Table of Contents
Introduction to Second Edition 2
Introduction to First Edition 4
Part I Understanding High-Conflict Personalities 11
1 The Problem: Personalities Drive Conflict 13
2 The Pattern: An Enduring Pattern of Blame 25
3 Borderline Personalities: Love You, Hate You 47
4 Narcissistic Personalities: I'm Very Superior 75
5 Antisocial Personalities: Con Artists 99
6 Histrionic Personalities: Always Dramatic 129
7 Paranoid Personalities: Always Suspicious 149
8 Negative Advocates: Family, Friends and Professionals 163
Part II Managing and Resolving Their Disputes 181
9 Bonding: Providing Security and Limits 183
10 Structure: Containing Emotions and Focusing on Tasks 197
11 Reality Testing: Cognitive Distortions and Legal Standards 217
12 Consequences: Motivating Reflection and Behavior Change 231
13 Presenting Your Case: Behavior Patterns, Not Labels 243
14 A United Approach: The Key to Resolving Their Disputes 253
Appendices 259
References 272
Acknowledgments 274
About the Author 276
About High Conflict Institute 277