In the modern era that we live in this is a situation that I have
personally faced. I have met several women over the internet that
still live with their ex-husbands and boyfriends. According to them
nothing is going on physically and sexually with their former lovers.
I am looking at the situation from a male perspective on the outside
looking and personally I believe that this is no way to start a new
relationship but that's just my personal opinion. Others may have a
different outlook especially the parties living together as former lovers.
They may be raising their children together or just be roommates living
together. I am surely not the only person to experience this kind of odd
living situations with an ex couple. This can lead to feelings of mistrust
and deception from the very beginning of a new relationship. Now let's
take a look at the topic at hand. I believe that a woman who still lives
with an ex-lover still holds an emotional and physical connection to him
especially if they have children together. That in itself creates a bond
that lasts for a lifetime. They also have history and memories together
that also lasts forever. With this knowledge women are also naturally of
jealous of other women trespassing on their human male property
especially if they are housing, feeding and taking care of his basic needs
of survival. With this being said I do not believe that they are willing to
share the love and affection that she has for a man that lives with her.
At the very least she will assert her female dominance and control over
him using her sexuality to subdue him. Even if he has moved on to
another woman she can allow this to happen knowing that she can
have him intimately anytime that she wants. That fact alone empowers
her to exert her feline instincts and toy with him and his new lover.
Again others will disagree with my analysis and sugar coat this
dysfunctional union between a man and a woman with a past sexual
and relationship history who for some reason or another choose to
live together as alleged platonic roommates. The average person who
has had sexual relations will find comfort in the arms of a past lover.
