You grieve God when we put our own interpretation on his word and his words are grievous to our carnal mind. A soft answer would be a prayer that would turn his wrath from us: Psalm_86:11 Teach me thy way, O LORD; I will walk in thy truth: unite my heart to fear thy name. The carnal mind must be told to shut up, when you're trying to receive something Spiritual from a Spiritual book. HOLD YOUR PEACE! Job 33:33 If not, hearken unto me: hold thy peace, and I shall teach thee wisdom. We're holding his truth in unrighteousness by our private interpretation. In America we have Constitutional Lawyers, who interpret the laws of the land. The Holy Ghost is the interpreter in the Spiritual land of God's word.
