Get Off Your "But": How to End Self-Sabotage and Stand Up for Yourself

by Sean Stephenson, Anthony Robbins (Foreword by)

Overview

A hands-on guide for overcoming the forces of negativity and self-sabotage

Written for the active, not passive participant, this book offers an inspiring program for overcoming big bumps in the road, eliminating excuses, ending insecurities, and standing up for happiness and success in life. Based on the author's personal story, clinical training and work as a therapist, and extensive experience speaking and teaching, Get Off Your "But" shows how to overcome excuses for emotional paralysis, build self-confidence at work and at home, and achieve a higher level of success in career and relationships.

Product Details

ISBN-13:	9780470399934
Publisher:	Wiley
Publication date:	04/20/2009
Pages:	240
Sales rank:	538,489
Product dimensions:	6.00(w) x 9.10(h) x 1.00(d)

About the Author

Sean Clinch Stephenson is one of the leading authorities on the deconstruction of self-sabotage (what he calls getting people off their BUTs). A psychotherapist and internationally known professional speaker, he publishes audio and video programs from his online site TimeToStand.com and has a private psychotherapy practice.

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Table of Contents

Acknowledgments vii

Foreword by Anthony Robbins ix

Born to Kick BUT: The Short Story of a Big Life 1

Lesson 1 Start Connecting 34

How Rene Got Off His BUT 64

Lesson 2 Watch What You Say to Yourself! 70

How Bobby Got Off His BUT 97

Lesson 3 Master Your Physical Confidence 103

How Andréa Got Off Her BUT 132

Lesson 4 Focus Your Focus 138

How Mike Got Off His BUT 159

Lesson 5 Choose Your Friends Wisely 164

How Peter Got Off His BUT 188

Lesson 6 Take Full Responsibility 193

One Last Thing . . . 220

Resources 221

The Author 225

 

Editorial Reviews

In Stephenson’s powerful and practical debut, the psychotherapist and professional speaker reveals how to banish self-doubt and insecurity in a world where they may seem omnipresent. Beginning with the source of his own struggle, a rare and painful disease that causes his bones to weaken and break under minimal pressure, Stephenson offers a structured approach to a wide array of topics, including dating, weight loss, lack of motivation, friendship, finances, and goals. While his advice is encouraging and insightful, Stephenson’s text is also notable for examples, mottos and resonant personal stories of enormous obstacles and accomplishments (his work with the Clinton administration, attaining his Ph.D., opening his own private practice). Though his unwavering optimism can be daunting (bringing one’s day-to-day gripes into sharp relief), Stephenson is empowering and uplifting throughout, and should prove helpful whether facing a lifelong challenge or a more immediate battle. (May) (PublishersWeekly.com, May 18, 2009)

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Starred Review.

In Stephenson's powerful and practical debut, the psychotherapist and professional speaker reveals how to banish self-doubt and insecurity in a world where they may seem omnipresent. Beginning with the source of his own struggle, a rare and painful disease that causes his bones to weaken and break under minimal pressure, Stephenson offers a structured approach to a wide array of topics, including dating, weight loss, lack of motivation, friendship, finances, and goals. While his advice is encouraging and insightful, Stephenson's text is also notable for examples, mottos and resonant personal stories of enormous obstacles and accomplishments (his work with the Clinton administration, attaining his Ph.D., opening his own private practice). Though his unwavering optimism can be daunting (bringing one's day-to-day gripes into sharp relief), Stephenson is empowering and uplifting throughout, and should prove helpful whether facing a lifelong challenge or a more immediate battle.
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