Hold Me Tight: Seven Conversations for a Lifetime of Love

Hold Me Tight: Seven Conversations for a Lifetime of Love

by Sue Johnson
Hold Me Tight: Seven Conversations for a Lifetime of Love

Hold Me Tight: Seven Conversations for a Lifetime of Love

by Sue Johnson

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A practical, hands-on approach to relationships, no matter what state that relationship is in. This is all about cultivating love that lasts, without all the steps you’ve heard from practically every other source.

Strengthen and deepen your relationships with this "much-needed" (Harville Hendrix, PhD) guide that has sold over one million copies, through revelatory practical exercises, seven profound conversations, and sage advice from “the best couple’s therapist in the world” (John Gottman, PhD, bestselling author)

 
Are you looking to enrich a healthy relationship, revitalize a tired one, or rescue one gone awry? We all want a lifetime of love, support, and companionship. But sometimes we need a little help.
 
Enter Dr. Sue Johnson, developer of Emotionally Focused Couple Therapy and “the most original contributor to couple’s therapy to come along in the last thirty years,” according to Dr. William J. Doherty, PhD. In Hold Me Tight, Dr. Johnson shares her groundbreaking and remarkably successful program for creating stronger, more secure relationships.
 
The message of Hold Me Tight is simple: Forget about learning how to argue better, analyzing your early childhood, making grand romantic gestures, or experimenting with new sexual positions. Instead, get to the emotional underpinnings of your relationship by recognizing that you are emotionally attached to and dependent on your partner in much the same way that a child is on a parent for nurturing, soothing, and protection. Dr. Johnson teaches that the way to enhance or save a relationship is to be open, attuned, and responsive to each other and to reestablish emotional connection. With this in mind, she focuses on key moments in a relationship and uses them as touch points for seven healing conversations, including:  
  • Recognizing the Demon Dialogues
  • Finding the Raw Spots
  • Revisiting a Rocky Moment
  • Forgiving Injuries
  • Keeping Your Love Alive
 These conversations give you insight into the defining moments in your relationship and guide you in reshaping these moments to create a secure and lasting bond.
 
Through stories from Dr. Johnson’s practice, illuminating advice, and practical exercises, you will learn how to nurture, protect, and grow your relationship, ensuring a lifetime of love.
 
 
 

Product Details

ISBN-13: 9780316113007
Publisher: Little, Brown and Company
Publication date: 04/08/2008
Series: The Dr. Sue Johnson Collection , #1
Pages: 320
Sales rank: 11,708
Product dimensions: 6.20(w) x 9.10(h) x 1.10(d)

About the Author

Dr. Sue Johnson, a recipient of the Order of Canada, is an internationally recognized leader in the field of couple interventions. A clinical psychologist and Distinguished Research Professor at Alliant International University in San Diego and a professor at the University of Ottawa, Dr. Johnson is the primary developer of Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) and has trained thousands of therapists in North America and around the world. She is the author of numerous articles and books, including Love Sense and Created for Connection.

Table of Contents

Introduction     3
A New Light on Love     11
Love-A Revolutionary New View     13
Where Did Our Love Go? Losing Connection     28
Emotional Responsiveness-The Key to a Lifetime of Love     40
Seven Transforming Conversations     63
Recognizing the Demon Dialogues     65
Finding the Raw Spots     98
Revisiting a Rocky Moment     121
Hold Me Tight-Engaging and Connecting     141
Forgiving Injuries     165
Bonding Through Sex and Touch     185
Keeping Your Love Alive     204
The Power of Hold Me Tight     231
Healing Traumatic Wounds-The Power of Love     233
Ultimate Connection-Love as the Final Frontier     252
Acknowledgments     267
Glossary     271
References     281
Index     291

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