Learn to Grow Old

Learn to Grow Old

Learn to Grow Old

Learn to Grow Old

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Overview

In this warm, sensitive, fact-filled book, Paul Tournier deals specifically with many aspects of aging: society's attitude towards the elderly; second careers; the quality of life; financial difficulties; boredom; health; loneliness; and facing death. He believes we must all learn to grow old, and that the process is most successfully accomplished when we prepare and plan for it throughout life. Tournier offers a variety of suggestions to help make growing old not an end but a new beginning, filled with purpose and hope. He suggests ways to remain active and to use leisure to its best advantage without letting it become a tyrant. He also provides insights on taking up new interests, such as becoming involved with young people and new ideas, and learning to pray, to meditate, to acquire wisdom, and to draw increasing strength and inspiration from the reality of divine presence and power.

Product Details

ISBN-13: 9781620324158
Publisher: Wipf & Stock Publishers
Publication date: 09/01/2012
Pages: 256
Sales rank: 683,650
Product dimensions: 5.50(w) x 8.40(h) x 2.10(d)

About the Author

Paul Tournier (1898-1986) was a general practitioner in Geneva and also an active Christian. In 1940, he published his first book, La Medecine de la Personne, later translated into English as The Healing of Persons. He changed his medical practice by taking most of his time for listening and talking to his patients, not only considering the physical dimension of their being but also the psychological and spiritual dimensions. In 1947, he founded the International Group of Medicine of the Person. He wrote many books which were widely received throughout the world and were translated into more than thirty languages.

Table of Contents

I Work and Leisure

What the sociologists say 1

Leisure - a 'frightening prospect'? 4

A difficult reconversion 7

The two turning-points of life 9

Preparing for retirement 12

Surprises 15

The fear of liberty 18

Personal development and spontaneity 21

The morality of duty 24

Duty and pleasure are complementary 26

'Idleness is the mother of all the vices' 29

The break with routine 32

II Towards a More Humane

Contempt for the old 36

An impersonal society 39

The mission of the old 42

The medicine of the person 44

A wider vision 47

The irrational dimension 50

Overcoming old prejudices 52

Overcoming contempt 55

The development of the child 58

Personal contact 62

Young and old 65

Grandparents and grandchildren 67

Make contact with the old! 70

Respect for the person 72

Real contact with all 75

III The Condition of the Old

My privileges 78

Easing retirement regulations 81

The resources of the retired 86

National pride 89

Solitude. 91

Growing old together 93

Family and friendship 96

Social integration 99

Health 102

Hospitalization 104

Living quarters 107

Do it yourself! 109

Educate yourself! 112

Boredom 115

A decisive change 118

IV A Second Career

A place for the old 122

Not a hobby, but a career 124

An interesting and useful career 128

Contrast with the professional career 131

A more personal career 134

Giving up giving orders 138

More imagination! 142

More initiative! 146

More diversity! 150

Further examples 153

The search for divine inspiration 155

Death caused by retirement 158

The work of Professor Jores 160

Life as a task to be fulfilled 164

V Acceptance

Who can claim to have fulfilled his task? 169

Accepting the unfulfilled 171

Must we accept everything? 175

The meaning of acceptance 177

In harmony with oneself 180

Positive acceptance 183

Has old age a meaning? 187

Detachment from the world 190

Renouncing without resigning 192

A wider love 195

A less possessive love 197

The sublimation of the instinct of power 200

Outside the hierarchy and money 203

Each stage has its meaning 206

Towards a more universal meaning 209

Surrender 212

VI Faith

Old age foreshadows death 215

Is it easier for believers to accept? 218

Faith does not exclude anxiety 221

Philosophical positions 224

The Christian position 227

The victory of faith 229

Thoughts of a priest-doctor 232

Resurrection 233

What do we know of the beyond? 236

The resurrection of Jesus Christ 237

Personal experience 238

Notes 242

What People are Saying About This

From the Publisher

"Dr. Tournier wrote this book when he was seventy-two years of age. His accounts of a meaningful life and a meaningful death will enrich the reader—yet he offers no easy answers. This writing, which blends his experience as a doctor with a firm grasp of biblical knowledge and psychological theory, will stir the imagination of the reader of whatever age and of whatever faith. His ability to express complex existential truths and to encourage faith, honest doubt and hope is an astonishing legacy."
—John Cox, Professor Emeritus of Psychiatry, Keele University, and former Secretary General of the World Psychiatric Association.

"This very positive book gives a down-to-earth, realistic, and constructive perspective on aging for readers of any age. It is excellent for both professional and lay persons."
Eternity

"A book as important as this one ought to be read by persons in their twenties, and should be required reading for those reaching forty."
The Christian Century

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