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Prepare Yourself
Before going out on a date, and that also a special one, prepare yourself for it, after all you are out to impress a girl and make her fall for you. Remember, first impressions are lasting impressions. Don’t make any blunder or mistakes that you would repent later. Opportunities never knock at your door twice. Don’t ruin your chances with the girl even before you get started. Plan your strategy, chalk it out and implement it.
Before asking a girl out, try to know as much as you can about her preferences, and her likes and dislikes, and organize you outing accordingly. Know you budget and make a demarcation as to where and how you are going to spend your money. Don’t be stingy, but at the same time there is no need to be spendthrift also. Remember, today is just your first date and if all goes well, there will be many more to come. Look out for a place which will be well within your limits. First of all, decide, do you want a whole day outing, ending with the dinner or is it just a movie and a dinner you are planning for or you would like to have dinner and then go out for dance and drinks later. It would all depend on how much money and time you would have on you. One might think that just going out for dinner won’t give sufficient time to woo a girl and make her fall for him, on the first day itself, and would prefer spending the whole day out with her. In that case, you would require lots of planning. You might opt for a picnic or a day out excursion or group outing followed by an exclusive private dinner for just two of you. In case, you think you would manage just with a dinner, and dance following it later, your strategy would be entirely different. Be very sure, to book a restaurant in advance for your dinner. Your eating joint depends on the amount of money you can, or rather you want to spend on the girl. Don’t leave the table booking for the last moment. You don’t want to be embarrassed by taking your girlfriend to a restaurant without any prior booking and to find it all full. Keep in mind that that the place you have booked, serves the cuisine of your girlfriends taste. Now that it is decided how and where you are taking your date, take care of your personal physical appearance.
It’s very natural to be anxious and nervous before your first date. Relax your reflexes and be properly rested. You must take a proper sleep the night before. You don’t want to be haggard looking with puffy eyes and yawning in between your conversation. That would give an impression that you are not enjoying and are getting bored. Don’t ruin your evening ever before it has started. Proper rest sharpens the mind also and put one on alert.
