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Jewish Wisdom for Daily Life: Sayings of Rabbi Menahem Mendl of Kotzk

Jewish Wisdom for Daily Life: Sayings of Rabbi Menahem Mendl of Kotzk

by Miriam Chaikin, Gabriel Lisowski

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Rabbi Menahem Mendl was a Hassidic master renowned for his wisdom throughout Europe. The spiritual leader of the Jews in a small stetl called Kotzk in a corner of Poland, he was nevertheless so famous that he was he was referred to far and wide as the Kotzker. His wise sayings—about human nature, how to live, and the world of the spirit—were repeated and passed around, and, though he kept no records, they have been savored and preserved through the years. This beautifully produced collection gathers more than 130 of his sayings and joins them with elegant cut-paper illustrations by the rabbi’s great-great-great-grandson, the illustrator Gabriel Lisowki, who has also provided an introduction about his ancestor.

Jewish Wisdom for Daily Life is a treasure for spiritual seekers or anyone who enjoys life’s lessons distilled into trenchant and memorable aphoristic gems. Here are a few:

Everyone has something to teach, even a thief. If he fails he tries again. If he finds nothing of value, he takes what he finds.

There is nothing more whole than a broken heart.

Angels are God’s favorite creatures. It’s easy to see why. They are not jealous and they like to sing.

Whoever believes in miracles is an imbecile. Whoever does not is an atheist.

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Product Details

ISBN-13: 9781628723878
Publisher: Arcade
Publication date: 05/13/2014
Format: NOOK Book
Pages: 224
File size: 7 MB

About the Author

Miriam Chaikin was born in Jerusalem and raised in New York. She was an editor and editorial director for children’s books at various publishing houses and has published over thirty books for young readers. In 1984 she won the Sydney Taylor Award for Body of Work. Her poetry and humorous verse has appeared in national magazines. She lives in New York. Gabriel Lisowski was born in Jerusalem and raised in Vienna and Warsaw. He is an internationally published author and illustrator of children’s books and lives in Warsaw.

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The cities, towns, and villages of Europe were full of thriving Jewish communities before the advent of Hitler in the 1930s. Most Jews were religious, and most belonged to one of two main schools of Jewish thought, though there were also subgroups and splinters of one group or another.

One school, conservative, believed Jews ought to follow established Jewish law and to worship God with established prayer and by established custom. The other main school, known as Hasidim, which is Yiddish for "the Pious," believed God should be worshipped more spontaneously, with joy and with song and dance.

Although large communities of Jews settled in most European cities, Hasidim in Eastern Europe tended to establish themselves in shtetls, Yiddish for "little towns." These were self-contained communities, comprised of little wooden houses on unpaved streets, a main synagogue, smaller places of worship, a study house, schools, a court, a cemetery, and a busy marketplace. The head of the shtetl was a charismatic Hasidic rebbe, who was a tzadik or holy Jew, someone whom followers believed to have access to Heaven and whom they accepted as their undisputed leader — like a little king.

Such a Hasidic master was my maternal great-great-great grandfather, Rabbi Menahem Mendl (1787 — 1859) of Kotzk, in Poland. He was famous throughout Europe as a wise and strong-willed spiritual leader and was often called simply the Kotzker or Reb Mendl. People came from everywhere seeking his advice. The advice he gave was not always welcome, though. He was a stern and demanding leader. He minced no words and peppered his speech with insults.

Despite his reputation for rigor, young Jewish scholars came from far and wide to study with him. They had heard that the rebbe disdained the material world, ate little, and cared nothing for refinements of any kind. Even so, it is likely their first impression was one of surprise. Greeting them in the rebbe's study was not a neatly dressed man with a combed beard but a tall, thin man with a straggly beard, dressed in rags and wearing house slippers.

His reputation and appearance put no one off. The brightest and most committed remained to become his disciples. "His Hasidim," as he called them, revered him and strove to be like him, to the point of dressing in shabby clothes and replacing their shoes with house slippers. Their rebbe did not disappoint them. His scholarship and his reputation as a teacher led to the establishment of his own school of Hasidism. He was one of the great religious leaders who made of Poland a "Makom Torah," a place for masters in Torah to study.

