Love Works: Seven Timeless Principles for Effective Leaders

Love Works: Seven Timeless Principles for Effective Leaders

by Joel Manby
Love Works: Seven Timeless Principles for Effective Leaders

Love Works: Seven Timeless Principles for Effective Leaders

by Joel Manby

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Updated and Expanded Edition of the Leadership Bestseller

Harness the meaning of love, the verb, to improve your corporate culture and bottom line with the help of Joel Manby, former President and CEO of both Sea World Parks & Entertainment and Herschend Enterprises. Joel won the respect of America with his appearance on the CBS reality TV series Undercover Boss.

A highly successful corporate executive, Joel Manby is unlike most other CEOs. As the 18 million viewers of Undercover Boss witnessed, Manby has a unique style of leadership—servant leadership—which has a profound impact on his employees.

In this updated and expanded edition of Love Works, Manby demonstrates that leading with love is effective even in extremely difficult business environments, which he experienced at Sea World. With an all-new introduction and two additional chapters, Manby shares more of his own leadership and personal stories, giving insight that will help you become a more effective leader by:

  • Cultivating a culture that builds improved employee engagement and long-term success
  • Outlining seven time-proven principles that break down the natural walls within the workplace
  • Overcoming personal failures at work and home
  • Empowering your managers and employees
  • Disarming difficulties in the workplace

Discover the truth of the power of love to change the course of your business and your life today!


Product Details

ISBN-13: 9780310359746
Publisher: Zondervan
Publication date: 03/17/2020
Edition description: Enlarged
Pages: 256
Sales rank: 620,812
Product dimensions: 5.50(w) x 8.40(h) x 1.10(d)

About the Author

Joel Manby, former President and Chief Executive Officer of Sea World Parks & Entertainment, served the company through its most difficult time and the start of its subsequent turnaround. Prior to Sea World, Joel was the President and Chief Executive Officer of Herschend Enterprises, the largest family-owned theme park and entertainment company in the United States. Before Herschend, he served as the CEO of Saab Cars North America.

Manby has incorporated the definition of love, the verb, into his leadership philosophy to establish how true leaders are to behave. He views love as a mode of thinking—one that has helped him deliver tangible results.

While at Herschend Enterprises, Joel was featured on the hit CBS show Undercover Boss. He and the employees of Herschend inspired millions of viewers across the world with their unique approach to leadership.

Joel received an M.B.A. from Harvard Business School and a B.A. from Albion College. Currently, he is the Chairman of the Board of Orange, whose mission is to develop innovative church curriculum and provide tools that enable families to learn biblical virtues in the home, church and school. He also serves as a member of the National Advisory Board of The Salvation Army.

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Love Works

Seven timeless principles for effective leaders
By Joel K. Manby

ZONDERVAN

Copyright © 2012 Joel K. Manby
All right reserved.

ISBN: 978-0-310-33567-2


Chapter One

A HARD DAY'S NIGHT

It's been a hard day's night, and I've been working like a dog. John Lennon and Paul McCartney

1.1 Is This What Life Is All About?

* * *

It was a cool June evening in 2000. I was sitting alone in a one-room apartment in northern California, more than three thousand miles from my wife and kids in Atlanta. My place was completely bare inside: no pictures, no personal items, not even a single fake plant to warm the joint up. It was just a place to sleep.

Outside, the steady sheets of rain pouring down were a perfect picture of my life. I was the brand-new leader of an Internet startup called GreenLight.com—and the dot-com bubble had just burst.

That night I had consumed enough wine to dull the sharp edge of the emotional pain and stress that were cutting into me. But what was I going to do, drink more and more each night? I had struggled with short seasons of depression before in my life, but this episode was getting the best of me. I didn't know if I could endure the pain anymore. I had no idea where to turn, and for every raindrop spattering against my window, I had a question running through my mind.

My career was like a high-speed treadmill. After graduating from Harvard Business School in 1985, my wife, Marki, and I moved ten times in fifteen years as I accepted new leadership positions of increasing responsibility and pressure. The constant moving put a tremendous strain on our home life and our four girls.

