Making Marriage Work: Secrets Of Happy Couples Nobody Tells You About

by Nicolas Kelton

Overview

Do you find yourself in relationships full of problems and anger?

 

Are you tired of your relationships falling apart due to poor communication?

 

Maybe your current relationship feels emotionally, mentally, and physically exhausting, and you have no idea how to make it easier?

 

The overwhelming feelings of frustration and pent up negative emotions toward your partner is uncomfortable.

 

You may be asking yourself; I use to think my partner was perfect, am I falling out of Love with them?

 

Everyone is going to ask themselves these exact questions at one point in their relationship, and it's 100%, not your fault for feeling this way.

 

It can be scary and upsetting to think about.

 

What people don't know is that Love changes over time in relationships.

 

First, we have an exciting infatuation phase where your partner has no flaws, usually called the butterflies stage.

 

Then after a few months to a few years, the infatuation stage disappears and turns into a different kind of Love.

 

In 2001, Schwartz's study by the Harvard Psychiatry, "A theory of lasting relationships," describes a different kind of Love as a softer feeling - a warmth that fills you up and is even more satisfying comfort and constant feeling. 

 

Real lasting Love committed to their partner despite the obstacles they encounter along the way.

 

Unfortunately, the majority of relationships don't even make it past the infatuation stage due to poor communications and disappointing high standards for the other partner.

 

In this book, you will be given a map to effective communication in your relationships.

 

You will be shown that Love is more than just a feeling, but a committed choice to stay with someone and face all the obstacles in the world.

 

In this knowledgeable guide, you'll discover:

 

• Why this one crucial mistake could hurt your chances with ever-lasting Love and how to avoid it
• How to use these 3 easy to understand principles to better your relationships and create passionate intimacy
• Why working on you is more important than fixing your partner - and how to better yourself
• How this little known fact is good for Love and how you can use it to your advantage
• The absolute 4 worst things that you could be doing right now that could escalate a fight - and maybe destroy your relationship
• How this one process, if not noticed, can make you ignore your partners love without realizing - and how it can kill your relationship
• What it takes for healthy couples to strengthen their Love and communication - and what struggling couples don't have
• How you can better your connection with your partner using this one golden rule

 

.... and much, much more!

 

By relying on expert advice from therapists, this guide will show you how to communicate effectively, understand what true Love is, and lead you to better relationships.

 

• So if you want to have better communication in relationships, understand Love and much more, click "Add to Cart" now!

 

Product Details

BN ID:	2940164531904
Publisher:	M & M Limitless Online Inc.
Publication date:	07/23/2020
Sold by:	Draft2Digital
Format:	eBook
File size:	347 KB

Table of Contents

Introduction........................................ 6

Chapter 1: When Love Seems To Have

Changed Over Time ............................. 9

Chapter 2: Use It Or Lose It - Why You

Constantly Have To Work On Your

Relationship.......................................16

Reasons Why You Should Work On Your

Relationship ..........................................................19

Finding The Balance Between Your Relationship

And Other Factors In Your Life............................ 24

Chapter 3: Asking Questions – A

Powerful Communication Tool...........31

Benefits Of Asking Question I: Getting To Really

Know Your Partner ...............................................35

Benefits Of Asking Questions II: Building Trust

And Intimacy........................................................ 38

The Secret To Getting The Best Answers To Your

Questions: Asking Open-Ended Questions .......... 50

Chapter 4: Communicating Love

Effectively To Your Partner ................58

Why Are We So Different In Behavior? ............... 58

♯1 Using Affirmative Words ................................. 62

♯2 Giving Quality Time......................................... 70

♯3 Giving Gifts.......................................................77

♯4 Doing Acts Of Service ...................................... 85

♯5 Touching ...........................................................91

Tips To Discovering The Primary Way You Or Your

Partner Communicates Love.................................95

Chapter 5: Safe And Secure

Conversations - Getting Rid Of

Judgments, Assumptions And

Unhealthy Arguments ........................99

Voice Tone: Pitch, Pace, Volume, And Timbre ... 101

The Use Of Words: Non-Judgmental

Communication ..................................................106

Language: Right Or Wrong? ............................... 112

Some General Advice On Achieving Safe And

Judgment Free Conversations ............................ 113

Chapter 6: Active Listening............... 116

Characteristics Of An Active Listener ..................117

Active Listening In Romantic Relationships.......122

How To Resolve Conflicts In Relationships With

Active Listening................................................... 127

The Active Listener’s Creed................................. 131

Chapter 7: Coping With Typical,

Solvable Problems............................ 132

Electronic Distractions........................................134

Dealing With Stress.............................................138

Money Matters ....................................................142

Dealing With The In-Laws ..................................146

Dealing With Housework Conflicts.....................149

Sex....................................................................... 154

Chapter 8: The Sex Drive - Why Men

And Women Are Different And Rituals

For Healthy Relationships................ 161

The Sex Drive In Men And Women .................... 161

Rituals For Healthy Relationships ...................... 167

A Final Note ..................................... 174

References ....................................... 176

Disclaimer........................................ 184