Love Never Leaves: A Memoir
"Love Never Leaves" is a memoir by Deborah Huse Blanchard, who gave her biracial sons up for adoption in the 1950s after receiving racist threats. Blanchard had met the boys' father as a student at the New England Conservatory of Music but had no idea of the racial turmoil that embroiled the country at the time. Her husband, George, warned Deborah of the difficulties they would face as a mixed couple. What he did not say was that before long he would grow distant and cold, apparently troubled by experiences he had as a black classical musician. As their new family expanded, he took on more work as a waiter in upper-class Boston establishments. Deborah, whose great love before George had been singing, returned to Lowell to resume life with her close-knit family. The people of Lowell turned against her and began sending her threatening phone calls, saying she would never see her sons again if she sent them to school. Finally, she made the agonizing decision to place her sons for adoption. Extraordinarily, she demanded that they be placed with an African American family. She was not, however, able to maintain contact or oversight of any sort after the adoption took place due to the closed system that prevailed at the time. Only later did she learn that her sons had been separated, to her great consternation. She vowed to find her sons once they came of age, beginning an ongoing effort to rebuild bridges with her sons and their children. Paired with Blanchard's moving account are 23 other stories of adoption written by adoptees and members of adoptive families, including Blanchard's older son, George.
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Love Never Leaves: A Memoir
"Love Never Leaves" is a memoir by Deborah Huse Blanchard, who gave her biracial sons up for adoption in the 1950s after receiving racist threats. Blanchard had met the boys' father as a student at the New England Conservatory of Music but had no idea of the racial turmoil that embroiled the country at the time. Her husband, George, warned Deborah of the difficulties they would face as a mixed couple. What he did not say was that before long he would grow distant and cold, apparently troubled by experiences he had as a black classical musician. As their new family expanded, he took on more work as a waiter in upper-class Boston establishments. Deborah, whose great love before George had been singing, returned to Lowell to resume life with her close-knit family. The people of Lowell turned against her and began sending her threatening phone calls, saying she would never see her sons again if she sent them to school. Finally, she made the agonizing decision to place her sons for adoption. Extraordinarily, she demanded that they be placed with an African American family. She was not, however, able to maintain contact or oversight of any sort after the adoption took place due to the closed system that prevailed at the time. Only later did she learn that her sons had been separated, to her great consternation. She vowed to find her sons once they came of age, beginning an ongoing effort to rebuild bridges with her sons and their children. Paired with Blanchard's moving account are 23 other stories of adoption written by adoptees and members of adoptive families, including Blanchard's older son, George.
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Love Never Leaves: A Memoir

Love Never Leaves: A Memoir

by Deborah Huse Blanchard
Love Never Leaves: A Memoir

Love Never Leaves: A Memoir

by Deborah Huse Blanchard

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"Love Never Leaves" is a memoir by Deborah Huse Blanchard, who gave her biracial sons up for adoption in the 1950s after receiving racist threats. Blanchard had met the boys' father as a student at the New England Conservatory of Music but had no idea of the racial turmoil that embroiled the country at the time. Her husband, George, warned Deborah of the difficulties they would face as a mixed couple. What he did not say was that before long he would grow distant and cold, apparently troubled by experiences he had as a black classical musician. As their new family expanded, he took on more work as a waiter in upper-class Boston establishments. Deborah, whose great love before George had been singing, returned to Lowell to resume life with her close-knit family. The people of Lowell turned against her and began sending her threatening phone calls, saying she would never see her sons again if she sent them to school. Finally, she made the agonizing decision to place her sons for adoption. Extraordinarily, she demanded that they be placed with an African American family. She was not, however, able to maintain contact or oversight of any sort after the adoption took place due to the closed system that prevailed at the time. Only later did she learn that her sons had been separated, to her great consternation. She vowed to find her sons once they came of age, beginning an ongoing effort to rebuild bridges with her sons and their children. Paired with Blanchard's moving account are 23 other stories of adoption written by adoptees and members of adoptive families, including Blanchard's older son, George.

Product Details

ISBN-13: 9781098386863
Publisher: BookBaby
Publication date: 02/08/2022
Sold by: Barnes & Noble
Format: eBook
Pages: 398
File size: 2 MB

About the Author

Deborah Blanchard gave up her two biracial sons for adoption due to racist threats she received after returning to her hometown of Lowell, Massachusetts. She then spiraled into depression before vowing to find her sons once they came of age. Later, Blanchard served for more than three decades as assistant director of the Adoption Connection, an organization that aided families separated by adoption. She lives in Massachusetts and Florida with her husband, John Blanchard.

Table of Contents

Part I Love Never Leaves

1 Dark Clouds 1

2 A Different Drummer 7

3 The Conservatory 12

4 Love Blooms 17

5 A Beautiful Baby Boy 28

6 Something Is Askew 33

7 The Clouds Melted 43

8 "What Am 1 Doing Here?" 49

9 "Was It a Race Issue?" 57

10 "There Has to Be Another Way" 61

11 The Toughest Call 65

12 A Journey with No Maps 71

13 Telling Mom 75

14 The New Parents Must Be Black 81

15 The Lawyer 86

16 The Foster Parents 95

17 Going Ahead with the Plans 100

18 "What Do I Tell the Boys?" 105

19 Goodbyes 110

20 The Visit 114

21 A Family Is Found 118

22 The Big-Boy Talk 122

23 Coping 127

24 Abyss 129

25 The Hospital 135

26 Aha Moment 139

27 Evaluation 144

28 The Apartment 150

29 John 154

30 The Party 159

31 A Door Opens 165

32 "What Is Your Heart Telling You?" 171

33 Settling In 175

34 A Surprising Twist 179

35 The Doctor's Office 181

36 The Secret Revealed 184

37 I Wasn't the Only One 190

38 Separated 195

39 Crushed 198

40 Letter to George 202

41 David Is Found 205

42 With Prayers, Love, and Hope 209

43 "Hello, This Is George' 212

44 Two Mothers 220

45 Mary and Allen 222

46 Susan's Meetings 227

47 Family 230

Part II In Their Own Words

Missing Jimmy Birmingham 236

The Goodbye Marie Conway 242

Extending a Family Marvin Drake 248

A Secret Revealed Elizabeth Drake 255

My New Meaning of "Family" Diana Dunphy 259

Is Everybody Onboard? Kara Amnion 262

Left Behind Beth Soeder 266

The Past Returns George Fonteno 270

Familiar Faces Mary E. Fournier, MSW, LCSW 272

What We Have Now Richard Enroll Fuller Jr. Susan Hamlet Nickerson 276

How We Got from There to Here Ellen S. Glazer 286

Kindness Unrequited Andrew Gordon 292

Distant Relations Laura Tipton Groff 299

A Reverend's Reunion The Reverend Dr. Richard A. Hughes 311

Forgiveness Kathleen MacKinnon 315

What's in a Name? Susan Miller-Havens 321

The Reunion Denise Osterberg 331

Goodbye Again Marilynn Raben 334

Sisters Mary Salem 345

Now I Know Ginny Smith 351

Unbreakable Bond Robin Stolarz 360

Far from Me James Sweeney 367

My Roots and My Wings Dana Ann Whidden 375

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