One of our moves was to the startup of Saturn Corporation, which went from zero to $5 billion in revenue in three years. That job required countless hours of single-minded focus. While at Saturn, I was promoted to CEO of Saab North America. The division was losing money, and my job was to change that. The countless late nights and constant travel continued as a result of the seemingly endless pressure to hit the numbers. And we did—my family sticking with me despite my constant absence, while my team and I helped return the company to the second best year in Saab's North American history.

Unfortunately, there was no such thing as a finish line. I never "made it" or earned a chance to spend more time at home with my family. In 1999, three years into my Saab assignment, Asia and South America were added to my responsibilities. So, just one year before the night I sat alone in that empty apartment in California, I spent more than 250 days on the road, mostly in Asia—and even when I was home, I consistently had 6:00 a.m. phone calls with Sweden and 11:00 p.m. phone calls with the Asian markets.

I was burning out, and so was Marki.

On September 13, 1999, I was in Australia for a Saab distributor meeting and called Marki to catch up. As she started to talk, her voice cracked. "This is the second year in a row you've been away on my birthday. When you're home, which isn't often ..."

I could tell she was struggling to speak.

"When you're home, you're not really home."

There was a long pause, and I could tell she was trying to gather herself. "This is not what I signed up for," she finally said. "I thought I could handle this, and I've tried. But this isn't working for our family. You're frustrated. You're not happy, and neither am I. The kids don't really know you. Something needs to change."

The moments of silence that followed seemed like eternity.

Marki was right. Something did need to change. Divorce wasn't an option for us, but I knew that if I left her "holding the rock" at home, our marriage would never be all that it was meant to be. I wanted a great marriage, and I wanted to be a good dad. So I asked my boss, the CEO of Saab worldwide, if I could return to "only" being CEO of North American operations, which would cut my travel in half.

He refused.

Have you ever had a moment when a single conversation changes the course of your life irrevocably? It's almost as if time slows down so much that you can see the fork in the road. I was determined to make the right choice and the right choice was not the path that lead to year after year of missed birthdays and kids who were slowly becoming strangers.

I made the difficult choice to leave Saab for what I thought was a better lifestyle and a chance to get my family back on track. I decided to take the CEO position at GreenLight.com, the "car tab" at Amazon.com that let people buy a car with a few mouse clicks. I knew a startup would be tough, but I also knew there would be no international travel, and there was a large financial upside.

So I thought. Then the bubble burst, and it took me with it.

On my first week of work at GreenLight.com, the NASDAQ crashed and lost more than a third of its value. We weren't yet generating cash, and what was a three-year cash reserve quickly became a ninety-day cushion. In other words, as an organization, we suddenly had only ninety days to live, not the three years I thought we had when I took the job. At the end of my second week of work, I was laying off three-quarters of our team.

How's that for bad timing?

We took our Atlanta home off the market, delaying my family's relocation, since I would be working 24/7 trying to salvage GreenLight.com. I rented an apartment in California and traveled back to Atlanta only once or twice a month.

The path that I had thought would lead me back home to my family had instead led me to a bare, lonely apartment in California, with rain coming down outside and a sense of hopelessness descending inside. As I sat alone, finishing off my last glass of wine, the questions continued to beat against me:

My entire career I've been so driven ... for what?

The harder I work and the higher I'm promoted, the worse life gets. Is there any hope of balancing my career goals with my family goals?

My self-esteem is tied up in the performance of the companies I run. Do I really want my emotional highs and lows to be based on quarterly profit reports? Is that what life is all about?

If this is what a career in the business world looks like, should I go into a different line of work one that can unite my skills and my values? But is it right to give up all the experience I've gained?

That night I felt the world closing in around me and I wanted out. In my darkest moments, I wanted out of life itself. I knew what that would do to my family, however, and I didn't want to be that selfish. But what other options did I have?

My cell phone rang. It was Jack Herschend, chairman of the board of Herschend Family Entertainment Corporation (HFE), one of the largest themed entertainment companies in the world. I had been on the board of HFE for three years and thought very highly of Jack and the company.

"Joel, how are you brother?"

I had no words, only tears, as the emotion poured out. Jack's acute empathy skills had a way of doing that to me. He was always quick to listen, and he cared deeply about people.

As quickly as I could, I gathered myself and explained the situation, revealing some cracks I'd kept hidden for years.

What he said next surprised me:

"Joel, the timing of this phone call may be fortuitous. I'm retiring as chairman next year, and all of us on the board would like you to be the next chairman of HFE. We feel the company needs your leadership strengths and style. Would you consider it?"

