagine you would say much better! That is what playing mentally strong golf is all about. It is about stepping into your shot with the freedom to swing with trust and know that your ball is going to your intended target!
THE GREATEST INTERFERENCE: SELF-DOUBT
Many golfers that I have counseled over the years have told me that when they are over the ball, they feel doubt and anxiety. They are worried that they will hit a poor shot, embarrass themselves, or that others are judging them. They become “self-aware” rather than “target-aware.” That is, their mind is focused on past poor performance rather than on where it needs to be … the target. These players become so immersed in their thoughts that they fail to trust their talent and second-guess their decisions. They start to hit poor shots and eventually lose confidence in themselves. These internal issues are directly linked to the mind-body connection of how thoughts affect feelings and vice versa. Even if your feelings or thoughts are unfounded, the fallout from them remains the same and creates ineffective shots and results.
The greatest interference that you will have in your life is not negative evaluation from others, but your self-doubt. Your doubt and the incessant worry about your ability to play the way that you expect is the greatest roadblock to your golfing success. More important, every mental mistake you make is woven directly into the doubt and fear that you carry into every shot you play. In discussing doubt and mental mistakes with golfers of all levels for this book, I often found mixed feelings about how a player interprets success, confidence, and failure. It seems all golfers have their own story to tell, and when discussing doubt and fear, they feel as if they are the only ones that feel this way.
Part of the odd nature of golf is that it often creates feelings of doubt and uncertainty about one’s abilities even when those talents have been honed to precision over years of practice and competition. Despite knowing that doubt and indecision affect their behavior, many golfers with multiple years of experience still struggle with doubt and an inability to believe that good things will happen. They worry that bad events will happen, and they eventually sabotage their talent. They end up second-guessing themselves and before long they become mentally frustrated and lose confidence. Thus we have a multitude of golfers who stymie themselves with self-limiting thoughts and feelings even before they step onto the first tee.
There are as many error-producing thoughts and worries that plague golfers as there are players of this vexing game. Many of these thoughts are of failure, anxiety, and the inability to pull off a certain shot in a particular situation. Worries about whether other players will respect your swing or even acknowledge you as a good player affect your self-image and self-confidence. The following section highlights but a few of the mental errors that established players of every faction of professional and amateur golf suffer. As you read these passages, you may find yourself immersed in their words and suffering from the same calamity.
MENTAL ERROR REVELATIONS
Here are a few excerpts from some of the touring professionals and top teachers who were kind enough to share their experiences of doubt. The first is from Cameron Yancey, a young touring professional whom I coached at the University of Virginia during the 1990s. Cameron was the first player to graduate from the University of Virginia and qualify to play on the PGA Tour. Cameron discusses the frustration of losing himself when he was on tour and finding that his self-doubt and the expectations of others reinforced his concerns about his ability to play at golf’s highest level.
THE MENTAL MISTAKE #1
My biggest mental mistake is not staying true to myself and believing in my talent. In my rookie year on the PGA Tour, I guess I was just unprepared for the stargazing that went on and I got out of my comfort zone and got away from being Cameron Yancey. I guess I just lost my own game and was trying to be someone else, and when you do that, you are done.
Also, when I would miss a cut, it seemed that everyone is coming up to you and asking you what is wrong and you need to be doing this and doing that, and before long, your confidence is shot and you start to question your ability to play. It’s as if you miss a couple of cuts and you can’t play anymore, and I don’t know if anyone else feels like that, but that’s what I felt like. I mean my confidence would be shaken and then I would start trying different things and I got away from doing the things that I normally do that got me on the PGA Tour in the first place!
So, my mental mistake is not being me and trying to be someone else. For example, I normally draw the ball and I can control it very well. Well, when I got to the tour, there was just player after player who said, “You need to learn how to cut it. If you don’t learn how to fade the ball, you will be done in no time.” Well, I listened to those guys and what happened? I screwed myself up and lost the confidence in my playing ability because I was trying to hit the ball like everyone else and I am not like anyone else. I am Cameron Yancey and I need to play like Cameron Yancey.
DR. BOB’S RX FOR SUCCESS
Just like Cameron, many of us have a game that works well for us and brings us success. However, in trying to improve and get better, we immerse ourselves in new training procedures and abandon what it is that we do well. We start searching for other ways to do the things that we have done well, and by virtue of experimentation we end up losing ourselves and our game. In Cameron’s case, his belief in his game and what he could do with the golf ball is what earned him the chance to play on the PGA Tour in the first place! However, Cameron was seduced by many of the common mental dilemmas that often face young players who are not familiar with or are unable to recognize mental mistakes when they appear.
