Fatherloss: How Sons of All Ages Come to Terms with the Deaths of Their Dads

Fatherloss: How Sons of All Ages Come to Terms with the Deaths of Their Dads

by Neil Chethik
Fatherloss: How Sons of All Ages Come to Terms with the Deaths of Their Dads

Fatherloss: How Sons of All Ages Come to Terms with the Deaths of Their Dads

by Neil Chethik

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Overview

The first of its kind: a compassionate exploration of how men deal with the deaths of their fathers.

With Hope Edelman's Motherless Daughters, millions of women found comfort in the experiences of other women who had lost their mothers. But until now, no book has been available to guide men through what can be an equally wrenching and life-changing event. Based on a landmark national survey of 300 men, and in-depth interviews with 70 others, FatherLoss is the first book that focuses specifically on how sons cope with the deaths of their dads. Chethik offers rich portraits of a variety of father-son relationships, and focuses on how the death of a father affects sons differently, depending on when in their lives it occurs. He also explores how such cultural figures as Ernest Hemingway, Dwight Eisenhower, and Michael Jordan were affected by the loss of their fathers.

By weaving together the poignant experiences of diverse men and the results of his groundbreaking survey, Chethik offers fresh insight into the unique male grieving process, encouraging men to share an experience too many have been conditioned to endure in silence.


Product Details

ISBN-13: 9780786865321
Publisher: Hachette Books
Publication date: 01/10/2001
Edition description: 1 ED
Pages: 304
Product dimensions: 5.50(w) x 8.25(h) x (d)
Age Range: 13 - 18 Years

About the Author

Neil Chethik, a graduate of Northwestern University's Medill School of Journalism, specializes in writing about the psychology of men. A professional speaker and workshop leader, he has worked on the staffs of newspapers in Florida and California. He lives in Lexington, Kentucky.

Table of Contents

Forewordxi
Introduction1
Part 1The Impact of FatherLoss
13
Chapter 1Torn Asunder--Birth to Age 1717
42
Chapter 2Too Soon--Ages 18 to 3246
66
Chapter 3The Body Blow--Ages 33 to 5569
89
Chapter 4Closing the Circle--Ages 56 and Up93
Part 2Rebounding from FatherLoss
109
Chapter 5Preparing for FatherLoss112
129
Chapter 6The First Days After132
149
Chapter 7Men's Styles of Mourning153
174
Chapter 8How Spouses Help177
192
Chapter 9Life Changes195
212
Chapter 10Does Therapy Help?214
228
Chapter 11Lingerings232
Part 3The Lessons of FatherLoss
Chapter 12Affectionate Fathering249
Appendices
Appendix IThe FatherLoss Survey273
Appendix IIResources for Men Facing Loss279
Appendix IIIFather Films284
Sources286
Acknowledgments302
A Reader's Guide to FatherLoss305
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