I was speechless.

"Joel, I know you're struggling with your family situation, and I think the values and culture of HFE are a perfect fit for you."

Culture? Values? My family? Talking about these things in the context of a prospective job was as unusual as it was welcome.

I was unable to speak. My eyes were again filling with tears, and my throat was closing up. Jack and his family had run HFE for more than four decades. He was asking me to take over a legacy that he and his brother, Peter, had built. Why me? Why now?

And his words were not only about him or the company—they were about my personal life as well. He was worried about my family? That night I was too shocked by his offer to understand the answer to my own question: what kind of leader was this?

As I would learn later, the answer was simple: a man who leads with love.

Leading with Love

My career had left me completely unprepared to meet men like Jack and Peter Herschend. All my life I had been living by the numbers because numbers were all my leaders seemed to care about. If I had any deeper principles, I needed to check them at the company door, because once I was at work, it was all about financial performance.

When I performed well, I was rewarded and respected. When I failed, I felt like I was kicked to the curb. It was that simple. Inside I longed for a better way— a way to unite who I was as a business leader with who I was as a person. I wanted to care about the people I worked with and for. I wanted to work somewhere that rejected the false dichotomy between profit and people or profit and principles. I wanted, in short, to be the same person all the time: at work, with my family, at my church, and when I was alone.

But I had been in business long enough to know that was a nearly impossible dream.

As it turned out, that call from Jack set in motion a chain of events that would provide answers to many of my questions. I didn't realize it at the time, but my experience at HFE would revolutionize the way I saw—and see—leadership.

This book was born from the conviction that leading with love is the best way to run an organization.

Any organization.

I understand that this is a controversial claim, but I also now understand—all the way to the core of who I am as a leader and a man—that it is true. Love isn't a feeling, but an action, an action by which leaders and entire organizations can experience almost unimaginable success and personal fulfillment.

The Bottom Line

Lest you think all this talk about love is an excuse to avoid the hard truths about leading an organization, let me set your mind at ease.

The bottom line is essential.

If we don't hit our financial goals, we cannot achieve the other objectives we have at HFE, like being a "great place to work for great people." However, we achieve profits by doing the right thing for customers and employees; profits are not an end in themselves. Profits are a product of doing the right thing—over and over again.

During the last seven years at HFE, we have grown operating profit more than 50 percent and have earned over a 14 percent annual return for our owners, clearly beating the large and small cap stock market performance during very difficult times. And we have done that while consciously leading with love. Two of our parks have earned the industry's highest honor for quality: the Applause Award.

Sacrificing values for profits is a flawed choice.

At the same time we've experienced financial success, we've also grown in love—and I mean that in a practical, bottom-line way. Our Share It Forward Foundation was established to help our employees who are in need. Employee donations are matched by company profits and the Herschend family adds an additional gift. We've grown from helping about sixty families per year to over seven hundred families per year in just five years—and that is for an employee-initiated giving program in the midst of difficult economic times!

The bottom line is this: we are more profitable than ever and enjoying leading with love more than ever. By actively using the seven principles of leading with love—to be patient, kind, trustful, unselfish, truthful, forgiving, and dedicated—we are ensuring our business is resilient and profitable and our employees motivated and loyal. We do this because it makes good business sense and it's the right thing to do.

The Dilemma

What about you?

Have you ever wondered if it's possible to maximize profits and value relationships?

Is the dissonance between the values you hold at home and the values you adopt at work slowly wearing you down?

Do you ever wonder if your work might change the world for the better?

Have you ever wished that work could just—work?

I have wished all of these things, and my experience at HFE has taught me that they can each become a reality—no matter where you work or what your job title is. All it takes is a desire to do the right thing and a lot of hard work.

Some people think leadership is only about the bottom line. What I have learned is that "only" is the wrong word in that sentence. Leadership is about the bottom line and ...

    and loving the people you work with.
    and making your community a better place.
    and feeling a sense of satisfaction at the end of every day.
    and leading employees who can't imagine working anywhere
    else.

These things aren't mutually exclusive. In fact, the opposite is true: the bottom line is best served when leaders lead with love. That's the counterintuitive journey I would like to lead you on in the chapters that follow.