The first mental mistake that Cameron committed was the “stargazing” when he first arrived on the PGA Tour. This is a very human yet overwhelming mental mistake. When you place more focus on the people around you than on taking care of number one (which is you), your concentration is off and can only lead to poor performance. One can only imagine walking onto the practice tee alongside the likes of Tiger, Phil, and Paula and knowing that you are now among players whom you had only before seen on your flat-screen TV. Talk about being out of your comfort zone!
This is similar to what many of us go through when we play in our local tournaments or even when we have our weekend skins game with a couple of new players. We size up our competition. We start to wonder, Do I have the ability to compete with these other players? This self-reflection often leads to speculation and doubt. Much like Walter Zembriski, Cameron needed to let go of the other players and remind himself that he had the game to compete … otherwise he wouldn’t have gotten on the tour in the first place!
Dr. Bob’s Rx for Success is basic: Let go of all those around you because you cannot control their games, nor can they control yours. You must understand that your game … is your game … and no one else can play or think like you. The golf course and the challenge of the game is your true opponent, not the other players! So, the next time you go out to play, play the golf course with the game you have and let the name players do their thing and you will have a much better day on the course.
The next mistake that created doubt is that Cameron listened to the well-intended advice of other players; he got away from being true to himself and the way that he played. He wasn’t playing Cameron Yancey golf. He talked about how other players insisted that he needed to fade the ball rather than draw the ball, which was his dominant and “go to” shot. Allowing others to influence his thinking and basic beliefs about his game created doubts that sent Cameron on a search mission to find something else that might work even better than what he already had. But what happened isn’t what Cameron intended at all; it only heightened the problem.
Think about what Cameron experienced and put yourself in his shoes. If everyone around you is asking, “What’s wrong with you? Why aren’t you playing well?,” how would you react? If all that is being said to you creates a question mark in your mind and is constantly being hammered into your head … eventually you will start to doubt yourself and begin looking into the mirror and asking, What is wrong with me?
What Cameron learned from this experience is the ultimate life lesson we must all learn: we are individuals. No one else on this golfing planet is the same or thinks the same as ourself. We must disallow the good intentions of others and stay true to our gut instincts and do our own thing. In trying to be perfect or to play like other golfers, we often give up our personal genius and end up losing ourselves and our self-confidence. As the old saying goes, “no one is more qualified at being you … than you!”
I am not saying that self-improvement and searching for excellence is a bad thing, because we are all striving to improve our technical, mental, and physical abilities in golf. But when you alter or make compromises that interfere with the innate and developed talents that have taken you to a high level, then you must assess thoroughly if change is warranted. The Cameron Yancey story is vital to understanding that to be truly self-confident, you must assess your talent, believe in yourself, and learn to dismiss the good intentions of others who want you to change and be untrue to your real self. Remember, all that you have is yourself, but that should be more than enough if you truly believe in your ability.
THE MENTAL MISTAKE #2
The second example of the mental mistake of doubt and a poor belief system comes from South African Deanne Pappas. Sometimes our most egregious golfing mistakes come about from lost opportunities or having failed in the past. The emotional fallout from these miscues causes us to worry whenever we face similar situations again. Deanne faces his greatest mental challenge on the putting green:
I guess my biggest mental mistake would have to be that I question my ability to be a good putter, and I know that over the years I have had a lot of success. It is a funny thing, but I am over the putt now and I am thinking after I hit a good putt and the ball is halfway to the hole, I am talking to myself and saying, “How am I going to get screwed out of this one!” Now what is that all about?
I don’t know how I got to this position in my career, but I know that I have a good stroke because everyone tells me, “Wow, you have such a good stroke and the ball rolls so well,” but I think … if that is true, how come I am always missing the putt? I make great rolls but the ball doesn’t go into the hole. It just becomes so frustrating after a while and it wears your confidence in putting way down.
DR. BOB’S RX FOR SUCCESS
Worry and doubt seem most clearly evidenced in golf on the putting green. This is because putting is black-and-white. Either you make the putt or you miss. The golf ball does not discriminate nor does it play favorites. The golf ball does not care how much you want to make the putt or how scared you are of missing. You cannot hide from your lack of belief in your putting ability because the ball will not lie. It only goes where your mind is focusing. If you fear missing, then that is what you create in your mind, and your body will respond to that directive. Hence, you putt and you miss. If you feel confident and self-assured that you can putt well, you will hit your putt solidly and it has a good chance to go in.
