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Love is Greater than AIDS: A Memoir of Survival, Healing, and Hope
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Overview
The story begins with Pieters’ 1985 interview with Tammy Faye Bakker on her TV show, Tammy’s House Party, which made him a national celebrity and spokesperson for the AIDS community.
He reflects on his childhood and college years, leading up to his coming out story. Soon after, he responds to a call to the ministry by attending seminary and then serving in Metropolitan Community Churches, a primarily LGBTQ+ denomination.
In the late 1970s, Pieters became the gay activist pastor of the Metropolitan Community Church of Hartford, Connecticut. There he helped settle gay Cuban refugees from the Mariel boat lift, and aided police investigations of the murders of two gay men.
Moving to Los Angeles in 1982, Steve then experienced a long series of illnesses that led to his diagnosis with stage four lymphoma, Kaposi’s sarcoma, and AIDS in 1984. He was not expected to survive, but he defied his prognosis and became a well-known AIDS activist, participating in several AIDS organizations in Los Angeles and across the country. He spoke on behalf of people living with AIDS at both the first AIDS Walk in the world, and at Elizabeth Taylor’s Commitment to Life event, the first film and television industry fundraiser for AIDS. He also become Patient Number One on Suramin, the first antiviral drug trial to treat HIV/AIDS. Although his cancers go into complete remission, the drug very nearly kills him. Steve is one of only two survivors of that notorious drug trial.
Having fully recovered from AIDS by 1987, Steve made AIDS ministry his life. For the next eleven years he traveled the world, preaching and teaching about AIDS and giving hope and joy in the face of all the hopelessness and grief. Knowing what it’s like to be on a death bed, he volunteered as a chaplain at the Chris Brownlie AIDS Hospice, where he discovered his gift for helping people heal into their deaths.
Thanks to advances in treatment, HIV disease became a manageable condition in 1997. Realizing he was burned out on ministry, and with AIDS social services agencies all downsizing, Pieters began to work for, of all places, Playboy, becoming close friends with Christie Hefner He then describes how the stress and grief of the AIDS years manifested itself in addiction issues. After he began to recover, he had a brief career as a psychotherapist. He experienced brushes with death in 2012, describing how dancing in the spirit and singing with the Gay Men’s Chorus of Los Angeles helped him stay alive through it all.
In the years that followed, the Smithsonian National Museum of American History invited Pieters to donate his AIDS ministry artifacts and papers.
The 2021 feature film, The Eyes of Tammy Faye, starring Academy-Award winner Jessica Chastain, includes part of Steve’s 1985 interview with Tammy Faye Baker, a pivotal turning point in the movie, brings his memoir full circle. His remarkable life, which ended in 2023 at the age of 70, is proof that love is indeed greater than AIDS.
Product Details
ISBN-13: | 9781538186572 |
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Publisher: | Rowman & Littlefield Publishers, Inc. |
Publication date: | 04/02/2024 |
Pages: | 282 |
Sales rank: | 408,221 |
Product dimensions: | 5.90(w) x 8.90(h) x 0.90(d) |
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Excerpt from part of Chapter 2: But Do I Have AIDS?
Easter Sunday arrived. Many in the congregation had seen Ken pray over me the Sunday before, a few days after my diagnosis. The rest heard about my illness through the grapevine, so I imagined they were as nervous as I was about what I could possibly say in an Easter sermon. I stood at the pulpit and started to read my notes out loud, but I didn’t get very far. With that same clarity I had experienced before, I knew what I had to do.
I threw my notes in the air, looked directly at the folks in front of me, and said, “I don’t need these. I know exactly what I want to say.” People laughed, and the tension was released.
With more conviction than I had ever preached before, I shouted, “Jesus Christ is risen today! Hallelujah!” I shared my lymphoma diagnosis and prognosis with the congregation. Even though I was not yet diagnosed with AIDS, several people had told me they were afraid that was coming for me. The fear of AIDS had such a powerful grip on so many people. So, I preached, “If God is greater than the death of Jesus on the cross, then God is greater than AIDS.” The congregation gasped, but then I could see many people start to understand.
I continued, “Our Easter faith tells me that even though they told me the worst news they could possibly tell me, I can still dance!” And I did a tap dance right there in front of the altar. The congregation cheered. “It means I can still laugh, I can still enjoy my friends, I can still be fully alive, even in the face of death!” When I finished the sermon, the congregation rose, applauding and cheering.
When it came time for Communion, I didn’t think people would come to receive it from me because of the fear I might have AIDS. But many did come. It was extraordinarily meaningful to me that these folks were not afraid to have me put the wafer on their tongue. I couldn’t help but remember Jeri, the deacon who, just the year before, was too frightened to place the wafer on my tongue herself.
After the service, I got a lot of hugs. A few people held back, one bluntly telling me he was afraid to shake my hand. I was riding so high on my own Easter joy that it didn’t upset me. That Easter was a day of grace that empowered me to be fully alive even as I faced the very real possibility of an imminent death.
Table of Contents
Prologue: How Did I Ever Get to This?Chapter 1: Out at Last and Called by God
Chapter 2: But Do I Have AIDS?
Chapter 3: Creating Conditions for Healing
Chapter 4: A Drug Trial and a Partner
Chapter 5: A Renewed Commitment to Life
Chapter 6: Building an International AIDS Ministry
Chapter 7: Into the Spotlight
Chapter 8: A Cocktail Changes Everything
Chapter 9: Return to the Land of the Sick
Chapter 10: Back to Life
Epilogue: Bright Lights and a New Challenge
Acknowledgments
Notes
Index
About the Author