Self-examination, truth, and the suppression of ego were central to the Kotzker's teaching. Some Hasidim in other cities and towns were opposed to him. The son of one rabbi, despite his father's opposition, went to study with the Kotzker. When he returned, his father asked him what he had learned in Kotzk. He said he had learned that it is possible for a person to become higher than an angel, if he wishes it, and that while God created the Beginning, that was only a start and it was up to the rest of us to carry on and build further.

Abraham Joshua Heschel, in his book A Passion for the Truth, finds similarities between the Kotzker and the Danish philosopher Soren Kirkegaard. Both advocated suppressing the ego, the love of self, which they believed led to corruption. To both, the inner life of a person was the main concern. Both sought to strip off the outer garment of belief, the ritual acts, and to strive for truth.

Heschel also compares the rebbe to other Jewish thinkers. Vilna, in Lithuania, was once the center of Jewish learning. Rabbi Elijah, the Gaon (genius) of Vilna, was famous for his work correcting classical texts. While the Gaon was antagonistic to the Kotzker's Hasidic movement, the Kotzker had a high opinion of the Gaon and openly admired him. According to Heschel, "The Gaon attained tranquility through Torah study; the Kotzker delved into spheres where spiritual volcanoes erupt. His reward was restlessness and agitation."

The family name of my ancestor Reb Mendl, the Kotzker, was Morgenstern. He established the Kotzker dynasty, as such families were known. His eldest son, Rabbi David Morgenstern, succeeded him as the Kotzker rebbe and was in turn succeeded by other Morgensterns. The family kept the Kotzker rabbinate until the outbreak of World War II, when Hitler's troops invaded Poland and marched across Europe.

Hitler turned the known world upside down in his quest for world domination. His forces rounded up and killed most Jews in work or death camps. Jewish families who managed to escape slaughter were uprooted and scattered to any port or place in the world that would take them in. Members of my immediate family sought refuge in Palestine, a British protectorate. My parents met there and there I was born, in Jerusalem, in 1946.

My father became Polish consul in Palestine until our family returned to Poland in 1948. Ten years later we moved to Vienna, where my father worked for the International Atomic Energy Agency.

Other members of our family remained behind, in Palestine, soon to be called Israel. My grandmother Regina was one of them. She made regular trips to Vienna to see us. As my Hasidic background always interested me, I would question her about Menahem Mendl whenever she came. My questions continued by letter when she returned home.

She told about the Rebbe's fame and that he had always liked to be by himself, even when he was young. Later, when he became the Rebbe, he sought opportunities for solitude, to be rid of the mundane distractions that prevented him from basking in God's light. One day, no one knows why, he isolated himself from the people and remained so for the last twenty years of his life. There are conflicting stories about what drove him to this, but there are no clear answers. An air of mystery remains.

In my grandmother's mind, he did it to be rid of flatterers and the constant pleas of his people, so that he might better concentrate his thoughts on God's glory. He confined himself to one room of his house. The room had two doors. Hasidim still came to him to learn. The brightest, content to be in his shadow, assembled in an adjacent room. Through a slightly open door he taught them Torah and Jewish texts. The second door led to the prayer room. When Hasidim came for religious service, he opened the door and from within joined his people in prayer.

Even in seclusion, during this period of separation, the Kotzker managed to conduct a private life, raising a family, marrying off his children to the sons and daughters of other Hasidic masters, and making himself available to other Hasidim to discuss communal matters.

In Hasidic circles it is said that each year, before the holiday of Passover, he burned the notes he used to teach. As a result, no written words of his remain. But his Hasidim salvaged what they could of his sayings and passed them on in writing and orally, and as the sayings circulated down the ages they came to be collected and quoted in books and articles.

My grandmother passed on to me many of them. My mother told me others. Our ancestor, the Kotzker, was a favorite subject of conversation in the family, and my uncle and brother and other relatives never tired of telling stories about him and repeating his sayings. Whenever I met someone who knew my family connection, I heard more stories, more sayings.

Here is a selection of sayings for which Rabbi Menahem Mendl Morgenstern of Kotzk became famous.



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Table of Contents

The Sayings,
About Human Nature,
About Life,
About the Spiritual,
For Further Reading,

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