From his statements, Deanne is making the mental mistake of sabotaging his success even before his ball has finished rolling! Deanne may not perceive it, but through the years he has perhaps talked himself into the habit of reacting negatively to his putting. By instantly reacting to the feel of the putt before it finishes, he dismisses all of the positive memories from years past and the affirmations that he has received from people who tell him that he has a great stroke.
Interestingly, he has a history of success on the greens, but even with his success, he is still finding ways to undermine his belief that he is a good putter! This situation needs a fix and fast! If you share Deanne’s problem, then here are two things that you need to do:
1. First, you need to suspend evaluation and judgment by the result. That is, you need to develop the philosophy that a putt is not good or bad because of the result, but should be judged by your overall commitment to and execution of the stroke of the ball. You must place more emphasis on your commitment to your read and to the execution of a good stroke than whether the ball goes in the hole. When you place too much value on whether the ball goes in the hole, you have created “must” thinking. You feel that you “must” make the putt and nothing else is more important. The focus of “must” makes it simply all or nothing on the green. If you make your putt, then all is well with the world. That is the way it is supposed to be.    However, if you miss, then you are an awful putter or you hit a crappy putt. This type of distorted thinking is perhaps what has led Deanne to second-guess himself on the greens. All-or-nothing thinking, the “must” mind-set, places too much pressure on the performer. The sooner you can get into your routine and trust your putting process, the sooner you will start to sink more putts.
2. The second thing that Deanne can do is create positive self-talk. That is, after a putt or shot comes to a stop, instead of beating himself up because the results weren’t what he wanted or expected, he can say something good to himself. By saying something positive after the ball is hit, he can direct his energy into the effectiveness of the process rather than into worry about the result. For example, if Deanne left his putt short but it was dead center toward the hole, he can say to himself, “That was just one roll shy of perfection. I hit the ball exactly where I wanted to hit it and my routine was flowing.” By doing this, he is focusing on the good aspects of his putting procedure versus focusing on results.
Deanne’s statements make it quite clear that his self-talk was not helping him. Until he stops the negative self-talk, he will never be the confident putter that everyone else sees in him. Confidence is hard to achieve if you are always knocking yourself down. If you are guilty of being too hard on yourself, then I suggest you stop negative self-talk and replace it with positive suggestions about things that you can control. Accept that you are too critical and negative and change into a more effective and positive mind-set. The two items suggested above will work wonders for your putting success.
THE MENTAL MISTAKE #3
Sometimes our failure to believe in ourselves happens when we least expect it. Our next example of a mental mistake comes from LPGA touring professional and college golf coach Ashley Prange. Ashley is a tenacious competitor and was the winner of Golf Channel’s Big Break V: Hawaii. Ashley speaks of having doubt and questioning her ability when she addresses the ball:
My biggest mental mistake is just having a lot of doubt and questioning my ability when I am standing over the ball. I have all of these thoughts about “Where am I aimed? Am I on target, or am I too far right or left?” It is so frustrating to play the game of golf as long as I have and to still have so many thoughts that lead me to mistrust my ability and create tension in my swing. When I get clear about my plan and my shot, that tends to help me free it up a little bit and I can swing with more trust to my target, but I have always tended to have a bit of doubt. But, I am working very hard on moving through all of the mental distractions that seem to plague everybody at one time or another.
DR. BOB’S RX FOR SUCCESS
Knowing that your body is aimed correctly is a major issue in building movement confidence. Movement confidence is a specific form of physical confidence in which you feel effective in a dynamic situation. Ashley talks of her frustration because she feels that she shouldn’t have this issue after having played the game for as long as she has. Being over the ball and having doubt is no way to think because it creates tension. Tension is a killer of rhythm, tempo, and fluidity. Here is the cure.
1. If you have doubt while standing over the ball in the address position, you need to develop a more comprehensive plan of action. You must assess the situation, analyze all of your options, and make a clear decision about what shot you want to hit. This decision should be made behind the ball and before you make your first step to the ball. Making absolutely sure that you have thought the situation through and you have a positive action plan for executing a shot will create a feeling of assurance and trust. This feeling will transfer into your having a greater rhythm while you are executing your swing.
2. Second, away from the course, practice your setup and address position. Place clubs or use chalk or paint lines on the ground to give you precise feedback as to the placement of your feet and how your shoulders, hips, and body align to your feet. Rehearsing and knowing that you are well aimed will eliminate a lot of stress when you head to the golf course to play. Preparation and readiness are key elements to building trust and confidence.
3. Third, have a friend or your teacher give you feedback on the practice range and also on the course. With feedback from another pair of eyes, you can instantly get yourself set up properly and learn from that setup.