If you have read this far, I know you're hungry for something beyond business as usual, so let's get started—and transform the way we lead.

Chapter Two

THE JEDI MASTERS

Do or do not. There is no try. Yoda

In Star Wars, aspiring Jedi knights must be trained by a Jedi master. The Jedi master is always wiser and more experienced, so he or she is able to train the young Jedi in the proper way. Jedi masters have a strong understanding of a source of energy called the Force—and they always strive to use the Force for good.

Every organization has its Jedi masters. At Herschend Family Entertainment, ours are Jack and Peter Herschend. Yet all organizations, big or small, lose their Jedi masters and go through other difficult leadership transitions. When Jack and Peter retired, the culture was strong, but it wasn't defined and was at high risk of becoming diluted as we continued to grow with new properties.

We needed to define our culture to teach others how to lead with love as Jack and Peter had taught by example.

2.1 Keeping a Common Tale from Being a Common Tale

* * *

It was at Herschend Family Entertainment's November 2006 board meeting that it finally happened. Jack and Peter Herschend had been on HFE's board since 1960, and this would be their last meeting. Forty-six years is a long time to sit on one board, but for HFE, it was all too brief. From that day forward, Jack and Peter would no longer sit at the table with us, no longer offer their vote, no longer share their voice and vision.

It was a big moment, and some of the board members and family tried to talk Jack and Peter out of it. The brothers had, along with their parents and wives, transformed a guided tour at a single cave in Branson, Missouri, into an enterprise entertaining over sixteen million customers a year and employing over ten thousand employees in twenty-six properties across the United States. They would climb any mountain for their employees, and the employees knew it too which was why HFE had such a powerful sense of corporate unity and enthusiasm. Jack and Peter embodied a rags to selfless riches story, and their generosity was a beacon that attracted and kept the absolute finest employees.

The Farewell

There were tears in the room and plenty of mixed emotions. But Jack and Peter have tremendous wisdom and humility. They knew that what mattered was creating an organization built to last, an organization that would stand the test of time. Jack's departing words confirmed what all of us already knew.

Small in stature with thick gray hair and a strong handshake, Jack stood up slowly, feeling the effects of several hip replacements that stemmed from personally testing one too many of the attractions he helped create. Jack's hands were worn from years of working in the parks, hand-pouring cement steps into the cave, and personally planting thousands of trees throughout Missouri as a dedication to the environment. Jack's every deed and word seemed to have a specific purpose.

"I appreciate the calls for Pete and me to stay on the board, but we will not. As you are aware, Pete and I have carefully constructed a ten-year transition. A plan that took me from CEO to chair, chair to voting board member, voting board member to nonvoting board member, and then off the board. Pete is following a similar path. This plan is critical so that the company can transition smoothly while Pete and I are still healthy."

The room was silent; we could have heard a pin drop.

He continued: "It's a common tale for a family business to lose its way after the godfathers leave, which is why Pete and I feel strongly about this. We both understand that in order to keep this special company special, we need to let a new team of leaders and an independent board carry on, out from under our shadow. We want to remain family owned forever, and we want it to feel like a family, but we also want to be led by the best team possible. With this in mind, it's important that the board and the leadership never lose sight of the three main Herschend family objectives: a specified growth in profit so it is 'a great long-term investment,' to be a 'great place to work for great people,' and to 'lead with love.'" Jack cleared his throat and sipped a glass of water before continuing: "We understand that sometimes tension can exist between these objectives, but that is a tension that needs to be managed. It's not okay to achieve profit growth and destroy our culture as a 'great place to work for great people.' It is also not okay to focus on being a 'great place to work' without achieving our financial objectives. This is a tension to embrace, not eliminate. I have great faith in this board and in this leadership team. The time is right."

With that he sat down.

(Continues...)



