Table of Contents
An introduction to Your End 10
A Brief History of Funerals 12
Part I It's Your Body
Burial and Beyond: From Six Feet Under to Sixty Miles Up 18
Common Methods 19
How to Avoid Being Buried Alive 21
Getting Creative with Cremains 24
Worksheet: My Cremation Creations 28
Eco-Friendly Methods 29
Pet Cemeteries (The Not-Evil Kind) 30
Funeral Traditions Explained: Viewings 34
Futuristic Methods 37
There's No Dying in Baseball! 41
Donation Methods 42
Becoming Poor Yorick 44
Funeral Traditions Explained: Nine Nights 47
Traditional Methods 48
Turning Body Art into Fine Art 50
Worksheet: What to Do with My Body 51
Build Your Own Coffin 52
Worksheet: How to Contain My Remains 53
You Can Take It With You 54
How to Fend Off Grave Robbers 56
Celebrity Burial Hoards 60
Worksheet: My Burial Accessories 62
Worksheet: My Final Fashion Statement 64
What Can Be Cremated with Me? 66
Funeral Traditions Explained: Wakes 67
Part II It's Your Funeral
It's Your Funeral, and You Can Die If You Want To 70
Funeral Traditions of Major Religions 71
Funeral Traditions Explained: Shemira 73
Funerals for the Living 74
Funeral Crashers 77
Choosing the Perfect Venue 78
Worksheet: My Funeral Venue 81
Assigning Funeral Roles 82
Worksheet: My Funeral Dream Team 84
Funeral Themes 85
Fashioning Your Funeral 87
Worksheet: My Funeral Design 90
The Eulogy 91
Eulogize (But Don't Plagiarize) 93
Worksheet: My Eulogy 96
Funeral Readings
Worksheet: My Funeral Readings 100
Funeral Music 101
A Celebrity Performer to Entertain Your Mourners 103
Worksheet: My Final Playlist 104
Worksheet: My "Do Not Play" List 105
Rent-a-Mourner 106
Funeral Traditions Explained: Jazz Funerals 107
Worksheet: Photo Finish 108
Setting a Selfie Policy 110
Rewarding Your Funeral Guests 111
Worksheet: My Guest List and Pest List 112
Lightening the Mood 114
Worksheet: How to Lighten the Mood 115
Planning Your Eternal Rest 116
Worksheet: My Eternal Rest 120
Part III Its' Your Legacy
Don't You Forget about Me (Ever) 124
Marking Your Postmortem Territory 125
Iconic Funerary Monuments 130
Epitaphs 131
Worksheet My Perfect Monument 136
Famous Graveside Rituals 138
Worksheet: My Graveside Ritual 142
Funeral Traditions Explained: Famadihana 143
Extraordinary Cemeteries You Need to Visit (Before You End Up in One) 144
Obituaries 147
Worksheet: My Obituary 150
Your Material Legacy 152
Worksheet: Who Gets My Stuff 154
Where Theresa Mill 155
Funeral Traditions Explained: Month's Mind 157
Your Digital Legacy 158
Worksheet: My Digital Assets 159
Your Intangible Legacy 160
Worksheet: Ten Things I'm Proud of Accomplishing 161
Coming Back to Haunt Someone 162
Worksheet: My Haunting Game Plan 163
Worksheet: A Message to My Loved Ones 164
How to Craft a Bucket List 166
Worksheet: My Bucket List 167
Epilogue: The End of the Beginning of Your End 168
Further Reading 170
Index 172
Acknowledgments 176