Table of Contents
Introduction: Blazing Lies 9
Part 1 The Landscape of Lies
Chapter 1 The Deceiver
Where do lies come from? 17
Chapter 2 The Deceived
Where do lies get the power to destroy our lives? 25
Chapter 3 The Truth
How can I pursue Truth? 33
Part 2 Lies Young Women Believe
Chapter 4 Lies About God 41
1 "God is not enough." 42
2 "God is not really involved in my fife." 44
3 "God should fix my problems." 46
4 "God is just like my father." 49
Chapter 5 Lies About Satan 57
5 "Everything bad that happens is spiritual warfare." 59
6 "I've never been exposed to satanic activities." 61
Chapter 6 Lies About Myself 71
7 "Beautiful girls are worth more." 72
8 "I have to perform to be loved and accepted." 77
Chapter 7 Lies About Sexuality 87
9 "It's OK to date whoever I feel like dating." 87
10 "I need a boyfriend." 91
11 "It's not really sex." 96
12 "I can't handle the loneliness of staying pure." 100
Chapter 8 Lies About Relationships 109
13 "It's OK to be one person at home and a different person with others … especially online." 109
14 "If I just had friends, I wouldn't be so lonely." 113
15 "I'm my own authority." 116
Chapter 9 Lies About My Faith 127
16 "My youth pastor is my connection to God." 128
17 "Everyone at church is judging me." 130
18 "Of course I'm a Christian, I …" 134
Chapter 10 Lies About Sin 143
19 "I can't overcome my sin." 143
20 "In certain situations it's OK to break the law or rules if I'm not hurting myself or others." 147
21 "I can't control myself when I'm stressed or PMS-ing." 149
Chapter 11 Lies About Media 157
22 "The benefits of constant media use outweigh the harm." 158
23 "It's not a waste of time … even if it is, it's OK." 161
Chapter 12 Lies About the Future 169
24 "Having a career outside the home is more valuable and fulfilling than being 'just' a wife and mom." 169
25 "What I do now doesn't affect the future." 173
Part 3 Overcoming Lies
Chapter 13 How to Stop Fueling the Lies
Stop listening to and dwelling on them 179
Chapter 14 How to Find Freedom from the Lies
Replace lies with the Truth 187
Chapter 15 The Truth that Sets Us Free
Powerful Truths to counter everyday lies 195
A Final Word from Our Hearts to Yours 205
Thanks! 208
Notes 210
Overcoming Lies with the Truth 214
Pull-Out Section: Bible Verses to Counter Specific Lies