4. Finally, when you step into the ball, focus on the target and not on yourself or your setup. Your setup should be automatic and needs to be rehearsed to the point of mastery via your preshot routine. The preshot routine needs to be overlearned because if you focus excessively on your components while you swing (aim, grip, stance, etc.), you create a conscious or coercive sense of movements versus a flow that is reactive and free.
Ashley, like many other top players, is to be congratulated for committing every day to getting beyond her doubt. If she has a clear picture of how she will execute her plan and manage her doubt, she and many others who suffer from this same mistake will find themselves in the winner’s circle.
THE MENTAL MISTAKE #4
Perhaps the hardest mental lesson to learn in golf is to believe in your talent and be happy with your own game. This is especially true when you are playing with more experienced players or seasoned veterans. Comparison is constant, and many times you feel that you do not measure up to the reputations or playing abilities of others. You may even wonder if the other players are talking about you or feel that you do not belong in their playing group. Our final segment, from teaching and playing professional Dave Jones, has a strong mental testimonial that everyone can relate to. Dave addresses his not being as experienced as some of the players that he faced and how this created a lack of trust in his own game. Dave discusses his mental error and the frustration he felt in learning how to let go of others and ultimately create a foundation of self-belief.
My greatest mental mistake or shortcoming would be thinking in my mind that I was good or that I was a talented player, but not believing totally in the talent that I possessed. I mean, I thought I had a pretty good game, but I truly didn’t believe in myself, or not the level of believing that you need to possess that creates unwavering confidence and produces great results. Whenever I would be playing with other players of greater experience levels or backgrounds with sparkling résumés and strong reputations, I wouldn’t believe in my talent as much. Perhaps I was always looking at their games and feeling like “Wow, they have such good games and they play so much more solidly than I do,” and this sort of made me a bit intimidated. I don’t know if it affected my confidence level or not, but I never tried to show that I was intimidated on the outside, but on the inside, I was a bit affected. I don’t know if I was consciously comparing myself to them, but I know that I would become attached to their shotmaking and play and that might have affected my psyche a bit.
Perhaps the main reason I felt like this when I was playing golf professionally was that I just didn’t have the background or playing experience that most of the other guys on the tours did. I mean, when I was growing up, I was more interested in becoming a professional baseball player and I really didn’t play any junior golf at all. The only reason I started playing golf really was to be with my dad. The players that are on the tours today are heads and shoulders ahead of me when I was a junior playing baseball and moving into golf. If you look at the junior golfers of today, they are veterans of hundreds of tournaments by the time they get to college, and the experience level that they have created for themselves by playing in lots of tournaments is enormous. What I had to do was just jump into the fire and get acclimated to learning by doing, and that meant playing golf and gaining experience by playing with stronger and more experienced players. It was a growing and learning experience for sure.
So, I feel that as I learned to believe more in myself and just play my game, the results and my comfort level in playing with other name players and in big tournaments tended to ease a bit, and I ended up playing pretty well and winning my first professional event by staying true to myself and my game and just doing my own thing. It sounds easy to simply say to “believe in yourself and just go play golf,” but when it comes down to it, it may be the toughest aspect of playing tournament golf.
DR. BOB’S RX FOR SUCCESS
The mental issues that Dave Jones talks about are typical of those of the millions of golfers who tee it up every day with other players in all types of recreational and competitive play. His viewing of himself as a good player but not fully believing in his talent is typical of many players who wear a mask of good swing mechanics and think they have a solid golf game. But these impostors crumble during performance rounds because their belief system is unstable. As Dave looked around at name players who had greater résumés or larger reputations than his, he devalued his talent and his positive self-image and confidence eroded.
While Cameron “stargazed” at the mass of talent around him on the PGA Tour, Dave did the same thing but on a smaller scale. This happens to players at every level of golf, whether junior, collegiate, or amateur. We look around and wonder about our ability and create doubt when what we need to do is to take care of our own business. By doing that, we take a big step toward attaining personal control. Letting go of others and taking care of number one (which is you) is the ultimate playing plan. It puts you in control of what you can do and places the onus of responsibility and “having to play well” on the other players. In essence, you are creating a zone of confidence and control and letting the other players fight it out among themselves.
Over time, Dave became more comfortable with the competition and other players and, inevitably, with himself and his talent. When he finally learned that only he can control himself and started to let go of the other players and their games and reputations, his own stock started to rise. Here are a few things that you can do to ultimately get you to a higher level of golfing efficiency and to create a foundation for believing in your talent.
