Femdom for Nice Girls: A Self-Guided Manual for the Caring Mistress

by Lucy Fairbourne

Overview

From childhood onwards, females are encouraged into subservient roles, so that taking the lead can feel strange and unnatural, even "unfeminine" and "not nice". We are discouraged from aggressively grabbing what we want, and instead encouraged to sacrifice and nurture. We are taught to be prizes, not competitors. Surely, there has to be more to life than that. Many men - the ones who value assertiveness (and even a little cruelty) in their female lovers would agree. So would many women. If you're one of these women, or if your man is one of those men, then this book could be just what you and he have been searching for.

Chapter List:

• An Introduction for the Hesitant Mistress
• Guidance on the Workbook Sections
• Boons
• Quests and Tasks
• Erotic Punishment
• Ritual and Role-Play
• Orgasm Control
• Ten Basic Rules

Product Details

ISBN-13:	9781905605521
Publisher:	Velluminous Press
Publication date:	10/20/2017
Pages:	106
Sales rank:	978,436
Product dimensions:	6.00(w) x 9.00(h) x 0.22(d)

Table of Contents

An Introduction for the Hesitant Mistress

Guidance on the Workbook Sections

Boons

Quickie Boons

Slave-Requested Boons

Reflecting on Boons

Quests and Tasks

Quests Are Not the Same as Boons

Giving a Quest or Task

The Verbal Completion Bonus

Tasks that Lead to Punishment

The Bigger Picture

Impossible Tasks

Handling Failure

Avoiding Micro Management

Slave Skills and Slave Training

Reflecting on Quests and Tasks

Erotic Punishment

Safe Words and Limits

Reasons for Punishment

Why Does He Desire Punishment?

Anticipation

Setting the Scene

Instruments

Administering Punishment

What to Do Next?

Alternative Punishments

Reluctance and Rebellion

Aftercare

Reflecting on Erotic Punishment

Ritual and Role-Play

Rituals

Creating and Establishing Rituals

Rituals of Degradation

Degradation vs Humiliation

Role-Play

Online Role-Play

Reflecting on Ritual and Role-Play

Orgasm Control

Two Kinds of Male Chastity

Fantasy vs Reality

Broaching the Subject

Teasing and Denial

Ruined Orgasms

Orgasm on Command

Enforcement of Chastity

Reflecting on Orgasm Control

Ten Basic Rules