How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker

by Janis Spindel

Overview

Entertaining and empowering, What Men Really Want is the next best thing to a private appointment with the nation's premier matchmaker.

The hardest part about dating is understanding the mysterious inner workings of a man's brain. How can women know what men are really looking for if men don't tell them?

They can ask Janis.

With over twenty years of experience as a professional matchmaker, Janis Spindel has a unique insider's perspective on contemporary dating culture. Her male clients tell her exactly what they want in a relationship, and here Janis offers women a step-by-step plan for winning a man's heart, such as:

• It's okay to ask a guy for his number, as long as you do it with confidence.
• Don't wear your work clothes on a date, ever! Freshen up before meeting a guy.
• Pay him a compliment! He's human. He'll love it.

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Product Details

ISBN-13:	9781101213506
Publisher:	Penguin Publishing Group
Publication date:	08/28/2007
Sold by:	Penguin Group
Format:	eBook
Pages:	272
File size:	1 MB
Age Range:	18 Years

About the Author

Janis Spindel gets people married. She has been a matchmaker for over 20 years, with nearly 2000 successful marriages under her belt, and is the award-winning author of Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than One Year and How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America’s Top Matchmaker.
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Editorial Reviews

Spindel has assembled this dating guide based on her 13 years of successful professional matchmaking and understanding of what men want in a relationship. Using client quotes, real situations, and reflective questions, she offers advice on every aspect of dating, from where to meet potential dates to breaking up with unsuitable partners. Topics like what to talk about on the first date, how long to wait until having sex, and when to start meeting the other party's friends are considered. The courage to be honest as a factor in desirability is repeated throughout the text. The book's layout is appealing and the author's tone respectful of the reader and her clients. Recommended for all libraries.

—Deborah Bigelow

Library Journal

The reigning queen of the matchmaking world.”—New York Times Magazine
 
“Even if you can afford to hire dating coach Spindel (a talk-show fixture, she doesn't come cheap), this fun-to-read guide provides an economical short-cut to finding, courting and keeping a man. With a light touch, Spindel comes across chatty and sympathetic as a good girlfriend, but with the authority of a wise aunt.… Spindel's common sense approach makes it clear that finding love isn't a matter of hard-and-fast ‘rules,’ but a levelheaded mix of knowledge, awareness, observation and preparation.”—Publishers Weekly
 
“Janis Spindel falls somewhere between Dolly Levi, the matchmaker immortalized in Hello, Dolly!, and Bruce Wasserstein, the deal-making investment banker.”—The Wall Street Journal

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