Mama's Love Language: Sometimes Love Tastes Like Hainan Chicken Rice

by Elisa Stad, Ry Menson (Illustrator)

Overview

"A frank and fulfilling journey of self-acceptance. A young biracial American girl struggles with her Chinese heritage in Stad's debut picture book." - Kirkus Reviews

The Flavor of Belonging in Culturally Diverse Families. Jade is a girl who lives in two worlds and, coming from a multicultural family, she's on a quest to understand her identity and where she truly belongs.

She is trying to find her place in the world but feels different from the other kids at school. Back home, Jade's parents have their unique approach to love and care. Sometimes Jade is embarrassed by Mama's accent and she can't understand why she is not just like any other mother she knows.

The real adventure unfolds when Jade starts rebelling against her mother's traditional ways of showing love, especially through food. It's a struggle that takes her on a path of discovery, as she learns about her family's rich heritage and her mother's challenging past in Vietnam and as an immigrant.

Jade then discovers that even though Mama doesn't hug or say I love you, the healing aroma of ginger, green onions, and chicken broth does.

"Mama's Love Language" is a heartwarming children's book that addresses the universal theme of belonging and the beauty of cultural diversity. Through Jade's story, children will learn that being different is not only okay but something to be celebrated, and that love can come in many shapes and forms.

This book is ideal for children the ages of 4-9

Product Details

ISBN-13:	9798988378518
Publisher:	Ginger Lotus Press
Publication date:	10/04/2023
Edition description:	Large Type
Pages:	32
Sales rank:	426,809
Product dimensions:	8.50(w) x 11.00(h) x 0.25(d)
Age Range:	4 - 10 Years

About the Author

Elisa Stad, for the majority of her career, was a brand and international business executive for luxury goods and consumer product companies. After experiencing working in over 40 countries, she acquired a passion for globalization and the sharing of cultures based on her experiences. Elisa is also focused on inspiring the youth through her efforts in healthcare inequities through Stad Center of Pain, Palliative, and Integrative Medicine and serves on college boards at USC, UCSF and Harvard. Elisa grew up in a mixed-race household, as a daughter of a Vietnamese refugee mother and American father. She grew up in a multicultural home, searching for identity. She also moved homes often in her childhood including to Asia and within the US to Idaho and California. She always wanted to share with other young children the beauty of humanity and how we can celebrate our unique gifts. You can find her enjoying ballet, visiting local Asian street markets, practicing yoga, and focusing on her spiritual practice. Elisa lives in Southern California with her husband, 3 children and a bernedoodle.

Editorial Reviews

2024-01-03
A young biracial American girl struggles with her Chinese heritage in Stad’s debut picture book.

“My name is Jade. I live in two worlds. My mama is Chinese and my dad is American. Who am I?” Jade, who presents as Chinese, feels out of place in a society depicted as middle class and overwhelmingly white. She doesn’t want to be different and is embarrassed by her mother’s accent and non-Western behavior (especially her focus on homework and her lack of tactile affection). One night Jade disavows her Chinese heritage, but then she learns of her mama’s family history and reconsiders. Stad narrates in the first person and effectively captures Jade’s insecurities and uneasy search for self-identity. Menson (My Heart Will Stay[2020], etc.) complements the story with a deft, uncluttered drawing style. Some clever imagistic juxtapositions suggest emptiness and uncertainty (when Jade worries about fitting in or not being American enough, for instance) amid swirling shades of red, yellow, and aqua. All of this evokes a rich family history and exudes strength and unity whenever her mom or Chinese culture enter the picture. One of the book’s notable features is that Jade isn’t singled out by those around her. Her sense of not belonging comes from within and is tied to her not knowing her mother’s personal history. Once Jade understands that her mama’s love is no less real or strong for being expressed differently, she can finally embrace her own cultural origins.

A frank and fulfilling journey of self-acceptance.

Kirkus Reviews

A frank and fulfilling journey of self-acceptance. A young biracial American girl struggles with her Chinese heritage in Stad's debut picture book.

"My name is Jade. I live in two worlds. My mama is Chinese and my dad is American. Who am I?" Jade, who presents as Chinese, feels out of place in a society depicted as middle class and overwhelmingly white. She doesn't want to be different and is embarrassed by her mother's accent and non-Western behavior (especially her focus on homework and her lack of tactile affection). One night Jade disavows her Chinese heritage, but then she learns of her mama's family history and reconsiders. Stad narrates in the first person and effectively captures Jade's insecurities and uneasy search for self-identity. Menson (My Heart Will Stay [2020], etc.) complements the story with a deft, uncluttered drawing style. Some clever imagistic juxtapositions suggest emptiness and uncertainty (when Jade worries about fitting in or not being American enough, for instance) amid swirling shades of red, yellow, and aqua. All of this evokes a rich family history and exudes strength and unity whenever her mom or Chinese culture enter the picture. One of the book's notable features is that Jade isn't singled out by those around her. Her sense of not belonging comes from within and is tied to her not knowing her mother's personal history. Once Jade understands that her mama's love is no less real or strong for being expressed differently, she can finally embrace her own cultural origins.

A frank and fulfilling journey of self-acceptance.

- Kirkus Reviews

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