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Table of Contents

Foreword 15

Introduction: Undercover Love 17

Part 1 Love in Leadership

1 A Hard Day's Night 25

2 The Jedi Masters 35

Part 2 Love Defined

3 Patient: Have Self-Control in Difficult Situations 47

4 Kind: Show Encouragement and Enthusiasm 63

5 Trusting: Place Confidence in Someone 79

6 Unselfish: Think of Yourself Less 97

7 Truthful: Define Reality Corporately and Individually 119

8 Forgiving: Release the Grip of the Grudge 141

9 Dedicated: Stick to Your Values in All Circumstances 155

Part 3 Love Tested

10 Love on the Battlefield 175

11 Love and Loss 207

Part 4 Love Everlasting

12 A Choice We Make 231

Acknowledgments 247

Notes 249

What People are Saying About This

From the Publisher

“In a world where so many think they know what great leadership is all about, Joel has the courage and confidence to speak of leadership in the language of love. Love as a verb. Love as a strategy. Love as a leadership principle—not just at home or at church, but in the rough and tumble, results-oriented, hard charging workplace. Joel’s insights and first-hand stories will give you a personal and refreshing look at becoming the kind of leader that people will want to follow.” — Bonnie Wurzbacher

“So often we feel we have to choose between two desirable but apparently opposing objectives when leading organizations. Joel shows us how to be both loving and accountable; to be profitable and caring; to be effective and be giving. He has written Love Works as a businessman. But if government and some non-profits would apply just a fraction of his message in their leadership too, they would be both more effective and happier places.” — Bill Haslem

“I believe this book is the most unique and best sourced business and management book on the shelf today. I’ve known Jack and Pete Herschend most of my life. They live a life of love and they lead with love. Joel Manby has humbly embraced the timeless principle of leading with love and expanded HFE nationally with the same value-based leadership style. He has penned an excellent resource for leading with love in the workplace! It will forever change, impact and improve your company’s productivity in immeasurable ways.” — Joe White

“If this book doesn’t help and inspire you to be a great leader, I don’t know what could. Love Works and so does Joel Manby. He is everything this book represents and more. I feel privileged to know him and blessed to be able to work alongside him.' — Dolly Parton

“Joel and HFE have an outstanding reputation in our industry. Yet what surprised me and delighted me as I read: this is NOT just another book about management. It is about life and love and leadership and how to build prosperity and happiness in your organization…and yourself. I highly recommend it.” — Al Weiss, Retired President, Walt Disney World Theme Parks and Resorts

“It's one thing to know that 'love is an action', but far more challenging to make that 'action' a way of life - at work and at home. Reading Love Works will transform your life. Drawing on his own experiences, with humility and humor, Joel Manby provides all the tools you'll need to care for others without compromising your desire for excellence. I've known Joel well for over 25 years and have never met a leader more qualified to write on this topic.” — Kevin J. Jenkins, President and Chief Executive Officer, World Vision International

“It has been said that real success is about becoming the total person God wants you to be and accomplishing the goals that He helps you set for your life. As leaders, we have a unique opportunity to help others find success by treating them with honor, dignity and respect and inspiring them to reach higher, dream bigger, strive harder and go farther than they could ever go on their own. In Love Works. Joel Manby outlines a proven model for creating and sustaining a successful life and a successful organization by leading… with love.” — Dan T. Cathy, President and COO, Chick-fil-A, Inc.

'I have read a lot of leadership and management books in my 35 years as a CEO and in politics. I have never read one as unique, inspiring but yet practical as Love Works. People in Washington, politics and government could learn soooo much from this book. Joel is a business executive, but what he teaches us here applies to any organization, leadership or associative endeavor. I dare say that much of the problem in Washington right now is that we are very far away from the principles outlined in this excellent work.” — John Campbell, Member of Congress 48th District, California

“Love Works. Seven Timeless Principles for Effective Leaders is an amazing book on leadership, written by a very gifted and humble leader, Joel Manby. In this book, Joel lays out a clear and compelling case for a leadership model that motivates employees and generates results: Love. Not Love the emotion, but Love the verb. Love as defined in 1 Corinthians 13. I know Joel and his team at Herschend Family Entertainment and I know that he has driven outstanding results while fully living out the principles he shares in this book. The principles and the stories he shares in this book are powerful and you will be thoroughly challenged and blessed. I cannot wait to share this book with my team.” — Charles A. Bengochea, President and CEO, The Original Honey Baked Ham Co. of Georgia, Inc.

“I wish this book had been written years ago. Love Works. should be required reading for every aspiring business school student in the country. Not only do the principles work, but they are dynamic, and if implemented on a wide-spread basis, will help lead to exponential growth in both the top and bottom line— in business and life!!” — Tony Cimmarrusti, CEO of Majestic Capital

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