FOUR IDEAS TO HELP GROW YOUR BELIEF SYSTEM
1. Remember, you are your golf game. That is, no one can play your game or think like you when you are on the golf course. You need to accept that on the golf course, in a scoring situation, you are only able to hit the ball a certain way, a certain distance, and a certain trajectory. It is your way. Do not allow yourself to be swayed into thinking that you need to be doing things differently from what you normally do just because someone else does it another way. There is a time to accept that this is how you play, and there is a time to make appropriate changes. Here are a couple of specific strategies for you when on the course:
a. Play your game. Stay with your game plan and hit the shots you know you can hit. Do not hit a club that is not right for you. Hit the one that gets the job done! Do not allow yourself to be swayed by what other golfers are hitting.
b. Be decisive about the type of shot you want to hit. If you know that you want to hit a high draw, do not change your mind when you are over the ball. Stay committed to the shot and the plan.
        By hitting the types of shots that you know you can hit or will provide a high percentage of success, you will build confidence and eliminate worry about poor results. It is vital that you take the time to develop these strategies on the range before you go play. As they say, practice makes relatively permanent. Therefore, practice the way that you want to play and the results will take care of themselves when you are on the golf course.
2. In everything you do in your golf … you need to let go of others. As you enter the golf gates, you need to tell yourself, Today is all about me … I will let go of what others are doing or what they might be thinking. Give yourself permission to focus more on yourself than what is going on around you. You need to focus on yourself and your golf game. You cannot control others any more than they can control you. The sooner you let go worrying about what others may (or may not) be saying or thinking about you is when you have more energy to invest in your game.
3. Make positive decisions about your game and shot strategy before you step onto the course and into your shot. Being decisive about how you want to play and about what type of shot you want to hit eliminates much of the internal clutter and self-made noise that emanates from doubt. Remember that worry is a feeling of losing personal control and feeling vulnerable. The key word here is feeling. Feelings do not have to reflect reality. If you can focus on executing the proper procedure and dismiss the negative feelings that accompany the shot, you can move through the doubt and hit your shot with surprising accuracy and consistency. Having a game plan and specific shot strategy and sticking to it will replace the feelings of doubt and uncertainty with a sense of purpose and directedness.
4. Learn to become comfortable with the uncomfortable. When you are in a tough situation, tell yourself right then, “This is a challenging situation … but I can handle it.” Composure is vital to playing great golf and is a key element to obtaining mastery and building confidence. However, to build a feeling of emotional comfort, you need to expose yourself to difficult or new situations and learn to become comfortable with the uncomfortable. By introducing an unfamiliar element (such as playing with strangers, putting everything out—i.e., not taking gimmes—or playing with stronger or more experienced players) you will become more comfortable by virtue of the repeated exposure. Remember, anytime we do something the first time, it always seems difficult because it is novel. You don’t know what will happen until you have been in that situation and experienced it firsthand! But the more times we do something, we learn from the experiences and adjust. I firmly agree with what former First Lady Eleanor Roosevelt said: “We must do the thing we fear.… The more times that we do it, the less its deathly grasp will have a hold on us.” Doing the uncomfortable or facing unfamiliar situations can eventually lead us to a feeling of competence and comfort where we once experienced uncertainty and doubt. This is not only a vital golf lesson, but one we can take for every other area of our lives.
 
Take It to the Course!
1. Make today … your day! Your day on the course is about you and only you. Forget about everyone else and what people are doing! This is your time. Use it. Choose to believe more in your talent than others’.
2. Hit the shot you know you can hit … functional is often more successful than fancy.
3. On each shot you face … remember that this is a new moment and that this is the one that gets you going in a positive direction! This is how you create momentum.
4. After every shot … good or bad … either find something good to focus on or simply move on to your next shot.

 
Copyright © 2014 by Robert K. Winters, Ph.D.
Foreword copyright © 2014 by Rich Lerner

Table of Contents

Foreword Written by Rich Lerner
Preface: The Greatest Lesson Ever Learned
Introduction: No One is Immune
Chapter One: I Don't Believe in Myself - I Doubt my Ability
Chapter Two: I hit the ball when I Know I am not ready
Chapter Three: I Get Ahead of Myself – I Fail to Stay in the Moment
Chapter Four: I Do Not Commit to My Shot or Game Plan
Chapter Five: I Care Too Much about Score, Results and my Reputation
Chapter Six: I Worry About Other Golfers and What They Think
Chapter Seven: I Expect to Play Perfect
Chapter Eight: I Think Too Much
Chapter Nine: I Lose My Composure
Epilogue
Acknowledgements
References

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