Table of Contents
Preface 1
Introduction 5
Part I Learning to Thrive in Modern Motherhood 12
1 The Key to Thriving in Motherhood: Understanding and Managing Your Emotions and Feelings 13
2 A Guide to Self-Care in Modern Motherhood 31
Part II Embracing Sadness on the Path to Thriving 46
3 Soothing the Tears 52
How to Embrace Sadness and Move Toward Hope
4 There's No Manual in Motherhood 62
Ways to Handle Feeling Ineffective and Defeated and Increase Your Confidence
5 Running on Empty 75
How Feeling Exhausted and Burned-Out Creates Opportunities to Grow
6 You Can't Undo the Past 89
A Guide to Managing Guilt and Developing More Self-Compassion
7 Reducing Loneliness in Motherhood 101
Skills and Strategies to Find Connection and Bring in Fun
8 Time Goes Slow and Children Grow Fast 123
How to Honor Your Feelings and Stay Present in the Midst of Missing and Longing
9 Transforming Suffering 130
The Steps to Take to Turn Despair into Hope, Meaning, and Purpose
Part III Conquering Fear and Anxiety to Cultivate Calm 140
10 Overcoming Anxiety 145
How to Manage Worry and Anxious Thoughts to Create Joy and Connect with Others
11 Finding Your Strengths 158
How to Transform Moments of Insecurity into Sources of Confidence
12 Fear Is a Great Teacher 168
How Embracing What You Are Afraid of Helps You to Develop Trust and Calm
Part IV Using Anger as a Teacher for Growth and Joy 178
13 The Red Flags of Anger 182
How Paying Attention to Irritability, Frustration, and Anger Is the Path of Self-Care and Joy
14 Healing the Roots of Pain 211
How to Transform Bitter and Resentful Feelings into Peacefulness, Acceptance, and Connection
15 Highlighting Abundance 227
How Feeling Jealousy and Envy Are Signals to Appreciate Your Strengths
Part V Transforming Embarrassment and Shame into Self-Compassion 240
16 The Uncomfortable Moments of Motherhood 246
Simple Ways to Bounce Back After an Awkward or Embarrassing Moment
17 The Hidden Suffering in Motherhood 262
How Letting Go of Humiliation and Shame Creates Space for Joy and Happiness
Part VI Using Disgust and Self-Judgment as Chance to Heal 288
18 Handling the Disgusting Moments of Motherhood 292
Keeping Perspective and a Sense of Humor
19 The Feelings Moms Have But Don't Say Out Loud 302
How Transforming Self-Hatred to Self-Love Is the Key to Joy
Part VII Conclusion-Revealing Your True Motherly State of Joy, Calm, and Confidence 316
Endnotes 323
Acknowledgments 324
About the Author 326
Index 327