Table of Contents
Foreword Edward T. Welch xi
Preface xiii
Acknowledgments xv
Introduction xvii
Part 1 Marriage
A The Foundations of Marriage
1 What Is Marriage? 5
2 Why Did God Create the Institution of Marriage? 13
3 What Constitutes a Valid Marriage? 18
4 Is Polygamy Forbidden by Scripture? 25
5 Must Marriage Be between a Man and a Woman? 30
B Entering into Marriage
6 Is Cohabitation Permissible Apart from Marriage? 39
7 How Can You Know Whether It Is God's Will for You to Get Married? 47
8 How Can You Know Whom You Should Marry? 53
9 How Should You Go About Finding a Spouse? 59
10 What Is the Purpose of Engagement? 71
C Having a Successful Marriage
11 What Is the Key to Keeping a Marriage Strong? 79
12 What Are the Responsibilities of a Husband? 85
13 What Are the Responsibilities of a Wife? 94
14 What Must Be Done to Protect a Marriage? 103
15 How Can Couples Improve Their Communication? 110
D Challenges in Marriage
16 How Can Couples Resolve Their Conflicts? 121
17 How Should You Correct Your Spouse? 129
18 When Does a Couple Need Help Resolving Their Conflicts? 137
19 How Can Couples Resolve Sexual Problems? 142
20 How Does the Bible Address the Tough Questions about Sex? 152
Part 2 Divorce and Remarriage
A The Foundations of Divorce and Remarriage
21 Why Are Most Questions about Divorce and Remarriage Easy to Answer from Scripture? 165
22 Why Are Some Questions about Divorce and Remarriage So Difficult? 173
23 What Is Divorce? 179
24 Why Does God Hate Divorce? 184
25 Why Does God Permit Divorce? 189
B Divorce and Remarriage Controversies
26 Does Jesus Teach That There Are No Valid Grounds for Divorce and Remarriage? 197
27 Does Paul Teach That There Are No Valid Grounds for Divorce and Remarriage? 203
28 Does Scripture Teach That Sexual Sin Is a Valid Ground for Divorce and Remarriage? 209
29 Is Abandonment by an Unbeliever a Valid Ground for Divorce and Remarriage? 218
30 Does Scripture Justify Divorce on Grounds Other than Sexual Sin and Abandonment? 225
31 Are Divorced People Still Married in God's Eyes? 230
C Practical Questions
30 What Sexual Sins Constitute Grounds for Divorce? 239
33 When and How Should Sexual Sin in Marriage Be Forgiven? 245
34 What Constitutes Abandonment by an Unbelieving Spouse? 254
35 Is Abuse Grounds for Divorce? 259
36 Is It Biblical for a Married Couple to Separate without Divorcing? 266
37 Who Decides Whether a Divorce or Remarriage Is Valid? 271
38 When Is Remarriage Advisable? 277
39 What Should Be Done If Someone Has Divorced and/or Remarried Improperly? 284
40 How Should the Church Treat Those Who Have Divorced and Remarried? 289
Selected Bibliography 295
Index of Scripture 297
Index of Subjects and Names 305